g u m 3,131 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 I just wanna know if some of you prefer looks or attitude? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethnic Pop 3,166 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 It has to be a combination of both, like a well blend like I used to like this guy and he was so FINNNNEEEEEE and when we started talking his attitude killed me and I was like nope nope bye. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Boo 629 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 Attitude is more important to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjongkeys 1,201 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 To a certain extent, looks do play a part…but they're not everything. If you have a good personality, that already makes you beautiful. And if you happen to be good-looking, that's just an added bonus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyuSerabii 576 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 Both go hand in hand. He/She has to have a good personality. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, while someone may not think that someone is unattractive, I might think otherwise and vice versa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
affxtionate144 145 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 I say whether someone is good looking or not is what sparks my initial interest in them and the desire to get to know them. But id I get to know them and don't like their personality then I won't stick around them very long. Obviously there are exceptions to both sides of this process. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____shawnee 4,118 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 I honestly don't know... I don't think I know what it feels like to be geniunely interested in someone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PALEMOCHI 3,696 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 looks arent everything but being attract to a person is one small key to a relationship in my point of view Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetjohoney 2,980 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 Yes, to some extent. I would want someone who is physically attractive, but I personally find that someone with a nice personality is also attractive, and in most cases, can make some seem even more attractive. I'm the type of person that feels they need to get to know someone for a while, before they find a relationship worth exploring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knee 2,642 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 Yes, looks are important when finding a relationship. They definitely aren't everything and they're very subjective but they're still usually necessary to an extent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kami_removed Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 Yep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinolover 3,610 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 it's not like they're seperate.. they contribute to the overall feel of someone im not too picky when dating someone i'd rather have an average guy who is pretty insightful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horny fangirl 1,011 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 no, i dont know what ogre shrek looks like, yet, but he still has my heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gayness 2,400 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 I pay attention more to the body and attitude than face. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghettoe 1,955 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 I tend to find people with terrible personalities to be instantly ugly. Seriously, I have seen a guy who I thought he was cute and it can take just one comment for me to be totally put off. I don't think looks are important but physical attraction. I'd much rather date someone with a personality I blend with than someone who is drop dead gorgeous who has a horrid personality because for one, I rarely ever obsess over looks for long. It can take me two weeks to get over a crush and once I get over someone, I am so rarely ever interested again, it's not even funny. I'm not a romantic but if we can't blend well it will be over very quickly. I'm a lady of very short relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ringo 4,146 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 Both are important, but ultimately, their personality is probably going to make or break things for most people. If the person was an ideal type looks-wise, but had a terrible personality (whether they're mean, hateful, dumb as brick, etc), they start looking ugly to me after that. The opposite is true too, even if the person didn't have an ideal appearance, but was loving and kind with a great personality, they would start to look attractive to me. It's all perception of another, in the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 While it's obviously not the most important thing and there are other things to look for in a relationship, I believe attraction is important. And part of that does come from physical appearance, regardless how much personality might come into play. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 It plays a role in the initial attraction, but on the long run, personality is a lot more important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeong jaehyuns boyfriend 10,627 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 yes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Substation 1,388 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 For a romantic relationship? Ofc. Without that physical attraction, we would just end up being friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g u m 3,131 Posted December 14, 2013 Author Share Posted December 14, 2013 For a romantic relationship? Ofc. Without that physical attraction, we would just end up being friends. that's absolutely true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
North and South 4,680 Posted December 14, 2013 Share Posted December 14, 2013 I find a person's looks attractive after I like their attitude, mannerisms, personality and moral values. I'm not talking about pure eye candy or idol stainning. If I like a person, their looks will grow on me to become very attractive in my eyes. I tend not to really focus on looks very much, except in the case of where a guy is really overweight. If a guy is chubby and has a great personality, I'd still like him, but being very overweight is probably the only impediment in terms of "looks" that I can think of in terms of me liking a guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blanc_imc 2,338 Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 It's very important for me, it's what makes me go to that person. But there has to be something that makes you want to stay, you can't be in a long term relationship with someone when the only quality they have is their beauty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Number Eight 514 Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 um yeah, attraction means alot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flex 1,467 Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 Looks, I think, is the first step in finding a relationship, especially when you don't know the person personally. The personality, however, is the deciding factor. It's either you get impressed w/ his attitude or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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