circles 63 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 bc throughout my 22years of living i havent been in any relationship and I enjoy being single but lately I start to think that it makes me being looked down(?) by people around me. I never find being in relationship gives me more joy rather than being single and do everything freely without any force and restriction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NINI 16,268 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 As long as you are happy it's fine, it doesn't matter if you are in a relationship or if you are single :") Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shocking blue 7,514 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 Not really lol I mean I'd rather be single than with someone I don't truly like. A relationship is a commitment and requires effort and time so I don't want to be in one just for the sake of it. If people want to judge me for being single that's their problem haha. I'm only sad if there's someone I really do like but its one-sided :S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aiwazerodesu 5,379 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leerhiyel 1,546 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 Not really. I'd rather be alone than to be with somene and still feel alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lolly21 2,103 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. Everyone is pretty much going through lots of drama and then there's me, who's never stressed lol. I enjoy it so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loketâ™” 4,144 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 all my friends are in relationship but i just have 0 interest in that at the time,i have dancing and studying which im truly committed to and all of boys here aren't my type so it will come with time,I plan on to find someone outside on dance competition since I fall in love automatically when a boy dances *-* so imma rather wait and just have fun :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
versace 9,204 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 never lol i cant imagine being in a relationship at this stage of my life... fuck everyone who looks down on you because ur single Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanille 1,800 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 Yeah. I'm 18 and never been in a relationship. It makes me feel stupid even my younger brother has had gfs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. If you like being single you like being single. If anything I've seen more people look down on the ones that have to absolutely be in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YIXINGISM 947 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. And I don't think there's nothing wrong with being single. Society pressures us too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormie 688 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 It is in all honestly no one elses damn business whether you are single or not!! If you’re happy being single, then be single! Embrace it! Love it! And don’t care what others say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiraishrimp 5,413 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 almost everyone i know is in a relationship and sometimes i feel a bit left out, but then i look at them and realised that they're kind of limited to what they're allowed to do and it makes me happy that i'm not tied down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ღBelle Ame� 1,427 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 I don't think being single is bad, but people tends to look at you with pitiful eyes, like you are gonna be lonely for the rest of your life. Does being with someone automatically makes you happy? Well I don't think so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prompto 449 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No, it shouldn't make you feel ashamed cause there's nothing wrong with being single, even if other ppl make you believe its "lame" or "bad" Relationships, love aren't everything in this life and life can be enjoyed just as much when you're single its like a song i rly like says "life can be lived, life can be loved, alone" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gyunim 1,246 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. Everyone is pretty much going through lots of drama and then there's me, who's never stressed lol. I enjoy it so much. true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darlingunicorn 548 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 Society put pressure on you even you're in a relationship. People will expect you to get engaged, get married, have kid, have second kid etc etc. This will never end. People always complain. Don't worry about it. Love isn't something you can plan. It just happens and bam! Wait for the right time and person. Don't waste your precious emotions for someone who is not worth it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thefrogprince 304 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. It's not shameful at all. i know someone that's single all her life. And while people keep making side remarks about her going to become an "old maiden", she's just there raking all those cash and being rich af. Traveling a lot, amd eating good food. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miss_bangtan 768 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 I don't think being single is bad, but people tends to look at you with pitiful eyes, like you are gonna be lonely for the rest of your life. Does being with someone automatically makes you happy? Well I don't think so. OMG, this!!!! Like I'm so happy being by myself and just hanging out with friends and/or family. Or even being on the forum fangirling. I ain't missing out lol For like nine years I was so determined to be in a relationship and always looking for a man smh I feel good and free now. I'm good being "forever alone" though lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Souloist 3,634 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 Not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 No. I like being single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyanna 2,986 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 Yes.. It seems that both in my high school and college, relationship status works as an indicator of how hot you are (unless you're really really pretty) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milla 277 Posted July 9, 2016 Share Posted July 9, 2016 Not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enyo 203 Posted July 9, 2016 Share Posted July 9, 2016 Sometimes. Most of the time I don't care but when I tell others it becomes really awkward, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athenaeum 81 Posted July 9, 2016 Share Posted July 9, 2016 No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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