✨ Ass Fat ✨ 9,598 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 The title sums it all up.. I have a complicated feelings right now, and it's not like I want to show it off by writing a post here.. Firstly, I'm 18 years old and he's 20 years old.. We work part-time together and it seems like he has some feelings to me, and I also feel the same way, so I confessed to him first. We haven't even dated for 200 days.. Anyway, I'm a high school student who's currently going through an exam period so I can't meet him often for a while.. But the exam period has over and I met him this afternoon. Just like what any other couples would do, we play around, hang out and because suddenly it rained, we stopped by his house (For your information, he lives with his older sister). We talked and played game and suddenly he asked if I wasn't hungry and if I wanted him to buy me something, but because I ate a lot of snacks when we were playing earlier, I rejected it and said that I'm not that hungry. But his expressions changed drastically, so I told him to just buy anything he wants. And he went outside. I played game on his computer but then I realized that it was his own computer, I was curious about what's in his computer so I logged out from the game, right at that time I saw a PC Version of his Kakaotalk. He always shows me everything but he never showed me his Kakaotalk, so I opened it using the same password he used to log into the game. I was really shocked, there was a contact named XXHyung.. No matter who looks at it, that person is a guy, but the first line that popped out was 'I love you~' I was really curious so I opened that chat, and it felt like my head was hit by a big hammer.. I went blank for a second because I don't know what should I do.. xxHyung: I'm on fire!! OP's Boyfriend: ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ That emoticon is used when you're mad xxHyung: I'm using it because I'm on fire!! OP's Boyfriend: I can't do it todayã… ã… I can't even poop when I want to poop!! xxHyung: Doesn't she like you? OP's Boyfriend: ã…‹ã…‹ I do't know~ xxHyung: Bad guy!!ã… ã… OP's Boyfriend: I can't see anyone beside you xxHyung: Pretty~ I really love you.. I miss you, we haven't met each other today.. OP's Boyfriend: She's cute.. But she doesn't listen to my words.. OP's Boyfriend: Anyway, I'll call you later xxHyung: I got it, I love you~ OP's Boyfriend: I love you tooã…Žã…Ž xxHyung: Ah why~ You can't even go to our dateã… ã… ? OP's Boyfriend: I told you it hurts.. It's hard for me to walk.. xxHyung: Huk.. Then shall we just die tomorrow? OP's Boyfriend: What are you talking aboutã…‹ã…‹ I'm going to sleep xxHyung: I love you~ OP's Boyfriend: I'm going to sleep~ xxHyung: Tell me that you love me OP's Boyfriend: I'm tired xxHyung: Do it now. Quickly! OP's Boyfriend: I already said it earlier.. I said it a lot of times.. xxHyung: That's when we're doing 'it'ã…Žã…Ž xxHyung: You don't love me when you're in your right mind? OP's Boyfriend: Nope. I love you~ Have a nice dream xxHyung: I can't sleep.. Contact me when you wake up.. OP's Boyfriend: Whatã…‹ã…‹ xxHyung: How is it? OP's Boyfriend: Why are you so turned on xxHyung: I'm doing it while thinking of you, I miss you xxHyung: What in the world.. Shall I go to your home now? OP's Boyfriend: No.. I'm going to meet my friend.. xxHyung: Friend? Don't you dare to flirt with your friend.. OP's Boyfriend: What kind of flirtã…‹ã…‹ It's a girl xxHyung: Then fine.. Doesn't she like you? Because I edited those photos, they're not in orderã… ã… Just judging from their chat, it seems like they have done 'it'.. I know I can't just label him a homosexual just because of this chat, and I don't think homosexual is a bad thing.. The thing that matters here is that he has a girlfriend, but how could he just say 'I love you' to another person that easily.. I'm tearing up now.. I don't know how to face him from now on, I don't even have the confidence to look at him. I'm thinking to talk about this to his sister, and now I'm writing this post. And of course there will be some people who think that this is just a made-up story.. I wish it was.. I wish it was a joke.. I didn't write this post to point out all of his wrong-doings, I just need to share this with someone..I really don't know what to do now, especially since I opened his Kakaotalk without his permissions.. I think it's all my fault, I'm really pathetic.. Anyway, thanks for reading this long post and if I said something that offends any of you, I'm sorry. pann [+466][-10] 1. [+193][-1] Isn't he dating you just to hide the fact that he's a homosexual? 2. [+162][-2] The OP must be really surprised.. Just looking at their chat I think it's true that he's a homosexual.. And I think it's right to break up with him.. You're wrong for looking through his things without his permissions but if you didn't, you will never know thisã… ..I know it's hard for you to believe that but just break up with him.. 3. [+136][-5] If you confessed to him first than it means he's forced to date you.. And I think it's better for you to take this post down before a lot of problems come up.. 4. [+91][-7] If I was you I would be so mad because he's using me just to hide the fact that he's a homosexual, I would also tell him to come out from his closet.. 5. [+46][-1] Isn't he talking about you in that chat..? If it's true then break up with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darling 1,107 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 i would be so pissed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
김민주 16,324 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 I hate when guys date girls just to hide the fact that they're gay. It's a complete disrespect to the girl they're dating to hide that information. How he says she's just a friend when talking to him is just wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KUMA-MON 12,792 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 time to kick his ass goodbye girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miaissocoollike 1,248 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Oh wow, that is complicated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aiwazerodesu 5,379 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 2. [+162][-2] The OP must be really surprised.. Just looking at their chat I think it's true that he's a homosexual.. And I think it's right to break up with him.. You're wrong for looking through his things without his permissions but if you didn't, you will never know thisã… ..I know it's hard for you to believe that but just break up with him.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 xxHyung: Do it now. Quickly!OP's Boyfriend: I already said it earlier.. I said it a lot of times..xxHyung: That's when we're doing 'it'ã…Žã…Ž LOL. Sounds just LIKE a man! Only will say they love you when in the heat of the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Oppa 1,348 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 I hate when guys date girls just to hide the fact that they're gay. It's a complete disrespect to the girl they're dating to hide that information. How he says she's just a friend when talking to him is just wrong. Indeed. You can hide in the closet as much as you can, but don't drag someone else in your lie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janiedee 4,766 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Damn. I'd feel betrayed and honestly humiliated. All those times "together" were just fake and bf just spun her along for a ride. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiaraewiwiarae 6,637 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Not only reading messages without permission, but posting screenshots on Pann. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SNGGYU 2,323 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Damn. I'd feel betrayed and honestly humiliated.thishope she stays strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
black_miri 5,874 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 3. [+136][-5] If you confessed to him first than it means he's forced to date you.. And I think it's better for you to take this post down before a lot of problems come up.. What does it mean? Nobody is forced to date anybody if they don't want to regardless on who confessed first. The boy was free to reject her if he didn't like her..she could have been sad but everyone move on after some time..it seems like he only accepted dating with her so he could hide his sexuality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASS 7,209 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 that was not right to invade his privacy but now that you know break up with him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YEOJU 4,405 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 dump his ass holy shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joymax 18,829 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 poor girl, she was his beard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raniari 457 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Well that sucks, the boyfriend just played her along and that's just mean, Imagine how betrayed she must have felt, everything was fake to him but real to her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jooheon 2,799 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 poor girl will probably have trust issues for the rest of her life now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M O C H I 1,919 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Wow what an asshole. He's been talking behind her back and playing with her feelings. The girl ain't right for looking through his stuff and posting them online but what the guy is doing isn't any better too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pp_bee 219 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Not to be mean but this girl posting the post on pann is also...uh, direspect. I mean, you can just discuss this matter with someone/your best friend and not to discuss them in online, where internet is an open place for anyone to see. But the guy is also no better so yeah....mess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haewon 1,847 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 I don't understand. They were a couple but they didn't date for 200 days? Then they weren't and she playing dumb. Not enough info about their relationship. These account is not grounds for people being so judgmental. Like living as an open gay is easy in real life, let alone in a country like Korea. She's just dumb and gross for making this public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gallinari 516 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 It's nice that she doesn't seem to be homophobic, just that sad that she's become a beard. She should dump his ass and confront him, don't out or talk to his sister yet but talk to him first, ask him things and why would he do that to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baechulgi 974 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Lol dude if he wants a beard he should look for a lesbian who needs a beard or a straight girl who'd be ok with being a beard. I don't think u really need a beard unless ur fam wants u to actually date. Also that's kind of an invasion of privacy to look through ur bf's kakaotalk and post it on the internet .... 4. [+91][-7] If I was you I would be so mad because he's using me just to hide the fact that he's a homosexual, I would also tell him to come out from his closet..Bitch no. OP has every right to be angry in that situation but don't out the dude. Outing someone is just horrible and can ruin the life of person who's been outed cus yall should know society (especially in Korea) can be shitty af towards the lgbt community. There's many teens who become homeless because they were kicked out for being gay or trans and the OP's boyfriend could end up being one of them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baechulgi 974 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 sorry double post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiraishin 1,276 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 I really wish she wouldn't talk to his sister or anyone else about it. Outing someone without their consent is a very grave deed. There's a reason for secrecy, and expecting someone to just come out of his closet like it's the easiest thing in the world, is wrong too. He should have rejected her from the very beginning, but there comes a time when people start to suspect you if you're rejecting everyone around you. It could have been a desperation move, not like it never happened before. Be angry, but don't be naive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellla 1,996 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Oh wow, that is complicated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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