KaniPi 2,626 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 Why do couples (usually the guy) leer at random women, and make lewd comments about her appearance. As a result, the girlfriend due to her own insecurities (instead of telling him off) they verbally attack the random person, such as calling them ugly or fat, even when they are there. For example: Couple were waiting for the train. Guy has his back to a random girl sitting down, minding her own business. Girlfriend asks him why he is only facing her, he replies "Don't want to look at that girl". She suddenly states whilst staring at her, "She's not that pretty." whilst chuckling. Then, like considering the girl as a zoo animal, she permits him to stare at her. So the guy either stares/makes comments, then their girlfriend say really mean things to that girl who has done nothing, for no reason. Are they not content with what they have? I mean, fair enough you cannot completely control everything, but making it obvious, is just plain awkward. What will people achieve, by doing things like that. Blame the girl for simply existing? --- Likewise, girls in relationships can also say/do the same to random guys. Then the boyfriend, could make rude comments or be aggressive towards them, even if they appear to not care, but deep down they don't like it. --- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lugoose 11,398 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 I've never seen this happen though maybe i'm just not out enough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D a n t e 1,723 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 Cause many girls are just bitches who like to bash other girls to feel better about themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faces 5,832 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 If I had a gf that started staring at a person in a lustful way I'd only take out my anger on my girlfriend, smack her in the face. I wouldn't take out my anger on the random person, unless they flirt back. DON'T DO THAT OMG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeZee 1,603 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 Sounds like two immature people. If I stare at another woman my wife will say, "She's hot, right?" or something like that. I do the same if she starts undressing a guy with her eyes. We don't have an open relationship or anything, but we both know that there's nothing wrong with looking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- 967 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 that is fucked up :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kagehina 802 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 because their relationship must be so bland and shitty that they have to rag on other people to make themselves more interested and entertained Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hailanal 165 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 lol wat a situation like that would happen? in this situation it's weird that the boyfriend PUTS/involves his girlfriend in the situation like that... instead of just acting normally lol. but in any other situation it would insecurity on one person's side or i don't know... sadly weird relationship dynamic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted June 23, 2016 Author Share Posted June 23, 2016 If I had a gf that started staring at a person in a lustful way I'd only take out my anger on my girlfriend, smack her in the face. I wouldn't take out my anger on the random person, unless they flirt back. You could just tell them off. I've never seen this happen though maybe i'm just not out enough You're lucky. This has happened to me many times. I thought this was pretty common. Sounds like two immature people. If I stare at another woman my wife will say, "She's hot, right?" or something like that. I do the same if she starts undressing a guy with her eyes. We don't have an open relationship or anything, but we both know that there's nothing wrong with looking. Glancing is alright as an absolute minimal because you can't close your eyes, when you're outside, but I think staring is really inappropriate, especially if you are in a relationship. It makes that other person feel very awkward, and pretty much like an object, if you're making it very obvious. lol wat a situation like that would happen? in this situation it's weird that the boyfriend PUTS/involves his girlfriend in the situation like that... instead of just acting normally lol. but in any other situation it would insecurity on one person's side or i don't know... sadly weird relationship dynamic Its a true situation. Believe it or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeZee 1,603 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 You could just tell them off. You're lucky. This has happened to me many times. I thought this was pretty common. Glancing is alright as an absolute minimal because you can't close your eyes, when you're outside, but I think staring is really inappropriate, especially if you are in a relationship. It makes that other person feel very awkward, and pretty much like an object, if you're making it very obvious. Its a true situation. Believe it or not. No, staring was the wrong word. It's much, much more subtle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted June 23, 2016 Author Share Posted June 23, 2016 No, staring was the wrong word. It's much, much more subtle I hope you don't mind me saying this, but why... if you already have a partner, since that other random person will not be interested especially if they know you are taken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oh Devonne 272 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 lol that's normal + that girls doesn't even know you're talking shit about her so who cares Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeZee 1,603 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 I hope you don't mind me saying this, but why... if you already have a partner, since that other random person will not be interested especially if they know you are taken. Huh? Why look at someone that you find attractive? Not sure how old you are, but this is no big deal for most married people. The ring doesn't turn me into a machine who can only be attracted to one woman. Admiring beauty is different than wanting to cheat on your partner. Only an insecure person would care about this. I'm not the hottest man on Earth. I know this--my wife knows this. So I don't care if she checks out some hunk that looks like he just walked off a runway. She also shares my feelings. Also, I don't care if a guy checks her out (and she doesn't care if a woman does the same to me.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted June 23, 2016 Author Share Posted June 23, 2016 Huh? Why look at someone that you find attractive? Not sure how old you are, but this is no big deal for most married people. The ring doesn't turn me into a machine who can only be attracted to one woman. Admiring beauty is different than wanting to cheat on your partner. Only an insecure person would care about this. I'm not the hottest man on Earth. I know this--my wife knows this. So I don't care if she checks out some hunk that looks like he just walked off a runway. She also shares my feelings. Also, I don't care if a guy checks her out (and she doesn't care if a woman does the same to me.) Ok, as I said before, please don't get offended, I was just curious I'm obviously not married, so I don't know these things. I guess that's between you and your wife. lol that's normal + that girls doesn't even know you're talking shit about her so who cares No, I meant if the girl is actually present and this happens, and is aware of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeZee 1,603 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 Ok, as I said before, please don't get offended, I was just curious I'm obviously not married, so I don't know these things. No, I meant if the girl is actually present and this happens, and is aware of it. I didn't, I just gave an honest answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hosh 1,349 Posted June 23, 2016 Share Posted June 23, 2016 If I had a gf that started staring at a person in a lustful way I'd only take out my anger on my girlfriend, smack her in the face. I wouldn't take out my anger on the random person, unless they flirt back. delete your account Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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