invisiblecc 323 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 Nowadays I have been having fights with my mother over how I dress. Before she knew I was gay, she was never this insistent, but know that she knows she is always on my case on how I should dress more feminine. She and my aunt go on and on about how later in life I'll want to dress with more feminine clothing so I should start now. She doesn't let me buy clothes that I want and wants to force me to put on what she wants. It's exasperating, really. What could I say to her so she can stop? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clownny 179 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 Girls like feminine girls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lugoose 11,398 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 That's sad to hear.. I would suggest letting her know how you truly feel! There is no harm in sitting down and talking about it, is there? Good luck, I'm sure she'll understand if you let her know how you feel and how saddened you get by how they're acting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Perfume 1,472 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 What about going shopping without her? If she's not close, she can't complain. That's sad to hear.. I would suggest letting her know how you truly feel! There is no harm in sitting down and talking about it, is there? Good luck, I'm sure she'll understand if you let her know how you feel and how saddened you get by how they're acting. And this too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lugoose 11,398 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 What about going shopping without her? If she's not close, she can't complain. Hmm.. I think that'll just get her angry, won't it? I think it would be better to talk it out with her first, and if that doesn't work, do what you suggested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curlymckay 808 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 Honestly, talking it out would be the best option. But if you're like me and it'll be difficult to talk with her about that, try to do what she says until you can move out. Then, when you move out you can dress how ever you'd like! (Although, if moving out is out of the question, try compromising. Dress feminine but also in a way that you like, so not 100% feminine.) Hope this helps! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laamaa 7,510 Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 Just tell her how uncomfortable it makes you feel? I'm sure no parents wants their child to be unhappy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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