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What's the most uncomfortable conversation you had with a parent/guardian?


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Mine was today. I asked my mom if I could use her name instead of mine to order my first adult toy. It's not because I'm not of age, but I pick my mail up from the front office of where I live and the people there are familiar with me. Of course she said no, I still ordered anyway and I hope the discreet shipping doesn't fail me. Anyways she was watching T.D. Jakes (preacher) when I came to her about it. This was almost as awkward as when I asked her what masturbation was thinking that masturbation=constipation

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Mine was when I was a freshman in highschool, I was starting to come to terms with my sexuality and my mom had picked up on my internal struggle of "am I gay????? I'm not attracted to boys but girls are so pretty and idk if I want to be friends with them or kiss them" and after school, my mom parked the car and asked me if I was gay and then proceeded to tell me different ways lesbians had sex while she cried (she had mixed emotions about me being gay). It was extremely awkward having her talk about lesbian sex while crying.

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Mine was when I was a freshman in highschool, I was starting to come to terms with my sexuality and my mom had picked up on my internal struggle of "am I gay????? I'm not attracted to boys but girls are so pretty and idk if I want to be friends with them or kiss them" and after school, my mom parked the car and asked me if I was gay and then proceeded to tell me different ways lesbians had sex while she cried (she had mixed emotions about me being gay). It was extremely awkward having her talk about lesbian sex while crying.

That is pretty awkward. I would have sweat buckets (that's how I get when I'm uncomfortable) while completely not knowing how to redirect the conversation
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omg you have balls

 

I've never had super uncomfortable conversations like that about sex. It's not something we talk about. I guess the worst is when they thought I was a ho and slept with this guy I knew for a few days when I was like, 14 because my guardian at the time figured if we stayed out late it must mean we're having sex. He was their sister's grandson who came to visit for a few days. Everyone was really judgmental and weird around me for a while and I had no idea why since nobody confronted me about it. Turns out they'd been telling literally everybody about it except me. I was still a virgin at the time and never did anything with him but got "punished" by that guardian for days afterwards (like getting up at 5 to mow their lawn and weird stuff like that). My parent finally told me that they heard I was out having sex with so and so and it was pretty awkward. I tried to explain we were just out walking around and having fun but they seemed really disappointed and disturbed. Pretty sure my parent still thinks I did it...

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my mom always talks about being careful around other people and rape, and to not let guys touch my body. it's pretty uncomfortable too but it's more uncomfortable when she talks about it freely when my dad's around. also she knows that i had a boyfriend and she asked if we had sex and to be careful abut being pregnant. i know she's trying to look for for me, but it's pretty awkward...

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Definitely when I came out to my mom as gay.  

 

She had looked through my internet history and found that I was going on a forum for LGBT teens, but instead of just asking me about it she called my sister and I both in to talk to her and asked if we had anything to tell her. I denied it for probably like an hour while she was hiding it behind giving us a lecture on not using the internet for anything but school. Then my sister had to go to the bathroom and while she was gone she started asking more direct questions until I broke and told her that I thought I liked girls. 

She then asked me if I had had sex with a guy yet because if not there was no way I could know I wasn't into them, and once I said no but that I didn't have to have sex with anybody to know who I wanted and didn't want to have sex with she just started crying and trying to pull me closer to her while praying out loud that God would fix me. It was straight out of a weird horror movie.

Then, once she calmed down she told me that I couldn't tell anybody, not even my sister, because my family is really well-known in my hometown (I had ancestors high up in the Texas government when it was its own country, and also my town is already super small so it's hard to not know someone) and people couldn't find out that my family had a gay child.

Joke is on everyone though bc my sister is also bi so L M A O 

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I'm pretty comfortable with my mom and stepdad. But once i was telling them about this hot older guy i helped at work (who i think was low key flirting with me) and my mom was getting excited about it bc she envisions me with an older educated guy (like 27+). I didn't feel him like that (i was just sexually attracted to him) and being the no filter sailor like i am, i blurt out "he's a hit it and quit it, mom. Nothing more than a one night stand. " My mom and stepdad looked at each other for the longest and most awkwardest minute of my life. I figured out what i should and shouldn't say around them that day.... lol

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Coming out to my parents was awkward because my dad just didn't believe me (he's not homophobic he just thinks in stereotypes and never suspected me lol..he kept thinking I was pulling a joke). I had to yell "I AM SERIOUS, I'M GAY" and an awkward silence followed

 

OT but Moonlight Sea in your sig <3

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Back in High School, I was a member of the Youth Council (outside of school) and during one of our meetings, Planned Parenthood came for a presentation on Safe Sex. I'm completely comfortable with topics like this b/c my parents educated me on these things since I was young. At the end, they gave everyone a gallon size ziploc bag and it was filled with different brands of condoms. It was only awkward because I knew I wouldn't even need them since I have no desire to be sexually active until marriage, but I still took it home with me. When I got home, I immediately went to my mom and asked her if I should throw them out or give them away. She immideately took the bag and told me she'd keep them  :imstupid: . It was a brief 5 second frame of awkwardness, but we just laughed it off lol. Apparently, the condoms were for nothing b/c she got pregnant that summer  :omgwtf:

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