if someone you just met asks you out, do you actually consider it or give an automatic no?

[xXXXXXx]

may sound like a stupid question, but i personally have trust issues when it comes to things like that and i wont even consider dating someone i just met. i prefer us to be friends for a while so i can get to know you first. i just feel like itll at least help filter the ones who actually care from the ones who just want a fling.

[kyary]

Nope. I need to know really well that person and then if I do trust them a lot I would say yes.

So basically I would say yes to the people I know how they act. Not the people I barely know.

[b l a s i a n]

An automatic NO

 

[â™ Kiraâ™]

With our world of terrorists and criminals, trust no bitch.

[Leo's Candy Jelly Ho]

I'd say yeah (If he's my typeu le winkey winkey) . It's not like he'd be asking me to be his gf or to have sex or something... unless that's what you meant?

[A Person]

Automatic no.

[removed929393303]

Mostly my automatic response is no because I just think it's odd to agree to go on a date with someone that I barely know. 

[creampuff]

Automatic NO

 

[yournoona]

NO

[Timelady]

Definitely no. I have a hard time saying yes to the people I do know, so strangers are definitely out of the question. Plus the world that we live in is pretty shady.

[Grape Soda]

No. I just don't feel comfortable

[bananabrows]

Definitely not lol

[Insane]

no! i'm just like you, i have a hard time trusting people i just met and rather be friends with someone before a date. i think it's the best when there is already a friendship because you know you get along with the person, there is trust already

[gayness]

yes

[xXXXXXx]

no! i'm just like you, i have a hard time trusting people i just met and rather be friends with someone before a date. i think it's the best when there is already a friendship because you know you get along with the person, there is trust already

exactly.

 

 

I'd say yeah (If he's my typeu le winkey winkey) . It's not like he'd be asking me to be his gf or to have sex or something... unless that's what you meant?

lol

yeah thats what i meant. unless you dont consider them your boyfriend after a date, because i knew a girl who was like that. first few dates were just 'tryout dates' i guess, then she would decide whether or not they were officially boyfriend/girlfriend.

[denizen mars]

...I'll let you know when it happens.

Obviously a no if they're a guy, though. If they were a girl I'd wonder if their head was screwed on straight, but probably consider it.

[Delincious]

no

[Leo's Candy Jelly Ho]

exactly.

 

 

lol

yeah thats what i meant. unless you dont consider them your boyfriend after a date, because i knew a girl who was like that. first few dates were just 'tryout dates' i guess, then she would decide whether or not they were officially boyfriend/girlfriend.

Ofc! It'd take a long time for a guy to become my boyfriend lol

[Holke]

Why can't people just have sex without dating? I hate dating usually.

[mgl]

Maybe, if she sounds like an interesting girl and looks good, but I would probably go for something innocuous in the beginning, like a walk in a park or a coffee shop and would try to get to know her better before even thinking of going on "serious" dates.

[Valou]

Nope.

No boy with functional eyes would want to ask me out, so if it happens, i'd be hella suspicious.

Nope.

[elle]

no definitely not.it happens several times but still traumatize me everytime.last time was yesterday it was morning and im walking as an exercise,then this guy appears out of nowhere started to walk with me then after awhile he open up his phone and ask for my no. i freaked out i ran.he is kinda cute though,tall,clean,and probably about my age.but what if he is a bad guy? im doing the right thing right?never

[Ethnic Pop]

Automatic NO

 

[PikaPikachu]

I was going to say no, but then I remembered that I have..

 

It's definitely not something that I'm in the habit of doing, even if I find the person asking attractive, I usually just pretend I haven't heard them. The guys that I've dated they have asked me out in this manner, succeeded because they were really aggressive (at times too aggressive tbh) chasing me and eventually wore me down till we were just dating.

 

But generally when people approach me, regardless of wether I know them or not, disbelief is always my first reaction and I simply assume that they're lying or playing a prank on me or something, so I guess in some way they'd need to be proactive/ aggressive to get anywhere with me.

[SchoolNote]

No. I could be going out with some crazed person I'd rather not take that risk. I would at least have to get to know the person first maybe through a few (awkward) conversations to see what they're about.