uridasi 417 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 I do. Actually, i like a guy and i really think that he has some interest too ~ i really think ~ But i have a lot of concerns about sex, even though i try to surpass them. I'm very attracted to that guy, but i fear about having sex. Im so scared. I mean, as a shy person i dont like to show off myself so much, and i think how do i would be making sex ~at some point i will need to do that ~ I have a lot of concerns about it, and how do you see that ~ sex ~ guys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D a n t e 1,723 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 If you're scared of sex you're not ready for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uridasi 417 Posted May 23, 2016 Author Share Posted May 23, 2016 i'm actually scared of showing off my body. i like my body though, but its strange to be naked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awwwkward 152 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 Tbh, yes. I don't know if it has something to do with me being gay and virgin and never been in a relationship before. But if I find someone whom I think is really the one, I will be okay, I guess to do it with your loved one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emb 1,987 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 I was until i did it for the first time, i felt WAY more comfortable and ready. I'm not really afraid of anything tho, I've done just about everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 I just have not interest in having sex until I am married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowbox. 126 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 I am. But it's because of a trauma :| So yeah.. But in your case if you feel that way, i think it's better if you wait, until you feel ready Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Taebun ♡ 524 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 I'm a little torn about this. Psychologically I'm ready to have sex, but I just have a few too many insecurities about my body right now. Also, there is this guy in my class I've crushed on for 4 years whom I'd let pop my cherry any time. The problem with him tho is that he is sliiightly shorter than me. Which makes the idea of me botting for him weird. I dunno, I'm just so used to these pre-set stereotypes of bots and tops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camelliabloom 4,557 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 No not really, if it's the right person all the first time mess ups won't matter lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KillinTea 933 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 What scares you in sex ? If you are doing it with the person you love and trust this feeling will stop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon buns 4,642 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 No....maybe excited and a little nervous since I haven't done it yet lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jujuwah 3,144 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 even tho i've done it i am scared of it and idt i'll ever let anyone touch me ever again or touch anyone ever again I am. But it's because of a trauma :| So yeah.. But in your case if you feel that way, i think it's better if you wait, until you feel ready same here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunakitten 2,059 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 I used to be pretty nervous but it was more of an excited nervous then a scared nervous. I used to worry about my body but when I came to doing it the first time I just sort of forgot to worry. I didn't have time to get worried. I would say if you are worried build up to it. Start off with small things and once you and you are partner are both comfortable you both move on to the next sort of step. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessicaberry 1,087 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 i'm actually scared of showing off my body. i like my body though, but its strange to be naked. Wait until you really have the desire to And if he pressures you, that's how you know he's not the right guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 Get a bit tipsy before you do it and you will feel so much better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 No, but I am scared of the possible unwanted situations after sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted May 24, 2016 Share Posted May 24, 2016 No, but I am scared of the possible unwanted situations after sex. what situation would that be? The awkwardness? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 what situation would that be? The awkwardness? STDs Unwanted pregnancy But the spread of STDs can be prevented by practicing safe sex(example:using a condom) But if, for example, the condom breaks, it can end up in an unwanted pregnancy. PRACTICE SAFE SEX Y'ALL(or stay abstinent) USE CONTRACEPTIVES: CONDOMS, BIRTH CONTROL, SPERMICIDE, ETC. (and use lube) Here's EXO promoting safe sex. Btw, how old are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katz 296 Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 Yes, and no? On the one hand, I'm more insecure of my body and showing it in such a way, which puts a damper on sex in general. On the other though, I'm really not that interested in it right now anyway. I want to wait for marriage and focus on being comfortable with myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pollusiet 1 Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 I don't know if it's fear but i think i'm not ready yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maidoan97 743 Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 Yes. I would feel uncomfortable being naked in front of guys, and imagining him putting sth in my p***y is weird as hell. Not to mention that it seems to be very painful. Also, I'm afraid of giving my virginity to someone who doesn't deserve it I've been single since birth tho, so who knows I might be eager to get laid once I get a guy haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted May 27, 2016 Share Posted May 27, 2016 I am scared of the pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TAKA (ã‚¿ã‚«) 23 Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 Kind of. Don't wanna bang until marriage so Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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