A rude guy said things that hurt me while i was confessing my feelings

[uridasi]

So basically two years ago, I decided to confess my feelings towards a guy.

At that time I was discovering myself as a gay, and this guy I confessed was really ok with being gay himself since ever. So he was the only gay person I knew at that point.

I thought I liked him, and then I went to him and said I was loving him.

He laughed at me, said that I was garbage and that he would never look at me. He said no one would ever love me, because I can't inspire love in anyone.

A month later I realized I never liked him, he was just the first gay person I knew. I was confused at that time. I never loved him. Also he's ugly as hell. But I'm not saying this because he was rude. It's because I confused my feelings. He was the only gay I knew.

So although I never loved him, the scars of what he said to me remains now. Even if it took time, I still cry over his words. I keep on thinking < Was he right? Does anybody love me? Can't I inspire love in anyone?

He was too rude. I was saying lovely things, why did he said those things to me?

So basically, nowadays I found a guy that I really like, he is Japanese and he's totally my kind of guy, but I can't feel able to talk to him or going around this another guy... I keep on thinking that I can't inspire love in anyone and that no one would look at a garbage like me.

I am actually crying now. Should I accept that no one will love me?

[Delincious]

there will always be someone out there who'll love you

psychopaths have people who love them

so you can too

[Jiraishin]

Of course you cannot accept that idiot's words. And as much as it is hard for you to get rid of the echo of those insults, at least try not to make decisions for other people, listen to them and don't deny any compliments thrown at you at any given time. I'm sure you are aware that people are different and like different things, use this knowledge to try and move on. Even, maybe if you met this guy now, he would say something different entirely and regret ever hurting your feelings. 

[Virgin No More]

wtf why did he say that to you?? no matter what he shouldn't say that what a piece of shit. anyway don't let this affect you, there are many good people out there. 

[k8oboi]

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.†

― Dr. Seuss

[uridasi]

wtf why did he say that to you?? no matter what he shouldn't say that what a piece of shit. anyway don't let this affect you, there are many good people out there.

 

I also don't know why he said that.

I can't accept compliments nowadays. I always hear that echo of his voice saying this to me.

[Sexy Wang]

I don't really know what to say besides you just need to get over it. Most of what he said to you shouldn't be true for anyone.

You should not even be questioning if what he said was true or not and since you are you should try to find help quickly before

it begins messing up with your relationships even more than it is currently.

[blue7kaoru]

It must have been really hurtful for you but i hope you'll be able to forget it. I'm sure you're a nice and lovely person and tbh it's that guy's loss that he couldn't see it or at least reject you in a more polite way. Anyway everyone was born to be loved and i hope that this experience doesn't discourage you from confessing your feelings to anyone else

This video for you 

 

[uridasi]

I don't really know what to say besides you just need to get over it. Most of what he said to you shouldn't be true for anyone.

You should not even be questioning if what he said was true or not and since you are you should try to find help quickly before

it begins messing up with your relationships even more than it is currently.

I don't have a relationship. I never could because of that. I always think that other guy will say the same things to me, because they all want to hurt me.

Sometimes I think that guy was right. I can't inspire love. I always think that.

[Sexy Wang]

I don't have a relationship. I never could because of that. I always think that other guy will say the same things to me, because they all want to hurt me.

Sometimes I think that guy was right. I can't inspire love. I always think that.

exactly go find help. we can't help you through OH 

[uridasi]

If he reject me in a more polite way, I am sure I would be ok with myself. But now I'm not able to even talk to another guy. I see myself as a unlovable person

[í™©ì œë‹˜ 팬]

omfg that guy is ugly inside and out. The type of people that i hate the most Don't listen to whatever he said. It only shows that he has an inferiority complex and did it to feel better about himself.  It had nothing to do with you 

[ESSON]

Don't allow him to affect you so deeply, he's just another asshole and his words DON'T matter, don't let his ugly words control your life.

 

Give yourself a chance and ask that Japanese dude out

[Ice_]

May i know how old are you?

 

How about close friend? Anyone in real life?

[arineunha]

don't be sad..some gay guy who never thought he could get in a relationship with another guy found someone..even though it might be a little harder

 

he told me that  there is someone for everyone

[goldilocks]

wow ugly people shouldn't say shit like that.

[jeong jaehyuns boyfriend]

i will never understand how some people can be ugly AND have an ugly attitude. like bitch, choose 1 lol

 

 

i hope you're doing okay! everyone meets horrible people - you just have to be strong and leave him behind. he's really not worth another second of your time. 

 

i think before you find someone that loves you, you have to learn to love yourself. you can do it