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You ever wonder how people married for years keep " the spark" alive?

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hazee Senior Idol

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It's called maturity and working hard for something good.

 

You can't just download an app to make your marriage be what you think it should be for the rest of your life, doesn't work that way.

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(if the relationship is healthy)

In the end, you stick because of commitment and loyalty. The spouse has been there for a large part of your life and has been there for some of the happiest and hardest moments (that hopefully involve both people) in your life. The spouse knows you better than anyone else and you know your spouse more than anyone else.

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There are a million reasons to walk away but maybe there's this one gold solid reason that makes you stay. 

 

As cheesy as I make it out to be, there would be a million things that could annoy you about one another and hate you about one another but even though you find another person there will always be something wrong because nobody's perfect. So maybe if such couples would stop looking at what's wrong but start focusing on the better qualities of that person despite the imperfections. And another thing is friendship as the gravity and center of the relationship. Nothing's ever going to be perfect or smooth but sometimes it's worth it.

 

Couples run out of 'spark' but if you have friendship as basis even if it's just hanging out together or enjoying the company of each other, it will make you stay together.

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don't get bored with each other or annoyed

Because people nowadays treat relationships, marriage and love like some kind of object or toy that needs replacing when it gets old. When you get tired of your family, do you go out and look for a new one? Hell to the fuck no. It's about commitment and sacrifice, about realizing what it means to have someone willing and wanting to spend their lives with you. It's not about sex (though it helps), it's about connection...you have to be strong to be in a relationship for so long, you have to be willing to believe that the good always outweighs the bad, and you have to understand each other...keep communications open...don't get married on impulse, on the shallow, materialistic kind of "love"...

 

I'm not sure if what I said made any sense since I was ranting, but well, there you go

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most of the answers hear makes me smile :'D

 

well I think it's mostly to do with commitment and maturity. both of you have to commit to loving each other and being together no matter what storms come.  those challenges are what actually makes you grow stronger and mature together. staying in a relationship is hard and takes work and both of people involved has to be committed to making it work out. and I think it's also important to not stay stagnant in a marriage.  be spontaneous  at times, make new goals, have fun together as a family 

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