Hangry 1,124 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 now that i think back,i remember what ppl said / did to me ,back then i didnt understand why they did those to me nor what it meant,now that it think about it,lmao,they totally were bulling me and so jealous,so childish am i stupid for not getting it back than??? like it took me years to get it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laamaa 7,510 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Honestly, it's a good thing. Better you didn't notice than get depressed about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoyFulBear 193 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 If that didn't leave any trauma,you were right to ignore stupid people..They come and pass :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥Led belbet hater♥ 289 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 If that didn't leave any trauma,you were right to ignore stupid people..They come and pass :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanilla Cupcake 3,584 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Well, when I moved to the US when I was 12, I was a total FOB. I tried my best to fit in, but it's hard when you don't know the language well, and don't understand much about the culture etc. People made fun of me, and I didn't realize it until waaaay later. They weren't obvious, and many of the "bullying" was verbal, so I suppose it was easy for me to miss. Then years later, I got into a top university and got a good paying job, and many of the bullies dropped out or got pregnant at a young age. Whenever I visited my hometown, and they tried to be nice to me, I just laughed soooo hard on the inside. Karma is a b*tch, so don't even regret not getting it back. Life will get them somehow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hangry 1,124 Posted May 6, 2016 Author Share Posted May 6, 2016 Honestly, it's a good thing. Better you didn't notice than get depressed about it If that didn't leave any trauma,you were right to ignore stupid people..They come and pass :D If that didn't leave any trauma,you were right to ignore stupid people..They come and pass :D Well, when I moved to the US when I was 12, I was a total FOB. I tried my best to fit in, but it's hard when you don't know the language well, and don't understand much about the culture etc. People made fun of me, and I didn't realize it until waaaay later. They weren't obvious, and many of the "bullying" was verbal, so I suppose it was easy for me to miss. Then years later, I got into a top university and got a good paying job, and many of the bullies dropped out or got pregnant at a young age. Whenever I visited my hometown, and they tried to be nice to me, I just laughed soooo hard on the inside. Karma is a b*tch, so don't even regret not getting it back. Life will get them somehow. Thank you so much guys, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YooJeong 6,303 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 This happened to me too. In 7th grade I really wanted to be friends with these girls (one of them actually looks just like Nayeon, but with different eyes since she's not Asian), and I thought they liked me too since they always invited me to hang out with them...but now that I'm older, looking back on how they treated me, I realized that they were making fun of me whenever we were together and invited me out so they could laugh at me...they kept me around since I was fun to make fun of, I guess.. It's okay though, I'm glad I didn't realize it back then. I'm glad I didn't realize this until now, because I'm older and it's been a few years so it doesn't hurt me, but if I had realized it back then I would've gotten very depressed and sad, so it's a good thing we both didn't know~ I don't think it's stupid. Maybe both of us just didn't expect anyone to be a bully. Or we always thought their intentions were good. It's definitely better that we didn't understand it when it was happening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shhhhh 763 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Honestly, it's a good thing. Better you didn't notice than get depressed about it THIS ^^ I got bullied a lot when I was younger, but I DID understand it. I turned into a depressed mess who skipped school to avoid bullies. Starved and cut myself. I might be stronger now, but still insecure about things people said about me years ago... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1syankar5 682 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 its good that you didnt realize it. that kinda shit sticks with you for a long time. happened to me and boy, did i notice it. it was absolutely a horrible time for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hangry 1,124 Posted May 6, 2016 Author Share Posted May 6, 2016 This happened to me too. In 7th grade I really wanted to be friends with these girls (one of them actually looks just like Nayeon, but with different eyes since she's not Asian), and I thought they liked me too since they always invited me to hang out with them...but now that I'm older, looking back on how they treated me, I realized that they were making fun of me whenever we were together and invited me out so they could laugh at me...they kept me around since I was fun to make fun of, I guess.. It's okay though, I'm glad I didn't realize it back then. I'm glad I didn't realize this until now, because I'm older and it's been a few years so it doesn't hurt me, but if I had realized it back then I would've gotten very depressed and sad, so it's a good thing we both didn't know~ I don't think it's stupid. Maybe both of us just didn't expect anyone to be a bully. Or we always thought their intentions were good. It's definitely better that we didn't understand it when it was happening. yes,i agree THIS ^^ I got bullied a lot when I was younger, but I DID understand it. I turned into a depressed mess who skipped school to avoid bullies. Starved and cut myself. I might be stronger now, but still insecure about things people said about me years ago... Fighting , its good that you didnt realize it. that kinda shit sticks with you for a long time. happened to me and boy, did i notice it. it was absolutely a horrible time for me. yes,now that i think about ,i agree,thank god that i didnt get them Fighting thank you all so much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOMEWRECKER 1,944 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 that happened to me as well. Although it's a good thing I didn't realize it back then, it sort of pisses me off when I think about it now because I think it affected my personality in one way or another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urhandsrnaughty 2,648 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 It's a good thing you were unaware of it back then so you can just laugh it all off now. I remember in my senior year of high school, I was suddenly known as the lipstick lesbian who had two abortions because I was always having sex in the boys bathroom. The whole thing didn't even make any sense. And of course, my "friends" at the time were the ones behind the nonsense. Thankfully I was graduating so I just had to ignore their asses a few months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,940 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 consider yourself lucky I wish I didn't know I was bullied Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honey Yura 293 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 You're kinda lucky tbt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 :( I'm sorry I hope it's not affecting you now. Stay strong girl we love you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstarnet 1,502 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I got name called back then by my classmate when I was 15 but I ignore him and study hard to get away from him. In the end, I gain friends and get away from him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I didn't know too lol. I just get along to what are they doing back to that time lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sapphicsunmi 2,708 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 So when i was about 7-9 i was pretty much bullied now i was bullied after that too but i had no memory of being bullied, my mom told me how shitty people treated me and why she hated it for me but i couldnt seem to get it, its like ive blocked out all that stuff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 Honestly, it's a good thing. Better you didn't notice than get depressed about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 My problem is, that I notice. You're probably better off not thinking about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 at least you didn't know. I've been bullied my whole life. The thing is I've only now started to stand up and fight for myself. For the stupid people bullies, I completely ignore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saἶlor✯Moonlἶght 1,587 Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 Its good you didn't notice, and I hope you don't look back and let it wound you, just move forward, always. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yumi-chan 228 Posted June 7, 2016 Share Posted June 7, 2016 Honestly, it's a good thing. Better you didn't notice than get depressed about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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