Sahisahi 0 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 So this guy from work has a crush on me. He has had feelings for me for the past 3 years. He randomly texts me that he wants to kiss me and make me his (sounds desperate right?). I never really took his blabber seriously. We have hung out many times and I've been sober whenever we've met. This was the 2nd time we went out drinking. I was comfortable with him as a friend. I got really drunk and started talking about my ex which upset me. He responded by holding my hands and rubber his thumb on them affectionately. Occasionally, he gave me small hugs and a peck on the cheek. I was okay with all of it (this happened for the first time and I was intoxicated). We had a good time. He even held my hand while taking me to the loo etc. Now while leaving we were on the stairs and I was a bit trippy so I was falling all over. His hands kept me steady. And then suddenly he leaned in for a kiss. For 2-3 seconds I dint realise what was happening but when I did, I pushed him away. I shouted at him but he didn't look sorry at all. He just meekly said that he likes me. That guy just took advantage of a drunk girl and he hasn't even bothered to apologise. How do I handle this? I am so upset that he used me!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danee 5,049 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Sorry but seriously you are pretty selfish for giving him hopes by hanging out with him even if you know he likes you (for 3 damn years) and even accepting hugs and holding hands. Tbh for me it sounds as you are using him as much or maybe even more than he use you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llyx 1,300 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 You seems to be encouraging him...you should have said 'no' to even the cheek kisses and hand-rubbing. And you should've made it more clear to him that you only want to be friends. You are getting way to friendly with him to be called 'just friends', so he probably gets the wrong idea and continues to pursue you. He's definitely wrong for drunk-kissing you, but ok, he's drunk and you're drunk, you both weren't sober. Talking about your ex with someone you know likes you...you shouldn't have done that though, btw, to him anyway. But then you were drunk. So yeah. And then he was drunk to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Lol you know he likes you, hang out with him and let him kiss you on the cheeks but think he's using you when yoh're drunk? You're selfish and immature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Friendzone gdi. You give him hope again. You didn't push him out completely, but instead hanging out with him and let him touch and kiss you, so, now he isn't wrong at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 This is sexual harassment. Report this to the police. But seriously you shouldn't have led him on either so the blame goes to both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 If you were mad you could just have punched him in the nose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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