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So, I've had a crush on this guy for about a month or so now. 

I first saw him when I was heading toward the exit of school. It was crowded so I got pushed and he was in front of me. He smiled and I thought he was cute lmao  :rlytearpls:

Anyway, days after that encounter. I realized we always passed each other on our way to our classes. And we pass each other like 3 times a day (sometimes 4) at school going to classes. 

 

I don't know if he notices me ( i feel like he doesn't lol) when we pass each other , because usually there aren't that many students on the route I'm walking.

 

We're not really classmates and are strangers but I really wanted to know his name but I feel shy to approach him cause we don't know each other.  :rlytearpls:

 

 

this is actually my very first topic pls be nice to me hehe  

 

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when you're walking by him, drop a pencil and see if he picks it up 

 

maybe that could start a conversation 

 

 

 

"Hi I'm thefrogprince, what's your name?"

 

 

open your mouth and speak

not tryna be mean but if you wanna get closer to your crush you need to really get over it :P

just approach him and ask his name :P

 

 

Too much like a drama >_>

 

Better take a break from watching them xD

 

 

Force yourself and just say hi. That's what I did when I asked a guy out.

 

omg thank you guys for replying! 

I'm awkward af in real life tho :rlytearpls: 

 But I guess I'll just try and force myself to talk to him and maybe run away fast after lol

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If i was in your shoes, I try to findarrow-10x10.png an opportunity where there's not much people and since there's already not much people when you guys meet each other, use that opportunity to get closer to him and ask what time is it then he'll answer and continue by asking him what grade he is in or something, keep asking 1 or 2 basic questions and if he seems interested & tries to keep the conversation going then that's the perfect time for you to ask his name. If he doesn't seem interested in continuing the conversation then try again next time lmao and do this until you have his name and then eventually you could ask him to hang out. 

 

TLDR: timing is key & be aware, assess the vibe/his mood of the conversation. 

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if you're awkward then try to ask around if anyone know him or if he's in any club and join the club, so u can have an easier time striking up a convo. 

Or the more direct way, say Hi the next time you guys bump into each other. Introduce yourself, be casual, comment on the route you taking, ask him where he going etc... just treat him like someone you want to get to know. Be confident, smile! :)

 

edit: ^ like Junchan said, ask some basic open-ended questions

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omg thank you guys for replying! 

I'm awkward af in real life tho :rlytearpls:

 But I guess I'll just try and force myself to talk to him and maybe run away fast after lol

Tbh you will feel so much better when you force yourself.  I was super nervous, but really wanted to do it because it could be a potential relationship. Even though he said he already has a gf T_T, I was happy that I did it. It's better to know their answer, then to always wonder if something could have happened.  

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If i was in your shoes, I try to findarrow-10x10.png an opportunity where there's not much people and since there's already not much people when you guys meet each other, use that opportunity to get closer to him and ask what time is it then he'll answer and continue by asking him what grade he is in or something, keep asking 1 or 2 basic questions and if he seems interested & tries to keep the conversation going then that's the perfect time for you to ask his name. If he doesn't seem interested in continuing the conversation then try again next time lmao and do this until you have his name and then eventually you could ask him to hang out. 

 

TLDR: timing is key & be aware, assess the vibe/his mood of the conversation

 

if you're awkward then try to ask around if anyone know him or if he's in any club and join the club, so u can have an easier time striking up a convo. 

Or the more direct way, say Hi the next time you guys bump into each other. Introduce yourself, be casual, comment on the route you taking, ask him where he going etc... just treat him like someone you want to get to know. Be confident, smile! :)

 

edit: ^ like Junchan said, ask some basic open-ended questions

 

 

Tbh you will feel so much better when you force yourself.  I was super nervous, but really wanted to do it because it could be a potential relationship. Even though he said he already has a gf T_T, I was happy that I did it. It's better to know their answer, then to always wonder if something could have happened.  

 

Thanks a lot guys! I will keep what you all said in mind! I lack in conversational skills so this really helped!  :)

i kinda feel nervous now actually lol 

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If i was in your shoes, I try to findarrow-10x10.png an opportunity where there's not much people and since there's already not much people when you guys meet each other, use that opportunity to get closer to him and ask what time is it then he'll answer and continue by asking him what grade he is in or something, keep asking 1 or 2 basic questions and if he seems interested & tries to keep the conversation going then that's the perfect time for you to ask his name. If he doesn't seem interested in continuing the conversation then try again next time lmao and do this until you have his name and then eventually you could ask him to hang out. 

 

TLDR: timing is key & be aware, assess the vibe/his mood of the conversation. 

Remember to ask during the right times... (he might be busy and is rushing to classes).

And asking if he is not interested.. he might find you annoying and walk another pathway next time.. (Just act according to how the situation is like).

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