Akai Berubetto 1,123 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 lately i've encountered a manhwa (Korean comic) that has a short, ugly, poor, can't stand for himself, whatever you can imagine about a 'weak person'/'low level citizen' being bullied by ALL of his classmates (there r somes who r neutral about it, but i still call it bullying). While the plot has a big bad hole (he helped another bullied one so he's bullied, but then why at the beginning he got enough guts to help that poor friend then he doesn't do anything to his sorry life?), it leads me to a question: Are people who let the others take advantage of them deserve to be bullied? i, myself, as someone was bullied before, agree that weak people deserve to be bullied. Letting the others beat you, yell at your face for nothing, force you to do whatever they want, tease you evilly - those are signs that you don't love yourself, you don't respect yourself enough. Being bullied is a lesson about what you should do to prevent similar things could happen to you in the future (in a worst scale), to know your strength and to learn to love yourself. Those cunty bitches pick on you not because you'r weak, but you show signs that they could get away with their bad behaviours. They'r the real 'weak' ones: they can't feel happy if the others aren't under their feet - but that's their problems, not yours. You have to love yourself first, then your family, your friends, your pets etc, not those bitches. But, if you refuse to do it, and let those cunts take over your life, make you feel like a mosquito and forever being bitter that no one helped you, no one stopped them, then, well, idk what to say in my case, i was bullied physically back then and mentally from secondary school til now (last year in uni). At first, i feel really bad about it, but then i eventually find my way to deal with it. For physical bully: i hit them back; after that, miraculously no one ever hit me again. For mental bully: i love myself. Somehow i understand why they love to pick on me: i used to only draw, draw, draw for a long time; i didn't need to communicate with ppl, drawing gave me enough happiness; after that, when i started having an idea about socializing, i looks shabby, i don't have humor sense; after i took care about my appearance, they still avoid talking with me because now my grades are bad, i have strange taste in music, i read too many things that they didn't know, i don't have money, i'm too sensitive, i have resting bitch face blah blah blah. Through many hardships, i realize loving yourself is the first and formost thing to do if you want a truly happy life. I start loving my faces, my fatass belly (but i prefer 6packs), my hobbies, my mind, myself. I'm too happy now, that when i came across that comic, i feel like i see my old self and laugh a bit about it guess that Howard Roark, Dominique and Gail Wynand inspired me too much these days. Sorrrreeeyyyyyy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UNNIE 15,249 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 What doesn't kill you make you stronger Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 so... accel world? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taenguri 2,593 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 no one deserves to be bullied wtf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iggyloves 52 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 Simple. No one deserves to be bullied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyrie 6,251 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 No?????? No one deserves to be bullied????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiyu 2,891 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 No one deserves to be bullied.. even though they may come back stronger. It's still wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bulldog 956 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 lately i've encountered a manhwa (Korean comic) that has a short, ugly, poor, can't stand for himself, whatever you can imagine about a 'weak person'/'low level citizen' being bullied by ALL of his classmates (there r somes who r neutral about it, but i still call it bullying). While the plot has a big bad hole (he helped another bullied one so he's bullied, but then why at the beginning he got enough guts to help that poor friend then he doesn't do anything to his sorry life?), it leads me to a question: Are people who let the others take advantage of them deserve to be bullied? i, myself, as someone was bullied before, agree that weak people deserve to be bullied. Letting the others beat you, yell at your face for nothing, force you to do whatever they want, tease you evilly - those are signs that you don't love yourself, you don't respect yourself enough. Being bullied is a lesson about what you should do to prevent similar things could happen to you in the future (in a worst scale), to know your strength and to learn to love yourself. Those cunty bitches pick on you not because you'r weak, but you show signs that they could get away with their bad behaviours. They'r the real 'weak' ones: they can't feel happy if the others aren't under their feet - but that's their problems, not yours. You have to love yourself first, then your family, your friends, your pets etc, not those bitches. But, if you refuse to do it, and let those cunts take over your life, make you feel like a mosquito and forever being bitter that no one helped you, no one stopped them, then, well, idk what to say in my case, i was bullied physically back then and mentally from secondary school til now (last year in uni). At first, i feel really bad about it, but then i eventually find my way to deal with it. For physical bully: i hit them back; after that, miraculously no one ever hit me again. For mental bully: i love myself. Somehow i understand why they love to pick on me: i used to only draw, draw, draw for a long time; i didn't need to communicate with ppl, drawing gave me enough happiness; after that, when i started having an idea about socializing, i looks shabby, i don't have humor sense; after i took care about my appearance, they still avoid talking with me because now my grades are bad, i have strange taste in music, i read too many things that they didn't know, i don't have money, i'm too sensitive, i have resting bitch face blah blah blah. Through many hardships, i realize loving yourself is the first and formost thing to do if you want a truly happy life. I start loving my faces, my fatass belly (but i prefer 6packs), my hobbies, my mind, myself. I'm too happy now, that when i came across that comic, i feel like i see my old self and laugh a bit about it guess that Howard Roark, Dominique and Gail Wynand inspired me too much these days. Sorrrreeeyyyyyy Your story is an inspiration! Good for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akai Berubetto 1,123 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 Your story is an inspiration! Good for you! lol you'r like the only one who did it. Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lexi.K 3,161 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 I don't think "deserve" is the appropiate word, but, perhaps those kind of people (I include myself) need to pass through those situations to become stronger. Otherwise, they would be clueless in the adult world. Personally, I went from letting people step all over me to actually fighting for myself. I regret I wasn't strong back then, but I am now, at least I'm much better than I used to be. I still have to improve though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mogwai 15,203 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 No. But kudos on your own personal story. Your next step is to realise that even though all that growth is definitely something to be proud of, you still didn't deserve to be bullied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akai Berubetto 1,123 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 I don't think "deserve" is the appropiate word, but, perhaps those kind of people (I include myself) need to pass through those situations to become stronger. Personally, I went from letting people step all over me to actually fighting for myself. I regret I wasn't strong back then, but I am now, at least I'm much better than I used to be. I still have to improve. i thought so too but my horrbile English prevented me to find any better solution Good to hear you'r stronger now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BubbleGumPop 14 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 WTF people don't deserve to be bullied if they're weaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monsterlife 5,649 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 you are the only one that could help yourself. no one deserve to be bullied and i hope that the still bullied people realize that and learn to stand up for themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xharuharux 2,487 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 fuck no I've been bullied and gotten past it but there are some people who just don't have the mentality to overcome bullying or have any control over getting bullied I've seen disabled kids get bullied and I ALWAYS fight back for them, bullies see them as weak, as something to be made fun of but Im not having that. U are human trash if you make fun of someone with a disability as they don't fucking deserve to be bullied EVER. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forever 1,299 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 not really but they should learn to be stronger Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akai Berubetto 1,123 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 fuck no I've been bullied and gotten past it but there are some people who just don't have the mentality to overcome bullying or have any control over getting bullied I've seen disabled kids get bullied and I ALWAYS fight back for them, bullies see them as weak, as something to be made fun of but Im not having that. U are human trash if you make fun of someone with a disability as they don't fucking deserve to be bullied EVER. ah, i forgot about them. They'r the ones who really need ppl around to stand up for them. I only thought about ppl with normal physical and mental state when i created this thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adda 9,200 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 Nobody deserves to be bullied. A while ago I posted something about this subject. My older brother was a bit ridiculed when he was a child, boys liked to joke about him, but they didn't say anything when I was present , although I was a girl and younger than them with 1-3 years. My brother is a very good person, who always think positive about people, no matter how they act, he never winked maliciously with his eyes or said something bad in his life, never hurt someone. Not my case, I had no problem replying with subtle malice and put them in their place when they laughed about him (this is the difference between me and him, he never thinks of hurting) I'm quite tolerant, until people cross the line and that line was my brother. They accepted me quite quickly in their group, always calling me to hang out, watch a game, play with them and they have accepted my brother too. 10 years have passed and he still meet some of them from time to time to play a football or have a beer, they are friends. I don’t consider my brother weak, he’s just too good, he has moral integrity. I was never bullied, neither played into bullying game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danee 5,049 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 Not everyone can be strong. You cant expect that everybody will be able to beat the crap out of his bullies, especially if its group of people, not only one person and if you stand alone. Usually it end up with even worse bullying. Tbh its the same logic as saying that person who got murdered/raped/stalked deserved it because they were weak could not defend themselves. Yeah, knowing how to defend yourself is great and can save you until thing go out of hands. Nobody deserve to be bullied. Lets not act as if bullying is ook and actually helps you to build character. Saying as person who also got bullied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trixbox 2,982 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 Like everyone said, no one deserves to be bullied. Now if you want bullying to stop then either you do something about it or take it as it is. Learn how to properly deal with it as it will be helping you through out life. And I think your reading Dear Boy too much. Don't take it that seriously. hehehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akai Berubetto 1,123 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 Nobody deserves to be bullied. A while ago I posted something about this subject. My older brother was a bit ridiculed when he was a child, boys liked to joke about him, but they didn't say anything when I was present , although I was a girl and younger than them with 1-3 years. My brother is very good person, who always think positive about people, no matter how they act, he never winked maliciously with his eyes or said something bad. Not my case, I had no problem to put them in their place when they laughed about him. I'm tolerant, until people cross the line. They accepted me quite quickly in their group, always calling me to hang out, watch a game, play with them, I was the only girl among ‘ hooligans’ and they have accepted my brother too. 10 years have passed and he still meet some of them from time to time to play a football or have a beer, they are friends. I don’t consider my brother weak, he’s just too good and has the the understanding of resolving a conflict with dialogue not verbal abuse or violence, he has moral integrity. i think your brother is super strong. I don't ever consider those with that mindstate 'weak'. What a great person Like everyone said, no one deserves to be bullied. Now if you want bullying to stop then either you do something about it or take it as it is. Learn how to properly deal with it as it will be helping you through out life. And I think your reading Dear Boy too much. Don't take it that seriously. hehehe what is Dear Boy /dead/ I read The Fountainhead Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ì…� 918 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 No one should have that shitty ass attitude to bully someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akai Berubetto 1,123 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 Not everyone can be strong. You cant expect that everybody will be able to beat the crap out of his bullies, especially if its group of people, not only one person and if you stand alone. Usually it end up with even worse bullying. Tbh its the same logic as saying that person who got murdered/raped/stalked deserved it because they were weak could not defend themselves. Yeah, knowing how to defend yourself is great and can save you until thing go out of hands. Nobody deserve to be bullied. Lets not act as if bullying is ook and actually helps you to build character. Saying as person who also got bullied. tbh i think myself could be another ignorant who laugh over ppl who r easy to pick if i wasn't bullied, because it's easier to follow the crowd to avoid being hitted. I might could not know what is the real happiness without being bullied. Those times were hard for me, but it helped me growing as a person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiyeoncé 277 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 no one deserves to be bullied wtf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 there this kid who stand up against his bully , now he six feet under,his worst nightmare came true,guess what? the bully came from a influential family ,so yeah the bully still at a club dancing like he didnt do anything horrible in his life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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