CrayCray 2,636 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 My sister recently started dating this boy (I call him boy because he's 6yrs younger than my sister) since December 2015. Do you think people who say they're a "good person" actually a good person? So, my sister's bf is a person who wants everything to go HIS way, He is really giving BUT he will force it to you if you say you don't want whatever he offers you. For example, he brings food over for my sister many times, and even if she says she already ate, he will keep telling her to eat it. He is the most stubborn person I've ever met, I noticed. One time, we were all going out to eat (this was only about a month into their relationship) and he wouldn't let me drive my own car because he "insisted" we go in his car. What he did was, he blocked my car door and was being super annoying. I just laughed because I thought he was being genuinely insisting. My sister and I share a room and USED to share a bed and a few times already he would lay on the bed even when I say I need to change and tells me to go change somewhere else. He also stays over almost every night until 1-3am. One time, he slept over until 6 in the morning! I was so mad because he was being stubborn of leaving and disrespectful to my parents. In my culture, you can't have your boyfriend sleep overnight on your bed because it's taboo. Other times he was being disrespectful is every damn time I tell him not to let my older sister's dog out of her room, he will deliberately open the door for it to come out! Just yesterday, I told him straight up not to let her dog out because I just vacuumed the carpet and dog hair will get all over it again, guess what he did? he freaking called for the dog through the door and opened the freaking door! Man was I pissed that muderfudger! He works with my sister and every night they come home from work, they're ALWAYS freaking always fighting (argue) because apparently he thinks every guy who talks to her is hitting on her. He fucking gets MAD when he sees her smiling and talking, just normal conversation with other guys! But my sister told him that she sees him smiling with other girls too and she doesn't get jealous or mad. I've told him once that what their relationship doesn't have is TRUST. He doesn't trust her at all! He's like the girl of the relationship! My sister is super friendly, smiles a lot and will always try to make everyone around her happy (total opposite of me) but her boyfriend told her that he doesn't like her being so friendly with other "guys" because he thinks they're all douches (for whatever damn reason). He calls me and my sister "grandmas" all the time. I don't mind, because I am older than him but every time he calls me grandma, I call him grandson and he tells me "that's sad", like wtf? he's allowed to call me grandma but I'm not allowed to call him grandson? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
e m ✩ 230 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 he sounds like a dick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loketâ™” 4,144 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 talk to your sister and tells what bothers you and then you two have a chit chat with him,only way to solve it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hangry 1,124 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 he seems so immature tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INNA 1,227 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 he sounds like a psychopath wtf you should really talk to your sister about him if he's really bothering you~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted April 27, 2016 Author Share Posted April 27, 2016 he sounds like a psychopath wtf you should really talk to your sister about him if he's really bothering you~ oh believe me, I talk about him to her all the time. He doesn't listen to her either. She's always put in the center because I get upset over his actions and he doesn't listen to her. I talk back to him a lot too but he still has this personality of "I don't give a fuck what you say" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GUILD 3,195 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Tell your sister to drop his ass. Lol that's the only way. It's not a relationship worth being in and she shouldn't want to stay in it. If your sister wont listen though then what you can do is just stand you fucking ground, raise your voice sometimes. When you have the situational high ground and he's the antagonist, stand that ground. Let go of that bind you've put on yourself because it's your sister's boyfriend or it's awkward or whatever. There's a point in life where we all should realize that you don't have to take people's shit. You might have to bear with it in a situation like a job until you can get a better one or a better position, but in your situation? Holy hell, this shouldn't be happening. Honestly, the only thing he can do is yell back. Maybe not even that if it's in your house. If he touches you, you already know it's game over. He's out of the picture totally and this is no longer an issue. That is if your parents and/or sister have any sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gummybear_dragon 1,695 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 He doesn't trust her at all! He's like the girl of the relationship! Sexism, niiiiice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gummybear_dragon 1,695 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Aside from that, if this is all true then talk to your sister. She needs to dump him. If not, then get your parents involved. Because he seems like he'll break her heart, and when he does she'll be crying. All of that fighting for nothing int he end. You need to stop it as it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INNA 1,227 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 oh believe me, I talk about him to her all the time. He doesn't listen to her either. She's always put in the center because I get upset over his actions and he doesn't listen to her. I talk back to him a lot too but he still has this personality of "I don't give a fuck what you say" aw man :/ your sister should totally break up with him. bc she's the only one who can put and end to this. if talking back to him and talking to your sister isn't working, if i were you i'd just ignore him and his entire existence. maybe he'll start to find annoying you boring and he'll stop (but he really does sound like a dickwad so maybe not ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akisame 3,880 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 From you what you said, he sounds like one of those clingy and possessive types who loves to be in complete control. I recommend telling your sister to break-up with him before things get too serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nani. 3,784 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 I guess your sistar probably only sees the good things in him at the moment. You should try to talk to her and make her realise what an a*s he is.^^ He sounds like a self-centered person. Like he will always think about himself first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted April 27, 2016 Author Share Posted April 27, 2016 From you what you said, he sounds like one of those clingy and possessive types who loves to be in complete control. I recommend telling your sister to break-up with him before things get too serious. He is the clingy type. Even hanging out with his own guy friends, he drags her along. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Creepy, tell your sister to drop him or you'll disown her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 you have to make her let him go its not healthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 What a douche! Honestly your sister should break up with him and I think she will do it eventually but in the meantime your parents need to talk with your sister and tell her she can't bring him anymore and maybe tell him directly he's not welcome anymore in your house. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
None name 988 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Sounds like my housemate's boyfriend. I have the same problem as you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstarnet 1,502 Posted May 4, 2016 Share Posted May 4, 2016 Everything, especially relationships, needs to give and take. Since your sister's boyfriend does not know how to give and take so she should drop his ass and forget bout him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted May 4, 2016 Share Posted May 4, 2016 Drop the relationship. The only advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ooahooah 573 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 My sister and I share a room and USED to share a bed and a few times already he would lay on the bed even when I say I need to change and tells me to go change somewhere else. He also stays over almost every night until 1-3am. One time, he slept over until 6 in the morning! I was so mad because he was being stubborn of leaving and disrespectful to my parents. In my culture, you can't have your boyfriend sleep overnight on your bed because it's taboo. Other times he was being disrespectful is every damn time I tell him not to let my older sister's dog out of her room, he will deliberately open the door for it to come out! Just yesterday, I told him straight up not to let her dog out because I just vacuumed the carpet and dog hair will get all over it again, guess what he did? he freaking called for the dog through the door and opened the freaking door! Man was I pissed that muderfudger! youre older then him why dont you wake him up?aint your sister think he went too far? its not abt the taboo but its your bed too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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