Jean Grey 2,400 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 So I used to date 2 guys since november (Not at the same time, tho. I am not a cheater) but things didn't work out and I am single now. At first I was like 'yeah, I can finally do what I want' but now I feel lonely as hell. I started to looking at my exes instagram and then I got even more depressed. How can I stop feeling and thinking in that way? D: Because I don't want to randomly start dating strangers from weird hook-up apps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noon 20,968 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 i wish i could help you but ive been single since birth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janiedee 4,766 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Aw sorry to hear that. I would find ways to relish in my freedom. Like being able to gorge on inhuman amounts of ice cream or go out to a nude beach or hip thrust at hot unsuspecting strangers. If all else fails then tinder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baiichi 3,992 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Stop following their IGs. Find new friends first. If you keep jumping to a new relationship, it won't work. Take your time ~ Do some other things instead of dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KUMA-MON 12,792 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 buy ice cream and a dildo, get over it girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laamaa 7,510 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Just find other things to make you happy. Contrary to popular beliefs, lif is not all about finding a partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 i wish i could help you but ive been single since birth Same I think you just need some time to get use to being by yourself again do more things for yourself take time to appraciate yourself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Write down why you are single, the pros, the cons, then ask yourself is it better for you to stay single or not. I am single and while I am not all that happy with it; when I look at the pros vs the cons it makes me feel better about my choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautyQueen ElleBean 2,855 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Are you going out and doing things? You should fill your schedule and go out with your friends. Go to clubs, etc....Then you can enjoy being single. Maybe date casually? Unless you really want a serious relationship. There are sites and apps...Tinder...etc... Write down why you are single, the pros, the cons, then ask yourself is it better for you to stay single or not. I am single and while I am not all that happy with it; when I look at the pros vs the cons it makes me feel better about my choice. This is good too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caiii 1,420 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 I went with 3 double dates with this one girl and I didn't even know it was until after she gave up I don't like being single too but I don't really go actively looking for a partner every breathing moment, just find something else that makes you happy, with me its Kpop, and stop it with your IG stalking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScarletWhimsy 2,203 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Try not to wallow in the sadness of not wanting to be single. It makes things harder. Being single's fun. I'm enjoying myself right now LOL. Trust me, when you get back into a relationship, you're gonna miss it anyway so just enjoy it, treat yourself well, and love will find its way back to you at the right time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yes I Am Rude 4 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 buy ice cream and a dildo, get over it girl Dude...... If you ask me, time will come and just wait in the mean time, do whatever you want and just be free! I know how it feels but first be happy with who you are and everything will be fine, eat tons of pizza and ice cream. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ddeona Oneul Bame 61,629 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 i wish i could help you but ive been single since birth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flowerfenika 2,483 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 i wish i could help you but ive been single since birth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaynaeNicole 3,465 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 I used to enjoy the single life specially since my job requires me to travel all the time. It's starting to get really lonely now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mochi-pyon 313 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 i wish i could help you but ive been single since birth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shhhhh 763 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 i wish i could help you but ive been single since birth Same, its frustrating af. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eunhab Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 Being single is the best thing ever. I had a boyfriend for more than 5 years and we ended things last year for good. Ever since i've been single i have twice the time to daydream about my korean soulmate: Min Yoongi. I don't want anybody else, when i think of SUGA i touch myself ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blem 1,480 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 im tired of being single as well i have no one except my hand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 That's not too long though, I hope you're not one of those girls/boys who think they can't depend on themselves or w/e. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 You and me both girl. I'm actually meeting up with my ex to try to work things out on thursday. Hopefully my single days will be over for a while Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanilla Cupcake 3,584 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Well, start creating your own opportunities. I mean you always hear that love comes around when you least expected it, but you really honestly don't know when that will happen. If you hate being single, you need to start being proactive. I heard "Coffee Meets Bagel" is a pretty good app. Guys on there are more inclined for relationships, rather than hookups. Start joining clubs / community events / work events so you can meet more like-minded guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeoLegend 564 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 im single atm we can talk ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takamina 2,713 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 I feel you :/ I'm frustrated too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smxhyoz 360 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Just find other things to make you happy. Contrary to popular beliefs, lif is not all about finding a partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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