Can you respect a women that wants a marriage partner that makes more money than her?

[Junkrat]

Can you respect a women that wants a marriage partner that makes more money than her?

 

[Youngjeezy]

idc

[Delincious]

thats weird, why would she specifically want that though?

[ari]

bitch yes get that sugar daddy girl treat yaself

[GirlBye]

It's their choice, we all have certain things we want in a marriage partner. Wanting to be financially stable and live a relaxing life isn't a crime.

[redheart]

if it's the only reason why she's marrying them, no

same for man, marriage is serious, do it for good reasons

[valentinna]

i don't see why not. Males make more money than females in the same conditions anyway

[aldrin_only]

I respect working women in general. Especially working moms.

 

Saying that. In our society, there are lots of cases where the wife makes more money than the husband. And if the wife wants their partner to make more money than her, I can totally understand that. Maybe because they have goals and plans that they want to achieve.

 

And for guys that's usually a huge blow to their egos. Of course, any guy wants to be a good provider for their family. And if they see that their wife is making more money than them, that should motivate them to work even harder.

 

I just don't like it when someone in the marriage rub it in their partners face that they are making more money.

[YNRA]

i respect myself, yes 

[coward]

it's not always because of greed.  I have a couple of teacher friends who make shit pay so they all wanted husbands who had stable, better paying jobs then they do.  that way they can still do what they love (work with children) but money isn't such a burden for them.

 

people want different things for different reasons and as long as it's not illegal (I'm sorry, but lusting after livestock is just a no no), I hope they go for it without regrets. 

[k i t t e n c h a n ッ]

thank you for that beautiful gif of Sica. 

[denizen mars]

depends on why. if they want simply to be secure I don't really blame them though that's not how I think myself (I would prefer to have a partner that is simply equal to me, if not in salary then in other ways of contributing to the household). if they want someone who makes bank to buy them lots of things and don't want to lift a finger themselves, that doesn't reflect well on them

[mirurun]

I don't see why not... it's not a crime to want to live a financially stable life

[Anti-fan]

Of course I can it but I wouldn't want that.

[130moodtrbl]

It depends. Like maybe something happened to her where her career didn't work out, so she wants her partner to do it for the sake of herself and her family.

[Jean Grey]

If she wants a financial security that's fine. Because marriage is not only about love.

But if she wants sugar daddy then yikes, probably not. 

[ElleMae]

I want financial security in my future marriage so yes. He doesn't necessarily have to make more than me (bc I hope to make a decent salary with my future career) but my husband will have to make enough for us to live fairly comfortably. In my dreams though my future hubby is a luxurious chaebol type but that's not exactly reality lmao

[KaniPi]

Traditionally, they wouldn't be wrong to think that. 

 

Men are supposed to be the providers for the family, and women raising children, looking after the house. Its not mandatory for them to work.

 

Its not my views though, its just how it is.

[Salieri]

Well from what I know usually my money would be for my wife and my family so I wouldn't mind if she had less money or more and would respect them both way. Once I'm married I am thinking of sharing all my income with her. 

[Nestea Iced Tea]

I want financial security in my future marriage so yes. He doesn't necessarily have to make more than me (bc I hope to make a decent salary with my future career) but my husband will have to make enough for us to live fairly comfortably. In my dreams though my future hubby is a luxurious chaebol type but that's not exactly reality lmao

[None name]

Yes.

[Gyujin]

Yes.

[Nowhere Boy]

yea