Insane 728 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 So last year there was this guy that every time he would pass by me he would look. I noticed and thought he was cute, but nothing more. It was summer vacation and I saw him with a girl. They were hugging so I thought it was his girlfriend so I thought "Forget that...". Time passed, never thought about him again. I returned to school and he was in my class. I was like "OH I remember him, forgot his name...". I started to notice he would look... I was like "No, please no..." So I would think "It's not for me, it's nothing". But when I looked back at him either he would look away or just start smiling. I thought "I'm just imagining things or maybe he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore". I started to have a crush on him but nothing happened. He looked and nothing more... I ended school earlier and never saw him again since January. Today I saw him with a girl, the same girl that was with him last year in summer. I don't have a crush on him anymore but got me thinking "Did he had her as a girlfriend all the time? Was I imagining things? Was I delusional?". In the end it was only a crush, we never really had big conversations, we talked very little and were never alone. But got me thinking "Am I that bad seeing who's interested in me? Am I always this delusional? Maybe that's why I'm a forever alone..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruby Faith 5,082 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 I went through that twice. It is pretty frustrating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teru 22,363 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 there's no way for any of us to tell he was interested in you or not since we don't know him and can't ask, but I wouldn't say you were delusional. anyone else would have the same response I think. I would notice and wonder if someone was looking at me like that. pity it amounted to nothing in the end but at least it kept you entertained for a bit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethnic Pop 3,166 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 So last year there was this guy that every time he would pass by me he would look. I noticed and thought he was cute, but nothing more. It was summer vacation and I saw him with a girl. They were hugging so I thought it was his girlfriend so I thought "Forget that...". Time passed, never thought about him again. I returned to school and he was in my class. I was like "OH I remember him, forgot his name...". I started to notice he would look... I was like "No, please no..." So I would think "It's not for me, it's nothing". But when I looked back at him either he would look away or just start smiling. I thought "I'm just imagining things or maybe he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore". I started to have a crush on him but nothing happened. He looked and nothing more... I ended school earlier and never saw him again since January. Today I saw him with a girl, the same girl that was with him last year in summer. I don't have a crush on him anymore but got me thinking "Did he had her as a girlfriend all the time? Was I imagining things? Was I delusional?". In the end it was only a crush, we never really had big conversations, we talked very little and were never alone. But got me thinking "Am I that bad seeing who's interested in me? Am I always this delusional? Maybe that's why I'm a forever alone..." Please tell me why I went through the exact thing, without the "girlfriend" though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 Delusional? No... He might not have been into you but there's nothing wrong with thinking he'd be, or hoping it. Maybe it was his sister or a friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
المروة 745 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 why didn't you just ask him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cherry bomb 1,628 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 That happens to me all the time, I know how you feel. It's frustrating but I guess if you really want to know what he truly feels then ask him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessicaRabbit 6,569 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 Ah, boys. The most confusing thing to understand since College Algebra. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted November 18, 2013 Author Share Posted November 18, 2013 Please tell me why I went through the exact thing, without the "girlfriend" though. It feels so sad, frustrating... But I guess that happens a lot. Withouth the girlfriend part, I've been throught that many time too Delusional? No... He might not have been into you but there's nothing wrong with thinking he'd be, or hoping it. Maybe it was his sister or a friend? Doubt it, walking hugged, holding hands... The way they were with each other doesn't seem to me like a sister or a friend. But now I'm happy for him! why didn't you just ask him? yeah, I laked courage at the time and wasn't comfortable enough at the time to ask... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethnic Pop 3,166 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 It feels so sad, frustrating... But I guess that happens a lot. Withouth the girlfriend part, I've been throught that many time too Doubt it, walking hugged, holding hands... The way they were with each other doesn't seem to me like a sister or a friend. But now I'm happy for him! yeah, I laked courage at the time and wasn't comfortable enough at the time to ask... Yeah like it happened 2 years ago, then last year we started talking finally..but recently it's been kind of going away unfortunately.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted November 18, 2013 Author Share Posted November 18, 2013 That happens to me all the time, I know how you feel. It's frustrating but I guess if you really want to know what he truly feels then ask him. Now I'm not going to aks him, I don't even know where to find him... Like I said, I didn't see him since January, I don't have a crush on him anymore. I just think is if I'm that bad at seing who's interested in me... Well, one day I too will be lucky He's still cute though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted November 18, 2013 Author Share Posted November 18, 2013 Yeah like it happened 2 years ago, then last year we started talking finally..but recently it's been kind of going away unfortunately.. Maybe he's not interested? Or something happened... I wish I could help you but I'm so bad at this things... But I surely know how you feel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAYAKA 9,964 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 I don't think your delusional at all. This happens to me also and it's quite frustrating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ PD Hercule Poirot ~ 1,868 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 You're not delusional Maybe he's giving the 'interested' vibe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beginning 1,394 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 Who negged you ;-; And i think it's just pretty normal to feel that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetiepieKH 5 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 I'm in similar situation right now. Some guys doesn't have any nerve to say hi. It gets awkward when you meet eyes with them and they don't say anything! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethnic Pop 3,166 Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 Maybe he's not interested? Or something happened... I wish I could help you but I'm so bad at this things... But I surely know how you feel! I'm sure he isn't interested, but hey it's kay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Share Posted November 19, 2013 I'm sure he isn't interested, but hey it's kay. Better times will come for us! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaraSiorai 525 Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 Maybe he was showing interest in you despite having a girlfriend? Just because he's in a relationship, it doesn't negate the possibility that he liked you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethnic Pop 3,166 Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 Better times will come for us! Yeah, but its so hard to find openly gay guys at my high school. Then again it's hard to find anyone that would like me to begin with. >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shimjoohyun 1,137 Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 talk about delusional lol there was this guy in my class that kept on bothering (staring,smiling),give me petname,texting me etc and only stopped after i hinted that i already with someone. found out 2 weeks ago he just got married with his high school sweetheart confused... maybe we were delusional,or maybe they were into us albeit only physically. their hearts belong to someone else i'm sure as heck won't stop admiring beautiful guys just because i'm not single, same case with them too i guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandaness 496 Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 Ah, boys. The most confusing thing to understand since College Algebra. true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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