ETB5 4,512 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 I watched Two Weddings and a Funeral today. In the movie, the protagonist receives an anonymous text telling him that his wife is a lesbian (He already knows; they're in a lavender marriage). This made me question if I would do the same. I came to the conclusion that I would if it were to happen to a family member or a friend, but I wouldn't if it were happening to anyone else, like a coworker. What about you?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urhandsrnaughty 2,648 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 hell no! It's best to stay out of other people's marriages. It's literally none of your business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Saint 524 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miyeon 13,114 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 hell no! It's best to stay out of other people's marriages. It's literally none of your business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiraishin 1,276 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Probably not. If the person goes to such lengths to hide his homosexuality, outing that person out can have a very extreme outcome. Suicide even. And as the case in the movie, the partner might even know it himself. I'd probably talk with the homosexual partner myself to understand why he did that and what he plans to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kisses 1,374 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Idk it really depends on how close I am with them, other than that it's not my place to out someone or interrupt someones marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 If they were cheating on the person I would tell regardless of orientation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llamaswag 8,571 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 I am not really sure. If they able to create a happily marriage/family with no cheating, I think it will be so hard for me to tell if it's a close family (I just hope he/she will tell their partner themselves and I likely talk to him/her) while co-workers I dont think I bother with it (unless it's cheating). But if he/she isn't being faithful, yes I would tell Like there is some extend of understanding from me if him/her want a normal marriage, I think I may have to respect their wishes (but I would courage them to tell their partner if they are close family/friend of mine) esp. if they are happy. I just absolutely can't tolerate with cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vogue 2,424 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 No, it's none of my business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sailor Mars 1,981 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 no bc maybe it is unsafe for the person to come out at that moment or the consequences after that? i dont want to be the reason and it isnt my business Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharmSparks 175 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 No, it really isn't any of my business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Stupid Jellyfish 1,913 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 No. It'd most likely cause a lot more harm than good. It also isn't any of my business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sapphicsunmi 2,713 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 hell no! It's best to stay out of other people's marriages. It's literally none of your business. my thought exacly the person has to come out themselves outing someone is one of the worst things to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
양 지 10,015 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 I would probably talk to the person who's gay or lesbian first. I don't feel comfortable with outing anybody regardless of the situation but if there's cheating involved then I might crack regardless. My philosophy is to just stay out of others relationships though so it would really depend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolores Haze 3,663 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 no i wouldn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 No it could hurt them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon buns 4,642 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 hell no! It's best to stay out of other people's marriages. It's literally none of your business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean Grey 2,400 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 No. I would not tell them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pnkvlvt 97 Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 No. I want to see how long will the homosexual is going to stay in the closet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
93_L 75 Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 I probably won't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athenaeum 81 Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 Why would I ? It's her/his life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyujin 1,545 Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 I probably would. It's just not fair to the person that isn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted May 16, 2016 Share Posted May 16, 2016 I will enjoy the tea from the sidelines Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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