Can you stand being in a long distance relationship?

[milkyho]

And if you're already in one, how does it feel? 

 

 

[yeokdae]

tried it.

thought it'd be easy because, hey. modern technology, but no, it was extremely irritating.

[Milenchy]

No, if I can't be together with who I love then it's not going to work out at all.

[latte]

i think it's pointless.  a big part of dating is physical connection and you can't have that over the internet?  you can have an emotional connection, but the physical part is a big part about dating.

[nla]

I'm in one right now. I live in the US and she lives in the UK. It's hard but we've been together for almost a year now.

[Chiaka]

I am in a LDR, it sucks but u get used to it.

He is living in another country and on top of that even when he

comes back, he lives in another city.

So the hardest is when one of us has to go back to their hometown, but

as time passes u get used to it and dont worry that much until next separation lol

But the end of our LDR is coming very fast, finally, coz its kinda silly being like this.

[Electric Shocked]

Yes. If you meet now and then.

[Plastic Min]

I  kind of was in one... the distance wasn't that long, but because of my family i really couldn't see him.
It's not a good feeling tbh, you miss the person 24/7... also, the "love" at some point started to die.

 

For me it feels really pointless... 

[Barack Oppama]

never tried it before but with an LDR, I would find it harder to trust my partner & I can't handle not being with them IRL since I can't feel them physically 

[Pussy luver]

long distance relationship is not for me but It might work for someone else with lot of patience

[bunny]

i'm in one and i do not recommend it!! 

[damn krystal]

i guess it depends on the people - i've heard cases where it's worked out great, and others not so great - but personally, i think i could probably stand it

[milkyho]

TBH i thought everyone would be like ''YES!!!! Distance is nothing when love is real!!!!!!''

 

 

so i'm glad i'm not the only one who thinks it won't work out

[btich]

just got out of one a few weeks ago that lasted about 2 years. i was incredibly naive at the start thinking "oh i dont mind waiting a few years to meet" but not having a physical connection with someone youve been dating for 2 YEARS sucks ass. plus his timezone was like +13:30 hours ahead of mine so we barely got to talk ! if youre going to date someone online, make sure you can atleast meet soon after dating otherwise DONT do it

[Hangry]

no,it's pointless,

[vader]

tried it - hated it dont think i could handle that again

[Smiley Panda]

Idk, I've heard of cases where it worked out, but like you can see in the comments above, it's not always that great

[Ripiaoppa]

it can work definitely... but just make sure one is not paranoid, both have trust and both are trusting

[None name]

I can't stand being in LDR. Three of my relationship turned into LDR and tried making it work but yea.. They say three is a charm.

 

PS. I really admire those who are in LDR for long time.

[Jean Grey]

I don't recommend it. 

[Wonder.]

tried it - hated it dont think i could handle that again

[xenonblack]

at first it was okay but then things were getting out of control after a few months. yeah trust issues when you cant be with your partner physically. but if its true love. hold on to that feelings and dont ever give up.

[ScarletWhimsy]

Depends on who the other person is.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I've done it before. It's difficult, but not impossible. Both people would need to make an effort to make the relationship work, like setting up Skype dates or making the effort to see each other in person once a year.

[Eucharis]

I tried, but it didn't work out for us. I applaud those who are in a long distance relationship and making it work. Because i know how tough it is and how shitty it can be.