KinkySanta 1,073 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 I don't know how many of you know, but I have a friend with benefits that I meet up with when I'm single (I posted a little bit about our relationship here for some back story http://onehallyu.com/topic/298665-can-this-relationship-be-saved-im-kind-of-getting-all-emotional-right-now/) Basically the timeline of our relationship is early-mid 2014 we were fwb, late 2014 to early 2015 we were in a relationship, mid 2015 we parted ways because he was in bootcamp then I got into a relationship with another guy. In september of 2015 me and my boyfriend split up until mid october. In that time period me and my boyfriend split up I started meeting up with my old friend with benefits. He told me he just got out of a relationship in august. Once I got back with my boyfriend I stopped seeing the fwb. Everything was going great with my boyfriend until we broke up AGAIN in late January. Once we broke up I started seeing the fwb again. Just yesterday I saw him and we went out to lunch. Over lunch we decided to show each other pics of our exes (I know, not the best thing to do). We did that and he happened to slip up and say her name. This morning I decided to go on fb and go to his wall to do some good ol' lurking on his ex's page (I know, another BRILLIANT idea. Lurking only gets you hurt.) On her page I saw a pic of them together in september during the time period me and my fwb met up where she was wearing his sweater. I thought it was a little odd. Then I saw a pic of them at a costume party WEARING A COUPLES COSTUME! Basically I learned he was still with her when we were hooking up. I feel like an idiot because in 2014 he said, "You know, even if I got a girlfriend I'd still want to see you" and I thought he didn't mean it. Guess I know he did. I feel like I shouldn't meet up with him anymore because I no longer trust him. My life has been too dramatic these past few weeks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moe 43 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 Woah. Don't let him do it again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellla 1,996 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 such an idiot this guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 Practice safe sex, especially now because of Zika. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgin No More 1,032 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 he is a fwb it doesn't matter, but yeah cheating is wrong tell him that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swiftswitchsurf 12,276 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 Never do FWB. Somebody always gonna catch feelings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FactMan 2,366 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 You both need to reconsider what the foundations of relationships are because you are each screwing your own lives up and then some others lives too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
˹AS˼ 3,610 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 You need to be added to OH Press and have them set up your own little blog about your personal life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 Just ask him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cessita 276 Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 Never do FWB. Somebody always gonna catch feelings Totally agree with this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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