RedPanny 197 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Um so like, me and my best friend, we been friends when she first moved down here which was last year and we been growing closer since then. This school year is a bit different from last year, we would always be around each other and stuff and she wasn't at all bother by it but slowly as the school year was going, we barely even sit by each other unless she just want some peace and quiet. We don't even have our fun conversations anymore when she by me because she busy talking with this other friend and just completely forgets i even exist by her. We still talk normally but, it don't feel the same, we could easily talk for hours but, now it just 10 mins even just texting with her feels weird. I also notice her other friend, they seem close as how we was close (even more closer and no they not dating! they have their own boyfriend), i don't know if I'm over thinking this, i even asked if she don't like me anymore (she just laughed like, a nice playful laugh and say she likes me the same as she always liked me). ​Are we just drifting apart as this point? Am I just over thinking this? I don't wanna completely drop her but, it actually hurts me that i'm kinda losing a best friend, she was the only one i ever trust with telling her all my personal info and problems... she like my first ever true best friend i guess.... ugh i'm sorry for huge essay but thanks a lot for reading <3... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonder. 4,181 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 i mean, it does sound like you're drifting apart.. maybe shes just busy? is the other friend like in all her classes or smth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedPanny 197 Posted April 18, 2016 Author Share Posted April 18, 2016 i mean, it does sound like you're drifting apart.. maybe shes just busy? is the other friend like in all her classes or smth she usually never busy if she is she would tell me to be honest... only 1 class they in together as far as i know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gayness 2,400 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Yall in middle school? usually those kind of stuff happens in middle school.. most people drift apart and start forming cliques.. but eventually friends that are real starts to unite again by the end of high school.. < but if this aint your situation, then idk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedPanny 197 Posted April 18, 2016 Author Share Posted April 18, 2016 Yall in middle school? usually those kind of stuff happens in middle school.. most people drift apart and start forming cliques.. but eventually friends that are real starts to unite again by the end of high school.. < but if this aint your situation, then idk ​10th grade in high school, we started being friends in 9th grade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bitchcraft 1,377 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Yeah you guys are drifting apart. I know it must hurt but honestly, if you're spending a lot of time and effort on someone and they don't return it back then just stop doing it. That doesn't mean completely drop her, but don't go out of your way to talk to her/spend time with her. Let her be the one spending effort this time. Because, she's probably taking you for granted atm. If you do that, and she cares about you, she will give you more attention, and will try to be a better friend. If she doesn't, then she probably just doesn't care, doesn't deserve you racking your head over it, and simply doesn't deserve having you as a friend. Don't dwell on it, you'll find better friends :3 Source: Been through this shit countless times lol Good luck!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonder. 4,181 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 she usually never busy if she is she would tell me to be honest... only 1 class they in together as far as i know have you had an argument w. her recently Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedPanny 197 Posted April 18, 2016 Author Share Posted April 18, 2016 have you had an argument w. her recently ​We never argue at all before Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synchronization 832 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 get rid of that other bitch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonder. 4,181 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 ​We never argue at all before then.. you guys are drifting apart :( its better to let go than constantly get the shorter end of the stick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Seriously, tell her how you feel. Don't just end it, without trying at least. If despite everything, she still doesn't want to talk much, then leave her be. It doesn't mean ignore her, stay as her friend (be polite and friendly), but accept that you are not as close as before. Find someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedPanny 197 Posted April 18, 2016 Author Share Posted April 18, 2016 Thanks you guys for answering~! And i wasn't thinking about ending our friendship as a whole, it going hurt tho if it does go down to removing our best friend title, i talk to her and tell her how i feel. Thanks you very much <3 c: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonder. 4,181 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Thanks you guys for answering~! And i wasn't thinking about ending our friendship as a whole, it going hurt tho if it does go down to removing our best friend title, i talk to her and tell her how i feel. Thanks you very much <3 c: no problem ^^ good luck~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Yes, I've experienced this with all of my friends so I dropped them. You should do the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TAKA (ã‚¿ã‚«) 23 Posted April 21, 2016 Share Posted April 21, 2016 I'll be your new bestie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
letsrewindit 2,704 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 same thing happens to me with my bff of 3 years. honestly, i dont even know what happen. we still sit with one another, go to class tgt. but lately, she only talks to me when she feels like it. maybe i am older now (not a teen anymore), i dont feel like putting up with this bs. so idc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 a lot of people are going to enter your life and also leave just the same. It's a bit sad but it is a necessity to grow, maintaining friendships can be hard and people find different interests they rather pursue than your own by the time you are in college/university you are probably going find your best friend for life tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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