KinkySanta 1,073 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 Okay, so I started talking to this guy off of okcupid, he's pretty cute. He was good at keeping conversation and thought I was attractive,so I was interested. We had been texting every day for the past month or so until he finally decided to meet up. We decided to go out for coffee. It went really well I thought. He was laughing at my jokes and everything. When it was all over he didn't kiss me though all he did was give the whole one handed hug with a short back rub thing. He then texted me that thought I was really fun and that we should do it again and we made plans for another meet up. The other "date" is in a couple of days, but I'm worried I've been friend zoned because the lack of kissing. I've never been friendzoned before, so I don't really know the signs. Do you think that sounds like friend zoning? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbin's girl 1,050 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 Kinda.. was he flirty with you when you texted? Maybe he doesn't want to move too fast because he see's you as potential for a future girlfriend? I don't like to move too fast if I'm just meeting someone, since they're still new to me. Idk, it seems like he likes you. Just wait for the second date and see if there's more and if he's more flirty.... if not, just talk to him and ask him straight up what he see's in you guy's relationship for the future. Maybe ask him during the second date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synchronization 832 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 i would say no because you are meeting again but all he did was give the whole one handed hug with a short back rub thing hmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 No, maybe he wants to wait little bit before getting physical with you maybe he doesn't want to rush, maybe try to kiss him on the second date and see how he reacts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyungwonho 687 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 Just because you didn't get a kiss from him doesn't mean you've been friendzoned, for me I would friendzone him if he kissed me on the first few dates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skcebl 5,968 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 If you met him on okcupid then he wants to be more than friends. Also, if you want to kiss him then kiss him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S*NE 878 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 I would say no but... When it was all over he didn't kiss me though all he did was give the whole one handed hug with a short back rub thing. I understand not kissing but this.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oh Devonne 272 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elle Eaux Elle 2,298 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 The same thing happened with my ex, except the same thing went on for like 2 months lol. In the end, it was just because he wanted to take things slow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CANCAN 124 Posted April 3, 2016 Share Posted April 3, 2016 Yeah, guys usually like to get into it, so I don't know what you're doing wrong. Maybe he's just weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 I think it's too early to tell and maybe he's just taking things slowly because he's like that or wasn't too confident about kissing you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peppermint 796 Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 You are not friendzoned because he didn't kiss you but idk about the "one handed back rub" only... that seems like a yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon buns 4,642 Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Wait until the second date. But since he wants to do it again, I doubt he wants to "just be friends". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChYkN 743 Posted April 13, 2016 Share Posted April 13, 2016 ehhh the weird hug he gave is kinda friend like, if he just gave a regular hug I would say definitely no but idk could have been nervous about kissing you on the first date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Don't worry and just continue to see him, he'll probably put on the moves by the 3rd date Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanilla Cupcake 3,584 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Some guys are just shy, and not kissing on a first date is still a thing. I mean you've seen it on movies, and on TV shows that guys can get nervous during the last second when they're supposed to kiss the other person, got nervous, and did something stupid, yea? I would give him the benefit of the doubt, especially since he's inviting you for a second date. If you guys have been on 3 - 4 dates, and still no clear signs, I would just ask him straight-up what he wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti-fan 1,353 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Ehh, the one handed hug is kind of... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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