strawberrykiss 1,969 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i was thinking that i'm single cause the right guy hasn't come along yet. For some reason I feel like its unnatural for a 20 year old university student to have never had a boyfriend before lmao. (yes, it's true). At the same time I have had guys approach me but I wasn't interested. are you single by choice or the right person didn't come along yet? are you getting frustrated? cause I am Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
e m ✩ 230 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i know i'm not single but from experience, it did take a lot of waiting. i mean before i met my current gf i had only dated 3 people before, and each of them only lasted a few months while currently i've been with my gf for over a year i think you'll be so much happier waiting for someone that truly steals your heart versus looking for someone to date. when you start as friends and go from there it just feels so much more real Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearclaw 3,543 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 single by choice i guess. It's hard to want someone when half the people coming out you have nothing planned out for the day let alone the next 3months to a year. that and some rude motherfuckers in this day and age, bitch i want to be romanced not no playing games when i dont answer ur text. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Galaxy 2,475 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i was thinking that i'm single cause the right guy hasn't come along yet. For some reason I feel like its unnatural for a 20 year old university student to have never had a boyfriend before lmao. (yes, it's true). At the same time I have had guys approach me but I wasn't interested. are you single by choice or the right person didn't come along yet? are you getting frustrated? cause I am Im in the same exact place, im not too frustrated or concerned. when things happen they'll happen, but ost of all i wanna be ready for when i go look for a guy and right now i don't feel like i am yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzya 727 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 I only had a bf that lasted around one month and I was like 1 month away from being 17? I have been single since and it's purely by choice. You shouldn't have to feel pressured to date if you are not ready or interested Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WHEELCHAIR JIMMY. 9 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 Im in the same exact place, im not too frustrated or concerned. when things happen they'll happen, but ost of all i wanna be ready for when i go look for a guy and right now i don't feel like i am yet i can b ur galaxy shawty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkeuphoria 1,785 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i was thinking that i'm single cause the right guy hasn't come along yet. For some reason I feel like its unnatural for a 20 year old university student to have never had a boyfriend before lmao. (yes, it's true). At the same time I have had guys approach me but I wasn't interested. are you single by choice or the right person didn't come along yet? are you getting frustrated? cause I am Don't get frustrated. If you don't feel like it's the right time, don't force it. It's better to have natural feelings ^^ I'm single right now, but it's because I haven't met anyone I like at the moment. I'm not really in a rush to be in a relationship because there's more to life than just dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaeDJ 732 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 Sometimes I get lonely and want to date but whenever the opportunity comes I get scared and think about how much I like being single and doing what I want and about how hard it is to be in relationships so I just stay single lol (I'm 20) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Galaxy 2,475 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i can b ur galaxy shawty *swoons* my knight in shining armor tken and married , sorry shawty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vader 3,297 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 im a 20 year old university student and i haven't dated since 2012 because after that i got cheated on twice and my heart couldnt deal anymore but now i need some dick in my life again it doesnt help my dorm is near the track so every morning i see shirtless greek god bodied guys running like Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolnoo 4,483 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i mean, i tell myself its by choice but the reality is no one wants me i'm not really frustrated by it though, because i know i shouldn't be dating with all the shit thats happening in my life. its just sometimes i feel a bit sad about it i guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WHEELCHAIR JIMMY. 9 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 *swoons* my knight in shining armor tken and married , sorry shawty my name happens to be kris so this must be fate <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strawberrykiss 1,969 Posted April 1, 2016 Author Share Posted April 1, 2016 im a 20 year old university student and i haven't dated since 2012 because after that i got cheated on twice and my heart couldnt deal anymore but now i need some dick in my life again it doesnt help my dorm is near the track so every morning i see shirtless greek god bodied guys running like sis i feel you!! so many cuties at my university i have to hold back every single time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vader 3,297 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 sis i feel you!! so many cuties at my university i have to hold back every single time i feel like i'm at a point in my life where i don't know what i want with anything job social or love life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guitargeekette 5,960 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i was thinking that i'm single cause the right guy hasn't come along yet. For some reason I feel like its unnatural for a 20 year old university student to have never had a boyfriend before lmao. (yes, it's true). At the same time I have had guys approach me but I wasn't interested. are you single by choice or the right person didn't come along yet? are you getting frustrated? cause I am I'm 26 and I'm in your position. But my advice is, if you're comfy, don't sweat it. Don't become antsy because you think that everyone thinks you should've been dating by now. Society dictates that as a teen you should start to date around so that by 20 you've had your share of exes and experience. But if you're not interested in wasting that kind of time, I don't see how that's unnatural. I've never been in a relationship, but not because no one was interested in me...it's the opposite. I was just never interested in anyone around me and I was never concerned enough to go searching or whatever. I refuse to become desperate and just go out with the next guy who's interested in me "just cuz". I need to find the person spiritually, intellectually and characteristically appealing and sense some other important stuff about them FIRST before I decide to enter into a relationship with them. Until that happens, I'm cool. I have moments where I wonder what being in that kind of relationship would be like, but that's about it. Getting frustrated is a bit useless imo, so I'd advise chilling as an alternative lol. If that isn't your speed, you probably will start your hunt very soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strawberrykiss 1,969 Posted April 1, 2016 Author Share Posted April 1, 2016 i feel like i'm at a point in my life where i don't know what i want with anything job social or love life all i know is that i want dick I'm 26 and I'm in your position. But my advice is, if you're comfy, don't sweat it. Don't become antsy because you think that everyone thinks you should've been dating by now. Society dictates that as a teen you should start to date around so that by 20 you've had your share of exes and experience. But if you're not interested in wasting that kind of time, I don't see how that's unnatural. I've never been in a relationship, but not because no one was interested in me...it's the opposite. I was just never interested in anyone around me and I was never concerned enough to go searching or whatever. I refuse to become desperate and just go out with the next guy who's interested in me "just cuz". I need to find the person spiritually, intellectually and characteristically appealing and sense some other important stuff about them FIRST before I decide to enter into a relationship with them. Until that happens, I'm cool. I have moments where I wonder what being in that kind of relationship would be like, but that's about it. Getting frustrated is a bit useless imo, so I'd advise chilling as an alternative lol. If that isn't your speed, you probably will start your hunt very soon. thank you for this <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vader 3,297 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 all i know is that i want dick yas girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 I'm single, but not by choice. It's always been like this: Guys I like don't want me, and the few guys that actually approach me aren't guys I want to date. I'm starting to become bitter tbh because I'm tired of never getting the man, and never having my feelings returned. I'm older than you and have never had a boyfriend. I wish I could say it'll definitely get better, but..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkeuphoria 1,785 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 i mean, i tell myself its by choice but the reality is no one wants me i'm not really frustrated by it though, because i know i shouldn't be dating with all the shit thats happening in my life. its just sometimes i feel a bit sad about it i guess. Oh no, don't feel that way. You never know how some people feel, because honestly there are a lot of people that hide their feelings. I'm positive that there have been people that were interested in you ^^ all i know is that i want dick thank you for this <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arietta 789 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 I've never been in a relationship because I just haven't found the right guy... but I guess I can be a little picky and I don't give guys chances very often... I turn down a lot of guys, but I've been on dates with a few, and I've done the friends with benefits thing with one, but I never want to pursue anything else with any of them *sigh* I just want to find a guy that likes me and I like him and there's a connection and we fall in love and get married and travel the world and have cute babies and then grow old and happy together. I'm such a hopeless romantic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regality 955 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 Sadly never dated, because I deserve no one or because I don't even put any effort Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jooyoungsbae 5,281 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 im single by choice my whole life til now (17 yrs) ive rejected about 5 guys im super picky which kinda sucks lol i wish i wasnt picky i also realize that this might sound snobbish lol but its just my preference Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 I think it isn't as uncommon for a girl to not have a boyfriend ever at that age by her own choice or just by being picky but I'm sure you're gonna find someone you like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peppermint 796 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 I'm just pretty much like you. I wouldn't date someone just because he's 'uhm... okay' save yourself for the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shhhhh 763 Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 I'm 18 next month and I never had a boyfriend either. It frustrating as hell! Even my little brother is in a relationship and my friends make fun of me for being the only virgin in our group... And not to mention my family members: "why dont you have a boyfriend, youre so pretty? Or are you secretly gay?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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