my parents are really unfair sometimes

[المروة]

they always always shift all the chores to the girls in my family. Like  I love my twin brothers and younger brother but they are so useless, they can't do shit. They don't know how the washing machine works, they don't know how the dishwasher works, hardly know how use the stove, don't know how to turn on central heating basically they don't know shit and they don't do shit and it's really getting to me tonight; like my dad just walked into my room and told me that I need to start cleaning the bathroom every week on top of all the other fucking chores I do and when I asked him why can't my brothers' do at least ONE household chore, he says that boys and girls are different and women are supposed to take care of the house and look after it and what not and I get so fucking PISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSED OFF like how are we different you sexist piece of $%^*&! UGGGGGGGGGH

 

 

my mum is like this too, always trying to domesticate me wtf man, it's 21st fucking century yet my parents live in an entire different century. So vexed right now, I'm going to pack my bags and leave this house but according to them a girl can't live on her own until she gets married hahahahahahahahahahah. so fucking funny i swear to fucking God

 

Are your parents like this too? Share your frustrations. 

[Hoplz]

Yup but I don't do shit anyways

[Guest Kami_removed]

#sexism

[Dandelion Wine]

In my house its the opposite, my brother gets most of the chores

[abra]

If only I had a sister so I didn't have to do the tidying and cleaning at home

 

jk

[YIXINGISM]

They always force me to do chores. But my siblings always ended up doing it haha 

[thetoilenator]

Just wait till you go to uni, then you won't have to deal with anyone's shit (unless u get crappy flatmates. goodluck then)

[Simmi]

My mom does nag me about house chores but thankfully my dad saves me lol but since I live on my own now; I have got no other option than to do it all by myself T.T

[gyu]

Most of the time which pisses me off.

[♥SNS-Shinomiya♥]

Let me offer another perspective to the already obvious one. The responcibility that you will have and your brothers have may be different. While you learn to be domestic (which isn't a bad thing, most guys I know like a girl that knows how to be a "good wife") your bros may have to learn how to be a man (learning how to be responcible, do more "manual" work around the house, or your parents may treat them harsher when they screw up because they are boys (who will have to run thier own household when they get older)). Maybe your getting the easy side of the plate while your bros will get the harder part when they come of age. I don't think learning how to be domestic is a bad thing, somewhat old fashioned but not bad.

 

I don't think what your parents are doing is wrong, or even bad. They aren't hurting you, you just sound kinda bitter is all.

 

 

this another perspective to see things.

[awolfska]

Oh I get you girl. My parents hold pretty traditional values regarding what genders should and should not do too, and it does grate my nerves sometimes. But they still make my little brother get engaged in chores too, just so when he grows up he knows how to live on his own, etc. So I don't really hate it that much - because although they (my father especially) make these irritating sexist comments at times, for the most part chores are still shared between my sibling and me, and I do see the value of learning how to do these things so that I can take care of myself in the future.

[BABOGIRL]

i used to feel that way... then i moved out and had to do everything by myself... it's a good thing they're making you do the chores for they will carry on when you finally live by yourself

[aripod]

I love my parents more now that I don't live with them. Honestly though, mine were the same way. I don't agree but my brothers were too young to be expected to do chores anyways. Just do the chores, running away isn't good because nobody will ever tolerate you as much as your parents do. You'll miss them too much.