luxuriouss86 185 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 I grew up with my cousins on my dad's side and they never cared about me. They never even talk to me. They never suggest me to do something like play basketball, learn a language or somethin. They never call me and ask me how am I doing. They never ask me how's school or work. They never ask teach me any life lessons. I don't why my dad always dragging me around angry and conceited people who dont care about me. they're just so ignorant. He used to take me to my grandmother's(my dad's mom) house for no reason when there's no other people my age to talk to. My grandmother (dad's mom) never talk to me either but sometimes. they only talk to me when I get in trouble. That's all they think about. Maybe I should ditch them and cut all ties with them because I can't stand being around angry and conceited people who don't care about people. That's why I go to church where my spiritual family care about me and I hang out with them every week and they call me, or text or message on social media and ask me how am I doin. do you think I should cut all ties with my family on my dad's side and ditch them? Is your immediate family like your cousins, aunts and uncles are like this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- 967 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Ditch them! Blood doesn't make family my dad doesn't care about me, i don't remember the last time i saw him and he never calls. I don't even think of him as my dad anymore.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ 730 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 then you initiate conversations.. what nice things have you done to them, why do you feel entitled to be cared for and if they keep ignoring you then you ignore them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sapphicsunmi 2,713 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Dont be with them then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alisonn 5,454 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Cutting ties is a bit much... Maybe you should try to initiate conversation with them. Ask them how they're going, it's not meant to be a one way thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
feat. you 1,103 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 why should they care about you though? they didn't choose to be your cousins, they didnt choose to be related to you. go make some friends, you choose your friends and your friends choose you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PromiscuousBunny 3,686 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 great. move on with your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 They must be your second or first cousins? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luxuriouss86 185 Posted March 22, 2016 Author Share Posted March 22, 2016 They must be your second or first cousins? first cousins Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 first cousins What about your siblings? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luxuriouss86 185 Posted March 22, 2016 Author Share Posted March 22, 2016 What about your siblings? my siblings on my mom's are good. we talk to each other alot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 my siblings on my mom's are good. we talk to each other alotMaybe it's not your fault, like its not your cousins fault. maybe your dad and his brothers and sisters which are your uncles and aunts, don't get along or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Stupid Jellyfish 1,913 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 If you're 29 and they've never had anything to do with you then it's probably never going to happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luxuriouss86 185 Posted March 23, 2016 Author Share Posted March 23, 2016 Maybe it's not your fault, like its not your cousins fault. maybe your dad and his brothers and sisters which are your uncles and aunts, don't get along or something? I don't know how my dad's brothers and sisters get along but they talk to each other sometimes. Everytime something negative happens like My aunt Mary's daughter, Denise told me to go somewhere after our grandmother's funeral in 2011 on the way to the reception and her mother, Mary just stood there and did nothing about it. so that's why I don't talk to them anymore. I think they have Asperger's syndrome or something. Denise never apologize to me after that. They don't talk to me unless I call or text them first. they're just so boring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 I don't know how my dad's brothers and sisters get along but they talk to each other sometimes. Everytime something negative happens like My aunt Mary's daughter, Denise told me to go somewhere after our grandmother's funeral in 2011 on the way to the reception and her mother, Mary just stood there and did nothing about it. so that's why I don't talk to them anymore. I think they have Asperger's syndrome or something. Denise never apologize to me after that. They don't talk to me unless I call or text them first. they're just so boring.If they aren't your type of people, then it's OK not to contact them. You and your cousins both probably feel the same towards each other don't find it necessary to contact each other since there is not much to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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