I feel lonely and I want to make friends around my age

[Kstarnet]

I am a very quiet and introvert person. I am like this since young.I already going to graduated from college and now I am doing my internship as my last semester.

 

The problem is how can I make friends with the ones around my age? i don't like to go out and I used to be alone since I am an only child. I am awkward with social situations. Need some help?

[Loketâ™”]

i was like that once,but now people can't actually believe that i was ever that shy and introvert person haha

you should step out of your lets call it a 'box'

i was always in my comftorable position and wouldn't talk to much because i felt like i would say something dumb or something that people will laugh me about?

it was when i was 13 so people that age don't show compassion to others like that and like to laugh about small things in general to put others down,but since you are really grown up and you are around mature people,i feel like that they will accept you like you are and they will not laugh to you like they used to me

 

try to talk to them and just literaly start convo abt the weather and the conversation will lead its flow and you need to find confidence to make new people,it is true my friend,you need to feel great and smile a lot and people will definetly notice you and would want to become friends with you

and you can totally sing up for something you like or some other activities and find people who share same interests as you 

 

i hope this helped a little hah

[Mrs.Galaxy]

It's hard, to meet new people and become instant friends with them. I'm always baffled how some people become bffs instantly. I have trouble making friends too, and I'd suggest finding common interests with people among your group.

 

If you really want to make more friends you're gonna have to push yourself more and interact and socalize with the people around you that means going out a few times, grabbing lunch with your coworkers.

 

Try volunteering in places you like that way you'd surely meet people who like the same things as you and socalize with them.

If its something youre not used to its gonna be hard and need practice but you can fo it ^_^, Talk to people about anything and they'll talk back lol, people love to talk. And if al else fails bring up the weather lol.

 

Good luck

[Itsmee]

[momorinxoxo]

Hello! Feel free to talk/be friends with me

 

I'm an introvert but I'm the type who's in love with being alone. I don't like to be with crowd and force myself to people who are always making me feel like I'm weird (/introverts are weird). I love to observe and I will only answer and talk to people who are interested in what I'm going to say. I do listen to them. And no, I'm not lonely I have a few friends with me and I find it nice and easier to do things my way if I'm alone. But I need that one special friend with me though or my sister (and family).

 

Extra note:

I'm 50% shy but when it comes to Kpop performances, I'm not shy. Zehahaha. Kpop becomes my therapy.

 

Nice to meet you Kstarnet <3

[Nowhere Boy]

I'm also an introvert. Just try to find people who have common interests with you. Then you can make more friends through those people. Just start a conversation about something you both like, whether it be KPop, movies, video games, or whatever you're both interested in.

[Kstarnet]

Hello! Feel free to talk/be friends with me

 

I'm an introvert but I'm the type who's in love with being alone. I don't like to be with crowd and force myself to people who are always making me feel like I'm weird (/introverts are weird). I love to observe and I will only answer and talk to people who are interested in what I'm going to say. I do listen to them. And no, I'm not lonely I have a few friends with me and I find it nice and easier to do things my way if I'm alone. But I need that one special friend with me though or my sister (and family).

 

Extra note:

I'm 50% shy but when it comes to Kpop performances, I'm not shy. Zehahaha. Kpop becomes my therapy.

 

Nice to meet you Kstarnet <3

Nice to meet you, rinnlakkuma. Glad to hear that there is someone like me. I have few friends from my college. Even though I like being alone but I feel better if my friend is with me

 

P.S, I am dancing machine when it comes to Kpop :D

 

I'm also an introvert. Just try to find people who have common interests with you. Then you can make more friends through those people. Just start a conversation about something you both like, whether it be KPop, movies, video games, or whatever you're both interested in.

Well, I have a friend that likes kpop but she interns in another company