KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 When I was taking the train from my local train station, I saw my previous bully who gave me a really hard time at University (because of her I had to take a gap year, went into serious depression and even deferred my graduation ceremony so she and her friends wouldn't abuse me further) I did actually report her and everything, but in the end she just lied and made me look like I was the one bullying her and even manipulated her friends into believing that, so I got nothing out of it. Also I did actually confront her too before, and she pretended she didn't know anything when she did, I stopped her when she decided to walk away, then she started fake crying and then I got in trouble with the teachers. So yeah, we have some bad blood between us. Anyway, its been almost more than a year since that happened. So it was a serious shock (internally) when I saw her. She did glance at me a few times, maybe smiled and muttered something under her breath, but I just ignored her (just saw her as a stranger nothing more). We did come very close as we were boarding the train as well, but I sat well away from her. She doesn't live in my local area, no where near, so yeah it was extremely strange to see her here. I'm sort of wondering whether I should have said something, but so much time has past already. Seriously felt like slapping the shit out of her, but I didn't want to be charged for assault. My life is a melodrama lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 it was probably for the best that you didn't speak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MINYOONGI 3,082 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 you'd think that people in uni can actually start acting like the adults that they are but sadly that doesn't seem like the case. how pathetic. sorry that you had to go through the bullying. honestly, i wouldn't even waste my time if i were you as tempting as it may be to give her a piece of your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joji. 5,062 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 You handled it well, I would've jumped that bitch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
╯SHIwol╰ 2,348 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 Yup it's a good thing you didn't do anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Æstrid 448 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 Came in expecting the bully would be on their knees :x But I'm sorry you had to go through that, it sounds horrible tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 18, 2016 Author Share Posted March 18, 2016 it was probably for the best that you didn't speak you'd think that people in uni can actually start acting like the adults that they are but sadly that doesn't seem like the case. how pathetic. sorry that you had to go through the bullying. honestly, i wouldn't even waste my time if i were you as tempting as it may be to give her a piece of your mind. Yeah, I think you guys are right. I have already tried confronting her when we were at Uni, and all she did was deny it, so obviously she would do that again if I tried that now. She's very good at manipulating others and pretending to be a victim. Also, it would have given her the satisfaction that even after all this time, that I am still affected by her. Came in expecting the bully would be on their knees :xBut I'm sorry you had to go through that, it sounds horrible tbh I'm going to start work soon, so its not really beneficial to me. Unless she openly tried something, I'd be the one blamed for it...again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kagura-San 355 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 u got some patience meeting that bully, but yeah its good that u didnt do anything to that person.. karma will get to that person someday.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danee 5,049 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 My sister was bullied by teacher at her uni. Thanks to that bitch she was unable to graduate. -____- She met her under Eifel Tower in Paris. Both of them are Czechs living in CZE. Just stay calm, she is not your problem anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 18, 2016 Author Share Posted March 18, 2016 u got some patience meeting that bully, but yeah its good that u didnt do anything to that person.. karma will get to that person someday.. Honestly, if she admitted what she did, and even apologized back then, I genuinely would have forgiven her. I already got a good indication though, that she didn't feel any remorse over anything, which is a shame. I'm glad that I didn't choose to act friendly towards her either (I did also have some thoughts to do that, maybe it would have buried the situation there and then) but too much has happened already between us. Yeah, I hope so too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akisame 3,880 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 You did the right thing. Just pretending like she absolutely didn't exist most likely made her feel uncomfortable, but if you had talked to her she probably would have felt some sort of form of self-satisfaction. The woman sounds like a complete narcissistic c*nt tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 i know how you feel can we become friend ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonsus 2,143 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 I would have kicked ha disgusting bully ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
searching happiness 338 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 I would be shocked too if i get into the same situation... you handled it really well ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 18, 2016 Author Share Posted March 18, 2016 You did the right thing. Just pretending like she absolutely didn't exist most likely made her feel uncomfortable, but if you had talked to her she probably would have felt some sort of form of self-satisfaction. The woman sounds like a complete narcissistic c*nt tbh. Interesting you said that, because its true haha. She would constantly look in the mirror, and complain about her weight (even when she is really skinny). Also, she always tries to manipulate people that would benefit her. I think I know her better than she knows herself. I know that she hates when she is not given much importance. Lol I just got reminded, my situation is really similar to School 2015 in terms of seeing my bully. I took a gap year because of her, came back and found out she did the same thing. Saw her after more than a year, still she was being a bitch, when I pretended that she didn't exist. Its funny how she still remembers me. i know how you feel can we become friend ? Yeah of course have you been through a similar situation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 i being through the same situation like you it just the difference is i dont stand up against those bully and it end up destroy 3 years of my life .......and now im evil Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 18, 2016 Author Share Posted March 18, 2016 i being through the same situation like you it just the difference is i dont stand up against those bully and it end up destroy 3 years of my life .......and now im evil I'm sorry you went through that. Don't feel bad, at least now if a similar situation occurs, you know how to deal with it. Standing up against bullies isn't that easy at all, especially when you know things could go very well against you. You're strong for not going down to their level. Also, I hope you're not evil because the worst thing you could do is become what you hate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharmSparks 175 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 I think ignoring her was best. She already caused enough damage and I'm glad you didn't do anything that might have gotten you into trouble because of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 I'm sorry you went through that. Don't feel bad, at least now if a similar situation occurs, you know how to deal with it. Standing up against bullies isn't that easy at all, especially when you know things could go very well against you. You're strong for not going down to their level. Also, I hope you're not evil because the worst thing you could do is become what you hate. sometime make me wonder how the hell i face that all alone for so long,they bully me for 2 year and i suppose to grad after that but because of them i extend to 2 more years,my gpd drop drastically!...they are a smart student, 4.0 gpa student and they were like 10 people!! ,all the lecturer love them,they even able to make lecturer hate on me....turn all my friend against me ,they able to make my junior to hate me ,even way behind 4 semester junior know about me,every time i walk around the campus i can heard whispering voice and people give me that mean stare .and even some student from other university from across the country know about me(the power of social media!) to the extend some of my panpal from other country know about it and hate me...even my parent were against me and i still remember they laughing face while looking at me ,they sit far away behind my parent while i saw my parent in front of me crying ..my dad even say to me it his fault for not teaching me correctly ,cuz people around them (my parent are lecturer)keep saying its they fault for not teaching their child to be a normal human being .............literally i got `nobody' the only one who still come and stay with me is my cat and she ran away after i dont have money to buy cat food anymore, i look at their face when they were laughing ,and weirdly i was not mad ,i was thinking,why all the evil people always win at the end? they always successful and they going to fuck up this world for their on benefit ...those people got potential to join Illuminati/freemanson for sure!!and they gonna control the world live as that 1% social elite while im going to have soo much debt and will keep working until the end of my life i bet they think why this stupid kid still not against us after what we have done ,this kid sooo stupid ,they plan it soo well make me wonder how they able to jungle the time for doing this and their time on study??? ....it already 3 years ....and i feel bless ,know why? i got 0 motivation before...now .....i got a goal..........get my revenge on those 10 people one by one and i dont care how long it take...,and i happy right now cuz i didnt realize it gonna take short amount of time then i expected,i thought i would need to take like 30 years to get them one by one ,turn out i can get them within this year since MY PLAN almost finish in perfect way .....until this day people still think im the evil one,nobody know the truth ,you guy are like the first people to know about this.... i even got a title....public enemy no 1 for @#$@% university ....i have to censorship those university name ,seriously i really wonder how the hell i able to face that??normal people would probably kill themselve...cuz the thing that happen to me was soooo bad.when i think about it with logical mind i was like..shhiiitt they reeeaaalllly hate me huh!!?? the thing they did was soooooo bad and evil and it seem like death is far nicer way then this ......or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 19, 2016 Author Share Posted March 19, 2016 I think ignoring her was best. She already caused enough damage and I'm glad you didn't do anything that might have gotten you into trouble because of her. Yeah, I think she was just trying to get a reaction from me. When she got off the train, she stood and stared at me for a good couple of seconds too with a smirk on her face. I just stared back without any emotion, until she finally looked away and went. It was still quite shocking though, that even after all that time (more than 1 year), she's still just as stupid. I guess this lets me know, that if I ever see her again, I don't hold back, for any reason. sometime make me wonder how the hell i face that all alone for so long,they bully me for 2 year and i suppose to grad after that but because of them i extend to 2 more years,my gpd drop drastically!...they are a smart student, 4.0 gpa student and they were like 10 people!! ,all the lecturer love them,they even able to make lecturer hate on me....turn all my friend against me ,they able to make my junior to hate me ,even way behind 4 semester junior know about me,every time i walk around the campus i can heard whispering voice and people give me that mean stare .and even some student from other university from across the country know about me(the power of social media!) to the extend some of my panpal from other country know about it and hate me...even my parent were against me and i still remember they laughing face while looking at me ,they sit far away behind my parent while i saw my parent in front of me crying ..my dad even say to me it his fault for not teaching me correctly ,cuz people around them (my parent are lecturer)keep saying its they fault for not teaching their child to be a normal human being .............literally i got `nobody' the only one who still come and stay with me is my cat and she ran away after i dont have money to buy cat food anymore, i look at their face when they were laughing ,and weirdly i was not mad ,i was thinking,why all the evil people always win at the end? they always successful and they going to fuck up this world for their on benefit ...those people got potential to join Illuminati/freemanson for sure!!and they gonna control the world live as that 1% social elite while im going to have soo much debt and will keep working until the end of my life i bet they think why this stupid kid still not against us after what we have done ,this kid sooo stupid ,they plan it soo well make me wonder how they able to jungle the time for doing this and their time on study??? ....it already 3 years ....and i feel bless ,know why? i got 0 motivation before...now .....i got a goal..........get my revenge on those 10 people one by one and i dont care how long it take...,and i happy right now cuz i didnt realize it gonna take short amount of time then i expected,i thought i would need to take like 30 years to get them one by one ,turn out i can get them within this year since MY PLAN almost finish in perfect way .....until this day people still think im the evil one,nobody know the truth ,you guy are like the first people to know about this.... i even got a title....public enemy no 1 for @#$@% university ....i have to censorship those university name ,seriously i really wonder how the hell i able to face that??normal people would probably kill themselve...cuz the thing that happen to me was soooo bad.when i think about it with logical mind i was like..shhiiitt they reeeaaalllly hate me huh!!?? the thing they did was soooooo bad and evil and it seem like death is far nicer way then this ......or not Please forgive me if I'm being rude, but you are being serious right...I mean I understood the first half, but later it got confusing to me. Sorry that happened to you though, it sounds awful. Anyway, those people may appear successful, but as people they are complete failures. Also, this life is temporary, there's no point killing yourself. We'll meet the worst people, but they'll teach us some really good lessons too. It shows us what type of people we don't want to become, and also makes us empathize with others who are suffering, because we know how it feels. Why don't you transfer to another University? If you can't do that, maybe carry a voice recorder/video camera next time, you could capture what they do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 Yeah, I think she was just trying to get a reaction from me. When she got off the train, she stood and stared at me for a good couple of seconds too with a smirk on her face. I just stared back without any emotion, until she finally looked away and went. It was still quite shocking though, that even after all that time (more than 1 year), she's still just as stupid. I guess this lets me know, that if I ever see her again, I don't hold back, for any reason. Please forgive me if I'm being rude, but you are being serious right...I mean I understood the first half, but later it got confusing to me. Sorry that happened to you though, it sounds awful. Anyway, those people may appear successful, but as people they are complete failures. Also, this life is temporary, there's no point killing yourself. We'll meet the worst people, but they'll teach us some really good lessons too. It shows us what type of people we don't want to become, and also makes us empathize with others who are suffering, because we know how it feels. Why don't you transfer to another University? If you can't do that, maybe carry a voice recorder/video camera next time, you could capture what they do. i was but when i read what i wrote for the second time ,it sound so serious,cuz it is....so i put emoticon and change my writing style so it will sound like its not that serious ,i already graduate thou,it just i feel like i need to get my justice back!ps: every time shit thing happen to me i will picture less unfortunate ppl like little children in country at africa ,who some of them even have to eat rock just for a living Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 Your encounter seems intense.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ 730 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 it backfired on you back then so it can now, too.. since a long time has passed, there'd be no context for you to jump on her.. it's not fair, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted March 19, 2016 Author Share Posted March 19, 2016 i was but when i read what i wrote for the second time ,it sound so serious,cuz it is....so i put emoticon and change my writing style so it will sound like its not that serious ,i already graduate thou,it just i feel like i need to get my justice back!ps: every time shit thing happen to me i will picture less unfortunate ppl like little children in country at africa ,who some of them even have to eat rock just for a living Well, you don't need to do that bad experiences makes us all serious. That's really good. Glad to hear that. That's true. There's always someone that is suffering more... but it doesn't make our problems irrelevant. We still have emotions. Your encounter seems intense.. Yeah, it was... I was quite disturbed by how she reacted. I wouldn't have cared much, if we had both ignored each other and left it at that, but she tried to get back at me, which is pathetic, since so much time has passed already. it backfired on you back then so it can now, too.. since a long time has passed, there'd be no context for you to jump on her.. it's not fair, though. I know. I think she did whisper some insults to me, when we were near, but I didn't react. As I mentioned before, I assume she was bothered that I ignored her, so she was smirking/staring at me, to get me mad. I probably should have refused to look at her, but I didn't want her to think that I was afraid of her either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 Well, you don't need to do that bad experiences makes us all serious. That's really good. Glad to hear that. That's true. There's always someone that is suffering more... but it doesn't make our problems irrelevant. We still have emotions. ok,i promise i will try not to be evviilll....* pinky promise* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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