Question for people that have Grandparents that have passed away

[Jung Chaeyeon Perfect Girl]

Were you upset ?

 

I have 3 brothers, and every one of them cried, but I didn't feel anything...

I just felt awkward because I had to give them some sort of sad reaction,

and they must have seen right through it.

 

I've always felt really shitty about this, but I can't help it that I wasn't close with my Grandparents.

 

 

[yeripped]

I didnt cry either, we werent that close. I felt really bad for my parents but thats all

[sillysone]

My grandparents died before I was born. 

[Nowhere Boy]

All of my grandparents died before I was born other than my grandmother on my mom's side who is still alive

[spicey babe]

My grandma died the last year, I didn't feel anything because I wasn't close to her. Anyway, you shouldn't feel awkward because of that.

[oeu]

Were you upset ?

 

I have 3 brothers, and every one of them cried, but I didn't feel anything...

I just felt awkward because I had to give them some sort of sad reaction,

and they must have seen right through it.

 

I've always felt really shitty about this, but I can't help it that I wasn't close with my Grandparents.

it's ok not to feel anything. cuz when ppl die, dey go ta heaven

 

yeah... u can study esther hicks, she can explain all dat

 

also... when ppl die dey go to heaven and u can talk to them too. they always have nice and positive messages 4u cuz dey don't got nothin to worry about no more

 

so i think u don't feel nuthin cuz u smarter.

 

someone my uncle in my family jus' die. he be young too. he had young kid.

 

i guess i was sad for 2 days, but i wish i was like u. cuz u ... somewhere inside u u know dat dey go to heaven

 

again

- check out esther hicks on youtube

[ellectrified]

When my paternal granpa died, I cried but only when I heard the news. Mostly because I wasn't there when he passed away. But I wasn't really close to him.

My paternal granma and my maternal grandpa died long before I was born.

[Jung Chaeyeon Perfect Girl]

My grandma died the last year, I didn't feel anything because I wasn't close to her. Anyway, you shouldn't feel awkward because of that.

 

One of my brothers looked at me like I was some heartless piece of shit...

[KimHeeSung]

I didn't cry when my grandma passed away.

[Ddeona Oneul Bame]

My mom's parents both died before I was born~ My dad's are still alive~

 

However, I did meet my Great Grandmother a year before she died~ I was sad, but I didn't really cry because I only knew her for a short while and we didn't really talk much (she was really old).

 

For my Grandparents tho, I will be torn TF up~

[momorinxoxo]

I cried a lil but I cried a lot when I remember moments with them. Since I was a child, I was so close with my grannies

[Caiii]

I cried so much tbh, he passed away in our home, on the eve of Christmas which was also my father's birthday. I miss him so much.

[JaynaeNicole]

When I first heard the news I cried,but that was it. I was really close to my grandma. I got to leave work and visit her for a couple days before she passed away. So in a since I was ready for it

[Mrs.Galaxy]

I grandfather passed away before I was born so I never knew him. But if anything happens to my grandparents I'd ball my eyes out

[girlcalledH]

With my grandma I didn't cry at first, 'cause we weren't close. But then I cried lots at the funeral.

With my grandpa I was really sad right from the start, since I was closer with him. And once again cried lots at the funeral.

[KaniPi]

I was really young when they passed away, so I don't remember much. 

 

There's nothing wrong with not crying or whatever, because not everyone shows their emotions. However, if you don't feel any kind of sadness for their death (maybe even wishing you were closer to them), then that's quite awkward to me.

[Enyo]

I never got to met my dad's parents but everybody has good things to say about them. The maternal ones are straight up POS so when he died I couldn't care less.

[Jung Chaeyeon Perfect Girl]

it's ok not to feel anything. cuz when ppl die, dey go ta heaven

 

yeah... u can study esther hicks, she can explain all dat

 

also... when ppl die dey go to heaven and u can talk to them too. they always have nice and positive messages 4u cuz dey don't got nothin to worry about no more

 

so i think u don't feel nuthin cuz u smarter.

 

someone my uncle in my family jus' die. he be young too. he had young kid.

 

i guess i was sad for 2 days, but i wish i was like u. cuz u ... somewhere inside u u know dat dey go to heaven

 

again

- check out esther hicks on youtube

 

Looooooool.

[Hacker]

Iv only seen my grandfather 3 times. He lived in Australia and we live in Canada, dunno why he never called but when he passed all of my siblings and my mother cried, i guess since i barley knew him i didn't have memories to reminisce. I was sad cuz he's my grandpa but i got over it the next day. Maybe i'm just heartless  the last time i cried was when i realized SAO was having a second season and it was....... GGA   *kill me now*

[rose]

Dude at least you didn't say you didn't care to your parents and meant it   But my mom didn't seem to care either lmao. I was never close to my drandad anyways.

[nutella]

Yes, I was really sad. I cried for hours and days after my grandfather died and sometimes I would cry while showering. Just typing this makes me emotional. When my grandma died, I didnt cry as much bc I had to be strong for my month who was a mess. But when I think about her I feel sad and I wish I had told her I loved her before she died. And now I am crying again 

[kyum]

All of my grandparents died before I was born other than my grandmother on my mom's side who is still alive

[INNA]

all my grandparents died before i was born so...

[oeu]

Looooooool.

[oeu]

One of my brothers looked at me like I was some heartless piece of shit...

just ignore him. his opinion of u doesn't matter. only urs