LGBTQIA Community Thread! If you're queer come here~

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Did anyone miss our favorite Weibo user.

 

 

 

 

 

 

holy fucking shit

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but real talk

why do people fawn over white guys like literally ive seen so many of them in the media it's fuckin tiring

 

my gay asian friend says that he likes white guys because "they all look unique" and im like ?????

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Don't you already know the answer to this?

idk i mean really im just like questioning people's life choices

 

Maybe your friend has a White fetish or something. OMG, I'm feeling fetishized! 

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hey guys, I think it's the first time I'm posting here 

I've stopped talking with my only gay friend so I really miss having someone to talk about these stuff T-T (he's friends with my ex and I found out he told her some things I'd said to him)

Anyway, I'll be probably posting more in the future, hope you guys find me bearable xD

welcome!!!!

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damn i wish i could've gotten into kpop earlier so i could've been on the older forums

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good morning gays

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ugh I really want a boyfriend but at the same time I'm super conflicted

 

I've never been in an actual relationship before so I'm a complete virgin to anything so while I want a boyfriend for the experience and to "have someone," I really don't know what to expect from it and im just uugehwbrebshsh

 

that and my astronomically high standards don't particularly match well with the fact that I can't get people to like me (aside from like two occasions, but in the most recent one, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship so I was like well that's such a waste)

 

im just a confused and lonely gay child like fuck

 

i need to find somebody worth being with and somehow charm them pls help me

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Hey, if the gay guys in here could list their favourite male idols in my poll, it would be much appreciated.

thats so gay

[Medoner]

just be patient. Youre still pretty young, you have plenty of years left to experience having a boyfriend and the feeling is the same. Its better to just wait for the right guy then to be desperate and take anyone. Just put yourself out there. Be friendly and get to know people. There is no "charm" to seduction, if you're friendly and yourself then chances are a guy will come around and express interest

yeah i really do need to be more proactive when it comes to social situations instead of "waiting around" for people to talk to me. im just hoping ill meet someone interesting, perhaps during track season haha

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Remember back in Janurary when I told you about that dude I might end up seeing? yeah well i got catfished by her and he probably doesn't exsist. I highly doubt he moved in under a week so...............................................No boyfriend in high school for me

ugh bruh I can't imagine how disappointed you must feel :/ but don't lose hope, just because this situation got fucked doesnt mean there's no other opportunity that can come your way

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I know but I live in a rural area in the South and there is ONLY 1 (other than me) non-straight person at my school and she's bisexual and a girl so yeah and they're are several gay guys in the nearby county, but they are all in college and the one's that aren't don't know of my exsistance/not even close to my type. 

There are plenty of gay guys at my school, but too quote one of my friends ( the same friend who catfished me with that dude ) " They are so deep in the closet you can't find them with a flashlight " and once again still not my type.

 

However there is one of my friends, and he acts straight but because you know he's hot af I stalk his every movement, and randomly do not ask what came over me I started to massage his back in the last period, and he knew who was doing it, but yet didn't stop it? Why? He's also slightly awkward around girls like he told one of my best friends and I quote once again ( not the bad friend ) " Once you and him break up I'm going to ask you out ". Which all of this and his staring of my thighs in class ( I sit in front of him now ) leads me questioning his sexuality however I'm guessing he is queer or bicurious in some way shape or form, but I highly doubt he has accepted himself yet.

oo im praying for you in hopes that that guy isn't straight <3 hopefully he liked that back massage LOL

 

but dude at least you find somebody hot in your school, there's barely any eye candy in mine i have nobody to fantasize over

[Medoner]

Compulsive liar and a cheater...

Yep yep.

Prom itself was boring and after an hour we ended up going to my house to watch netflix instead

However we rented a party bus with stripper poles and we took pics, ate, and went to the mall and that was all fun. I spilled vodka on myself on the bus btw, that was pretty funny. It dried fast though.

stripper poles sound fun

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It was amusing. Only two people used them though and only one seriously. Surprisingly both were guys.  

wow tfti

[Medoner]

why do I find guys doing girl group dances so hot

[Medoner]

 

Because they are hot ~

 

Sungjong is soo hot while dancing to adult ceremony

 

bruh ive mainly been watching these cover groups do it and im just like

*sexually frustrated sweating*

[Medoner]

same

like hell yes I can dig a man who can shake their hips and unzip their skirts like aoa

[Medoner]

To my LGBT  POC, thoughts?

warning she gets kind of emotional after 5:30

 

i do agree with her about focusing on the issues at home, and that people are ignoring the fact that there are LGBT youth being ostracized by their families.

 

did caitlyn ever herself claim that she was "revolutionary" or anything of the like though? or is it just the media

Edited June 14, 2015 by Medoner

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Idk. Tbh, i saw the clip of her talking about being republican and other bs and decided I wasn't watching the whole official interview. But I think the media is doing it. NGL what this lady said about connection of the complexion was on point

 

Mmm okay.

 

But she hasn't sent it yet.

 

I'm praying for you hun

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I think she took it as a joke, but the fact was I was kind of sort of not joking.

 

:(((((

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remember that one time we had a LINE chat

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LMFAO yes.

what happened?  I know I had to get rid of the app but i have it again and that chat isn't even there anymore

idk the activity just gradually started to fade :(

i don't even use line anymore really lol

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YOOOOOOOOO!!!!! I can't stop crying

 

 

 

Supreme Court affirms right to gay marriage

 

yass!!!

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okay so you guys know that article that was posted recently with the idols most popular with the gay community right

 

so there were comments on there saying that it was "disgusting" or something of the like that Jungkook was on the list since he's underage and I'm kinda like ??? last time i checked, "favorite idol" doesn't mean "the absolute most fuckable idol" or anything...

 

i swear, people are so quick to label the gay community as overtly sexual. like i don't think people would give the reaction of it being "disgusting" if it was a poll about straight females instead of gay men and i just

 

no

 

but idk, that's a mini rant i guess

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That was what I did. The two of them continue to send me Snaps as if nothing happens, it got to a point where A (the friend) messaged me "Are you okay? You are MIA." And I said, "Think about it. Who did you go home with that night we were at the club?" And he said, "Wait, how did you know?" And I said, "I know I was born at night, but I wasn't born last night." So I guess I pretty much told them that I was done with them. Thanks for the reassurance that I did the right thing. I will be civil with them but the friendship between them both I will no longer associate myself with.

 

I had a Snapchat story where it involved me having my shirt off, and the angle I had showed off my definition (to which I have been somewhat hiding in preparation for that summer body, lol) and C (the guy I was talking to) said that I looked really good and that we should get together, but I said nothing back to him.

yesss drop them! you don't need to bother with people who aren't considerate, especially in situations that directly affect you.