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[Destined2bebossy]

Get that clit bitch!

 

[Destined2bebossy]

PLZ giv us a romantic fanfiction of how you two met :33

 

haha I wish I could but we met in class, and im not really good at telling stories.

the one romantic thing I can say is, from the second I walked into the class and saw her I was so infatuated. She is beyond beautiful.

Her hair was blocking her face from where I sat so I spent to entire class trying to just look at her lol. Luckily it was an interactive class so we got to group together and we just started talking. Not only is she pretty but amazingly sweet and gentle and caring. When I found out she was a lesbian I was seriously high from happiness the whole day (that sounds weird but its true).  

[Destined2bebossy]

er mai gaaaaawwwwwwwdddd         

 

[Destined2bebossy]

thats suu sweet i hope you two last long!! 

 

Thank You!

 

 

I hope we do too lol. I think we will. Even though we haven't really been talking to each other (like romantically) for long we've already connected and shes confided in me on so many things. I really see us just getting happier together.

[Destined2bebossy]

i just dont understand it but then i do, because i know i have a feminine face somewhat, my mom told me this....

 

and im a selfie junkie, and at times i see it lol

 

like out of all the photos i've taken i think this one is where it shows most

 

plz dont laugh ~~ excuse it for being huge

 

 

xP

 

 

nooo I missed you pic?

[Destined2bebossy]

lol srry but if you still want to see wht i look like, my twitter Nup_sunha :33

 

wow you really do have a feminine face. But you are still very handsome.

[Destined2bebossy]

omg thank you 

 

but yes even my friends when they first met me have mistaken me for a female lol

 

haha that must be interesting.

I don't think I've ever been mistaken as the opposite gender.

[Destined2bebossy]

yes its happened a few times....i brush it off tho...i think mostly because i just dont like having facial hair which makes me look more distinguishable i guess..and since i dont have hair on my face it does show more of my feminine features..

 

 

lol

 

yeh. You're such a cutey!!

 

 

 

omg just saw this on tumblr LMFAO !!!

   

[Destined2bebossy]

^
he has a nice belly button

 

lmao omgah, I can't even do this yet! Congrats Destiny! Its the best feeling in the beginning of a relationship, i bet you get butterflies every time you see her!

me neither!

Thanks!
hehe yeh. All I can think about is kissing her again.

[Destined2bebossy]

I was fapping the first time I saw this on tumblr, so I continued fapping to it.........................

 

 

 

Congrats Destiny!! 

 

thanks!

[Destined2bebossy]

 

 

 

[Destined2bebossy]

I have the same exact outfit...but yeah..*drools* at those curves.

 

are you a girl????? idk you gotta ask on this thread lol

[Destined2bebossy]

Yes. I am a girl :-)

 

oooh  

 

and you say you have that outfit?

 

[Destined2bebossy]

I am ready. Take me now.

 

 

[Destined2bebossy]

I have a question for our bi-sexual members.

 

How is it switching from a woman to a man or man to woman?

Idk why but I was just thinking about this (well having a convo with someone on a similar topic and thought about this). Men and women are so different. It must be really awkward to go from a relationship with a woman to one with a man. Things you have to go about differently and the sex and just a lot. I never thought about this before (obviously I never really had to) but I think its interesting. How do you do it?

[Destined2bebossy]

it really isn't. each person i have been with is different with different personalities and different ways they do things. it hasn't really been that different based on gender but more so on personality types. and the sex really isn't that different. sure there are different body parts involved but when you are in the moment you don't think about it like that.

 

Yes personalities are different but men and women are also very different. There has to be certain things a woman would know or react on in a relationship different from a man. I just think it would be difficult when going straight from one gender to another.

[Destined2bebossy]

 

eh idk. i don't believe in stereotypes based in gender. the idea that there is a set way that females are and a set way that males are is just a bunch of bs. i mean look at femme gay guys. a lot of what they do goes against societies conventional wisdom about how a guy is supposed to act.

 

can you give me an example/situation of how dating either or would be different from the other?

 

not how they act. what they understand.

i can't even think of anything even though I had a bunch earlier lol

[Destined2bebossy]

the only thing that i think is majorly different from my experience is women experience sexism so that changes their world view on a lot of things. while men can be ignorant about that sort of topic. but besides that.. not really that different.

 

k

[Destined2bebossy]

there is someone on the forums who i'm actually pretty close too. We have made connections outside of just onehallyu and talk a lot. This person keeps talking about "don't talk too much with the boys" which guy do you like" etc. when I have clearly stated to them that I like girls. you guys think that is weird?

[Destined2bebossy]

Maybe it's automated girl talk. "You know I'm lesbian, right?" might be a good remark to slip in. It doesn't have to be ignorance on their part, but you will know whan you ask.

 

I guess. its just really annoying.

And I tell her but not all the time cause I know she comes from strict religious background and she might feel like "omg why does she keep reminding me." I usually don't really care about making people uncomfortable but I actually really like talking with her and don't really want it to get screwy

[Destined2bebossy]

Maybe you should start asking her what girls she likes.

 

hahaha! I would love to see what she would say if I asked her that.

[Destined2bebossy]

MYTH WE ARE FORCING TO GO ASK HIM OUT AGAIN!!!!

 

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DID WE EVER TALK ABOUT THIS!?!?!?

 

 

it was posted but not really discussed.  I was JUST listening to that song lol

 

 

 

OMG guys kill me NOW the pastor that I talked about here: http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/9041-invasive-pastors/  

is over. I am just in my room (DOOR LOCKED) waiting for "church" to be over. I hate that she only comes over to pass judgment and preach.

 

[Destined2bebossy]

this article on LGBT in South Korea actually brings some new information to the table. most articles on LGBT issues in korea say the same things over and over again:

 

http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/culture/2013/06/203_137828.html

 

chilling^^^^

 

there is a lot more to this article than just these accounts, though. it offers a pretty broad yet detailed description of the history and fight for LGBT rights in the country

 

How cruel can people really be?! All of this is so f*cked up. I feel sorry for the people who had to endure this craziness.

[Destined2bebossy]

He's one of my fave rappers now lol

 

i don't hardly go to church tbh....i just dont feel a need to because i forget everything that was said right after....

 

same here. I liked him before this song, but this song just sealed the deal.

 

 

I don't either. I haven't been in probably 3 years.

 

Lol I forgot he was obsessed with Britney Spears.

 

I went through all his pics and I had to stop because I got...excited. And I'm not alone lmao.

 

[Destined2bebossy]

with me and my family when it comes to church, we skip it alot lol, we just recently went like last week tho, but i think that the first time i've actually been there all year lol

 

they are in the living room making all of these noises. I feel bad for laughing. I just really want them to leave.