LGBTQIA Community Thread! If you're queer come here~

[Midna]

 

Midna would like to be added~

Edited November 20, 2016 by Midna

[taedzur]

Guys....

I really need help, Iam a guy

Since I was seven or eight year I know that Iam attracted to both gender.

I have a girlfriend who I really love. We date for 3 years now and have planning to get marry.

The problem is, from when I was kid my parents and society told me that being gay is sin. Thats why I never date or "touch" any guy before. I didnt even dare to think about it. Now, I have a guy friend in my office that I adore him since we first met. Two weeks ago he said that he loves me, and we already date several times without I accept him as my lover.

Now he needs an answer for me...

He know that I have a girlfriend (even now we live in separated island), and he can accept that.

Please help me guys, what should I do? I really love my girl, but I cant deny that I love this guy too... I can imagine how my live would be more enjoyable with him beside me...

Sorry for long post and bad english. Please help me guys...

Edited November 20, 2016 by taedzur

[La vis ta]

[Sharekoube]

Guys....

I really need help, Iam a guy

Since I was seven or eight year I know that Iam attracted to both gender.

I have a girlfriend who I really love. We date for 3 years now and have planning to get marry.

The problem is, from when I was kid my parents and society told me that being gay is sin. Thats why I never date or "touch" any guy before. I didnt even dare to think about it. Now, I have a guy friend in my office that I adore him since we first met. Two weeks ago he said that he loves me, and we already date several times without I accept him as my lover.

Now he needs an answer for me...

He know that I have a girlfriend (even now we live in separated island), and he can accept that.

Please help me guys, what should I do? I really love my girl, but I cant deny that I love this guy too... I can imagine how my live would be more enjoyable with him beside me...

Sorry for long post and bad english. Please help me guys...

Pick one, or you get none. Just saying

[Sharekoube]

BTW add me in i think i am gay but i am also attracted to kpop females and anime girls.     But add me in anyways

[janiedee]

Guys....

I really need help, Iam a guy

Since I was seven or eight year I know that Iam attracted to both gender.

I have a girlfriend who I really love. We date for 3 years now and have planning to get marry.

The problem is, from when I was kid my parents and society told me that being gay is sin. Thats why I never date or "touch" any guy before. I didnt even dare to think about it. Now, I have a guy friend in my office that I adore him since we first met. Two weeks ago he said that he loves me, and we already date several times without I accept him as my lover.

Now he needs an answer for me...

He know that I have a girlfriend (even now we live in separated island), and he can accept that.

Please help me guys, what should I do? I really love my girl, but I cant deny that I love this guy too... I can imagine how my live would be more enjoyable with him beside me...

Sorry for long post and bad english. Please help me guys...

Does your girlfriend know and are you guys polyamorous?

If not, then what the heck. You're cheating dude. It's fine that you're realizing and exploring your sexuality but don't do it at the expense of your relationship and your girlfriend's feelings and sense of trust. Go sow your oats when you're not already attached to someone and betraying them. Your girlfriend deserves better.

Edited November 22, 2016 by sevaug

[Femmerd]

edit bc nvm

Edited November 25, 2016 by Femmerd

[LisaVandercunt]

Hello everyone, so this is a what would you in a situation question.

 

Ok so to make a long story short there is this one guy who is in both of my classes and who I noticed that recently as the semester is almost over he has been seating closer and closer to me, we had a bunch of small conversations before class and he has complimented on the cologne that I wear almost on daily basis. Recently we were assigned a group project and he's in my group so we exchanged information. Now the problem is that he is texting me multiple times a day and I am completely ignoring him. I'm straight and he's gay cause he told us, the thing is I have a feeling he's a chubby chaser cause I'm not one of them twinks of jocks like most gay men tend to gravitate towards. I'm a fatso who's perfectly happy with the way I look. He's an attractive dude, he's Chinese, almost 6 feet and he's in shape. 

Look I'm flattered that a guy finds me attractive and is giving me compliments but I am not looking for trade. 

On the other hand there is a side of my that's bi-curious. I never say never to anything and I'd be totally open to messing around with a guy but this guy is just too clingy. Plus that's what hook up apps are for, or bars. 

 

So how do I tell this individual to back off without it making the dynamic of the group becoming awkward.

[Savior Qrisus]

Hello everyone, so this is a what would you in a situation question.

 

Ok so to make a long story short there is this one guy who is in both of my classes and who I noticed that recently as the semester is almost over he has been seating closer and closer to me, we had a bunch of small conversations before class and he has complimented on the cologne that I wear almost on daily basis. Recently we were assigned a group project and he's in my group so we exchanged information. Now the problem is that he is texting me multiple times a day and I am completely ignoring him. I'm straight and he's gay cause he told us, the thing is I have a feeling he's a chubby chaser cause I'm not one of them twinks of jocks like most gay men tend to gravitate towards. I'm a fatso who's perfectly happy with the way I look. He's an attractive dude, he's Chinese, almost 6 feet and he's in shape. 

Look I'm flattered that a guy finds me attractive and is giving me compliments but I am not looking for trade. 

On the other hand there is a side of my that's bi-curious. I never say never to anything and I'd be totally open to messing around with a guy but this guy is just too clingy. Plus that's what hook up apps are for, or bars. 

 

So how do I tell this individual to back off without it making the dynamic of the group becoming awkward.

 

I would just tell him that you aren't interested in him and you just aren't interested in guys, but you would like to keep him as a friend. Being the twink I am I thought that that is the most thoughtful response that I can think of. Hope it all works out

[Kellie]

Hello ^^ I'm very bisexual. Nice to see a thread for support. 

[Destined2bebossy]

Hello ^^ I'm very bisexual. Nice to see a thread for support. 

 

Hello!

 

omg i haven't been on this thread in AGES.

i'm honestly surprised y'all haven't replaced me as op lol

[LunyEyes]

i'm queer and i'm here. add me on the list please~

[Sapphic]

Sapphic kid here, it'd like to be added on the list

[KaeJun]

Hello, I'm bi (though I like guys more). I think this is the first time I've actually said it somewhere public but I've never really hid it either but it's nice to feel safe saying it. I like the rainbow list and would also like to be added. <3

[Aliza]

Oh wow I didn't even know this was here~ I'm Aliza and I'm very bisexual. Please add me to the list! 

[Yogurtâ™›]

Why aren't there any pretty lesbians?   Why are they all ugly ??

Edited December 23, 2016 by Yogurtâ™›

[Thatoneuser]

Y'all if you could add me to the list that'd be great.

 

I'm hella gay

[ChungJoJo]

Add me in here, i Sexually identify myself as an AIM-120C AMRAAM Medium Ranged Air to Air Missile. Ever since i was assembled at an undisclosed Raytheon facility, i always dreamed of soaring through the skies after being launched from a Fighter jet, so i can fly towards an enemy Mig to set off the fragmentation charge that is bestowed inside of me as i was programmed, so i can destroy the enemy Mig, and fulfill my mission, as a Medium Ranged Air To Air Missile. From now on i want everyone to call me AIM-120, and respect my right to kill from above and kill needlessly, if you don't accept me you're a missilephobe and you need to check your Air Space privilege. Thank You for being so understanding.

 

Edited December 24, 2016 by iLuvKoreanGirls

[Yogurtâ™›]

Do gay people all think about is sex?? 

[Sakura IS FEARLESS]

BTW add me in i think i am gay but i am also attracted to kpop females and anime girls. But add me in anyways

hhhh

[Thatoneuser]

Do gay people all think about is sex?? 

No we think about other things too, like straight people.

[IAmTheQuestionToAllAnswers]

this complaint is probably very old: why is transgender in the poll? Mixing sexuality and gender isn't practical...

or at least allow multiple options - as a trans* identified person you can still have any sexuality

(sorry if this has been discussed before. I'm new here and just surprised that in the LGBTQIA section you mixed it up)

[NINI]

Hi, I'm new here~

I'm still kinda confused, I just know that I am either pansexual or bisexual nnn

 

Merry Christmas btw!

 

[keegan_519]

Idk how to identify because I was totally gay for a long time but then I got to college and I started banging girls as well but I'm only attracted to women sexually and not romantically in any way so yeah. Anyway, I would love to be added to the list and it's great to see this thread. Even though K-pop is SUCH a gay genre K-pop communities/forums can be surprisingly homophobic so it's good to have a place to bond w/ the other gayz

[Geeminy]

Can we make this thread live again please 

 

OP, I'd happily take over this thread if you need someone to