LGBTQIA Community Thread! If you're queer come here~

[exoticinspirit]

Hi everyone!~

 

 

It's been awhile since I've been here.

For those who don't know me yet I'm Anny.

I thought I was bi, but as I've gotten older I realized pan is a more accurate label for me.

Currently I'm in a relationship with a wonderful trans guy.

I'm putting a spoiler here to contain some things that have happened in the past with him...

[spoiler]I've dated him before and it was not a good relationship. There was cheating and verbal abuse, but we've had time apart (over a year) and he's thought over everything that I called him out for when we broke up and he's apologized for all of it (sincerely) and I accepted and now we're back together with no further incidents. Hopefully it lasts when we have to go long distance.[/spoiler]

I'm headed to college two years early so I'm getting ready for that right now. I'm not sure how active I'll be here. 

[rainbowsoldier]

Hi, Hi, Hi!!!!!!!

I am new to this thread.

I still have no label for myself, i am in 'Questioning' mod.

I was questioning since i was 10 and now i graduated and still. I didn't wake up one day and said " I wanna be gay " or sth. There were some things i had seen and done that made me think this way. I might be bisexual or straight. The thing is, i doubt that i'd be straight though but the thought of marriage terrifies me when i think that i could be married to the same gender. 

I am turning 18 in September and i have no label at all. What am i? a potato? ...  :unsure:  :unsure:  :cry: 

[Turn the Clocks]

Hi, Hi, Hi!!!!!!!

I am new to this thread.

I still have no label for myself, i am in 'Questioning' mod.

I was questioning since i was 10 and now i graduated and still. I didn't wake up one day and said " I wanna be gay " or sth. There were some things i had seen and done that made me think this way. I might be bisexual or straight. The thing is, i doubt that i'd be straight though but the thought of marriage terrifies me when i think that i could be married to the same gender. 

I am turning 18 in September and i have no label at all. What am i? a potato? ...  :unsure:  :unsure:  :cry: 

 

Hey, I'm 23 and I have no label. No rush :)

[mint.]

Hi everyone!! I'm new to this thread. I'm 17 and I think I can finally label myself as Bisexual. I would say I came out in real life since my family and friends wouldn't judge me if I actually dated a girl, so. Also my friends know I can get attracted to girls.

Edited July 16, 2016 by ultsehuns

[rainbowyuffie]

hello yes it is i, fellow queer and v single and amber liu melts my heart-

i'm 19 in october. i came out at 15 but no luck so i'm basically in the closet and never intend on coming out. if i ever get a gf it'll be like 'hey here's my girlfriend'. mum is convinced i'll marry a guy and have grandkids. kids? sure. guy? nah.

 

i really like girls. but idk, if i met a guy who was "the one" i would date him. i just don't feel the same way about guys compared to like, my best friend, who was literally drooling over ryan reynolds and that british dude when we were watching deadpool. 

Edited July 18, 2016 by rainbowyuffie

[k x s o o]

Hai, I'm gay  :ahmagah: recently turned 24 too.

I realised I was gay when I was about 14/15 and had an influx of crushes on my guy friends. Up until then I had crushes on girls so I though I was straight lol. Now girls do nothing for me (oh how life is strange). I stayed in the closet but was outed by my aunt (my family is very accepting/non judgemental and I guess she just knew lol) and when my mum asked me I was just like "yea". First week was a bit awks because she wanted grandchildren lol but she got over it fast. All my close friends know too but it's pretty obvious, I'm a bit effeminate by nature. 

 

I'm glad I got forced out the closet though, took a huge weight off of my shoulders and I honestly don't think I would have plucked up the courage to come out myself. A few of my friends came out to me first, it's really cute.

[ribbon]

hi all. c: i guess im new here.

anyway, i had my first kiss/experience with a woman yesterday and my heart hasn't stopped racing. :lub:

[exoticinspirit]

Update on my messy love life:

[spoiler]Bf and I broke up lmfaooo

Should have known not to date him again... I really did trust him only to have my heart smashed again. My own fault though. However, it was his fault for not telling me he wanted to enlist in the army before we started dating. He's having a meeting to enlist on Monday... He told me this after we had been fighting (tbh I think the fight was his way of trying to get me to break up with him). That morning he had told me he had talked to a recruiter, but I didn't realize he had called them to enlist... We talked it over and he said he wasn't sure he could handle the relationship and the army and I know I probably couldn't either. I'm still :/// bc of so many broken promises and things. I know it wouldn't have worked out anyway, but after 2 years of on and off I do think I love him.

 

On the other hand I already have a different guy talking to me (we've been friends for a little over a year) and he's super sweet. He knows I'm leaving for college and I don't want a relationship so he said he'd make the most of the time he has left with me and I'm fine with that. He just recently went through a breakup as well.

 

I also have the ex who won't stop fucking trying to contact me, but I'm never going back to that.

[/spoiler]

 

hi all. c: i guess im new here.

anyway, i had my first kiss/experience with a woman yesterday and my heart hasn't stopped racing. :lub:

Hello and welcome~ ^^

Awe congrats!

Edited July 21, 2016 by exoticinspirit

[Turn the Clocks]

Hai, I'm gay  :ahmagah: recently turned 24 too.

I realised I was gay when I was about 14/15 and had an influx of crushes on my guy friends. Up until then I had crushes on girls so I though I was straight lol. Now girls do nothing for me (oh how life is strange). I stayed in the closet but was outed by my aunt (my family is very accepting/non judgemental and I guess she just knew lol) and when my mum asked me I was just like "yea". First week was a bit awks because she wanted grandchildren lol but she got over it fast. All my close friends know too but it's pretty obvious, I'm a bit effeminate by nature. 

 

I'm glad I got forced out the closet though, took a huge weight off of my shoulders and I honestly don't think I would have plucked up the courage to come out myself. A few of my friends came out to me first, it's really cute.

 

OT but I also recently turned 24 *high5!

 

I only had crushes on guys until I was about 19 (though I did have a habit of kissing girls when I was drunk.. that should have been a clue really) when I had my first crush on a girl that I didn't even realise was a crush for ages and thought I just admired her. Then I didn't know if it was real or if it was just my brain playing tricks on me. I honestly had no clue.

 

Looking back I can't believe how dense I was. I just always assumed I was straight and almost everyone around me assumed I was straight. I kind of felt like if I really was attracted to women I'd have figured it out when I was younger. But hey, not everyone follows the same path. 

[xiuhan90]

Hello :smile: I have a question. Is it normal to be near your mid 20s and still have no clue who you are? I have always preferred men and was physically and sexually attracted to them since a young age... But as I grew up and spent most of my time around women, I began to notice stuff bit by bit :unsure: Now, in the past year, I find myself watching les porn over any other kind and daydreaming (+doing other stuff...) over female celebs :._.: But yet I never see myself dating a female and I have never been into a girl in real life.... Men are still what get me hot and bothered in the physical, day-to-day world of mine... but yet I am SO attracted to females this past yr...

Can't help but feel confused :unsure: Am I straight? Am I not straight? How do I find out the answer to this? Edited July 25, 2016 by xiuhan90

[KillinTea]

Hello :smile: I have a question. Is it normal to be near your mid 20s and still have no clue who you are? I have always preferred men and was physically and sexually attracted to them since a young age... But as I grew up and spent most of my time around women, I began to notice stuff bit by bit :unsure: Now, in the past year, I find myself watching les porn over any other kind and daydreaming (+doing other stuff...) over female celebs :._.: But yet I never see myself dating a female and I have never been into a girl in real life.... Men are still what get me hot and bothered in the physical, day-to-day world of mine... but yet I am SO attracted to females this past yr...

Can't help but feel confused :unsure: Am I straight? Am I not straight? How do I find out the answer to this?

It's totally normal 

I think that you're Bi since you're attracted by both and your attractiveness to one gender differ depending on the time ( I don't know if you understand what I want to say...)

Edited July 25, 2016 by KillinTea

[sage14]

I just wanted to ask and see if anyone has experience in this area. How feasible would it be to keep your sexuality a secret from your super conservative family forever? Could you possibly be happy?

[Iovelinus]

Hello â¤

I just joined OH and I'm actually surprise (in a positive way) to see this thread...! And with endless pages!!

 

I'm 19 and I identify as asexual for quite a while now. I'm usually very accepting of it (and I'm always ready to support my ace folks in every way I can) but sometimes it gets hard. 

 

At the moment I'm trying to convince my brain that there's nothing wrong with it's fluidity ;;; 

The thing is: I still have no ideia what is my romantic orientation. I wonder if I'm closer to the aromantic spectrum or if I'm homoromantic.

Edited October 10, 2017 by vie

[xiuhan90]

It's totally normal 

I think that you're Bi since you're attracted by both and your attractiveness to one gender differ depending on the time ( I don't know if you understand what I want to say...)

 

not really sure what you mean  :._.:

[KillinTea]

not really sure what you mean  :._.:

I mean like a year you're gonna be really attracted to women then the next year it's gonna be male..

[fae]

yo it's fae your friendly neighbourhood lesbian

been meaning to post in this thread since i joined, but i just now got around to it. oops. 

[sapphicsunmi]

im so fuckin happy hahah

 

like me and my partner have started talking about dysphoria, like im open about it but they arent that much, i bought them two skirts and you shouldve sen thir face, so freakin cute and happy

 

were going to stockholm pride in some days

[xiuhan90]

I mean like a year you're gonna be really attracted to women then the next year it's gonna be male..

Oh, no that's not it.. I think I'm just sexually attracted to females but sexually and romantically attracted to males. :._.:

Don't see myself ever dating/wanting to date a female but am sexually attracted and would love to just sleep with them. Thanks for the help btw :smile: Edited July 29, 2016 by xiuhan90

[rainbowsoldier]

<3 heyyy how are you guys today?

Edited July 29, 2016 by rainbowsoldier

[Kisumai]

hello my fellow rainbow friends

[Captain Multifandom]

Princess Bi here

(Can I be added to the list  :) )

[invisiblecc]

Hey everyone! It's been a while since I have posted here (remember when I said that I have zero experience when giving advice? It is still the same now?) After a while of figuring myself out I think I am more of a lesbian. I thought before that I was okay with having a romantic relationship with a guy, but as time (and some experiences) went by, I finally understood that I finally feel more comfortable with a woman, romantically and sexually. I know it doesn't sound like a big accomplishment, but finally figuring out what I feel is pretty nice, as a little cub in this whole thing.

 

Also, in two weeks I'm finally starting university, and I can only hope that since university in general is a more open-minded space where you can meet different people I will be able to get friends who I can feel comfortable with, specially being able to be out to them, and to my classmates in general, though I'm a little afraid word would get to my parents, and it would cause problems between us. I have been talking to them as well about getting a scholarship abroad and they are all for it. I just hope I can actually get it and be able to at some degree feel freer about having people know about my own sexuality without shame.

[Crests]

Is there anyone else on this entire forum that's trans? :x

[deadpetals_]

Can I be added too? I'm Bi!  :ohbi:

Also hello friends~

[Captain Multifandom]

Can I be added to the list?  :)