LGBTQIA Community Thread! If you're queer come here~

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Well, you didn't know wha a v line was...so maybe there you don't know about.

 

I like it on women. On this guy it looks weird though....i should of used a better picture...no it has nothing to do with the collarbone lmao or upper chest lmao 

 

thigh muscles are hotter imo

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Heh, thighs. Everyone knows it's all about the chest, people. -_-

chest is good, too.

 

basically everything >>>>>>> v-line.

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Added, welcome~

 

I usually don't find white guys attractive, but I have been a fan of Jake Bass.

that's why you go to rice night and not white night

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so the new animal crossing game that came out yesterday is pretty forward thinking.

 

^^saw this on tumblr

 

when i went to the tailor, she was selling a dress and a skirt. i tried one on (she let me even though i'm a boy) and she said: "it's good to be adventurous" or something along those lines.

 

in past games, if you get every man hairstyle as a man or every ladystyle as a woman, the hairdresser says "you know, i think you'd even be able to pull of a woman/man style" and you have access to the other side of hair styling.

 

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and some NPH for you guys. he was on the colbert report... maybe it was a while back, actually, but my mom was watching it online today and i over heard a lot of it.

 

^^best moment comes at the end starting at 6:00

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*shrug*

TEE

 

i watched ep 8 of she is wow...

 

i was SO SURE

sunggi was going to save mingyu in a weird brotherly(?) moment and was disappointed by creepy, inept politician. sunggi seems to have an interesting focus over minggyu... it may just be brotherly, but who knows. anyway, he's certainly much more knowledgable about minggyu than either of the boy's parents -_-

 

also, i LOVE the [probably] spy/maid. she is so awesome, especially when she stops that lady's hand when she tries to slap jo ara. i hope she destroys shit. the recently-divorced wife is also badass for being so upfront and not really working behind the scenes and scheming.

 

and i'm respecting jo ara more now that she FINALLY got mr romantic dreamland to back off and start thinking.

 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vta5oLUsYgE

This is so stupid! lol 

yap, 

 

but look at jay

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been reading up on homosexual affection shown by animals, and i ran into this comment in an article about dolphins exhibiting bisexual and sometimes exclusively homosexual behavior.

 

 

Dont mean to be mean but uh....their animals? And...they don't really have "choices"? And their not human? There's a difference bud. I mean, have you ever heard of religious dolphins? No, not really (not that i know of anyway xD).

there's so much about this comment that is hilarious.

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woah

never knew that John McCain's wife (and the daughters, too?) was such a big support of LGBT rights!

 

 

 

"We have different views," She added. "We have raucous dinner table conversations and we encourage that. In fact you have to be tough to survive at our table."

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Late tbh. I remember seeing their NOH8 campaign thing a few years back.

me too, but i read about it on a news outlet that was like "THEY'RE DOING IT FOR ATTENTION BLAH BLAH BLAH"

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black & asian:

 

 

imo he is very, very handsome. i think he'd look even better if he grew out his hair like a half-inch or so, though... 

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sorry for low quality, but that's all i can find on youtube for this cute gay-themed song

 

"love march," basically

my chinese has gotten really rough, so i couldn't translate it very well... but luckily it's pretty basic. ignore the intense awkwardness of my translation and focus on the overall meaning:

 

我是谠 该爱谠 ä¸çˆ±è°   

 ä¸€ç›´ç«™åœ¨å字路壠

该左转  å‘å³èµ°  å¾€å‰èµ°  

走到哪里都是ä¸å¯¹  

 

who am i, who should i love and not love,

i was always standing at a å shaped crossroads,
"turn left," "walk right," "walk straight forwards"
wherever i'd end up wouldn't be right.

 

爱情有太多缺点  

我ä¸æ•¢çœ‹æˆ‘自己        

直到你出现让我é¢å¯¹è‡ªå·± 

 

love has too many disadvantages,

i wouldn't dare to look at myself,

until you showed up and let me face myself.

 

丢了全世界也ä¸æ”¾å¼€ä½   

第一次是你让我鼓起勇气    

å‘全世界大声说我爱你   

哪怕为了你与全世界为敌 

 

put aside that the whole world is holding you back,

you allowed me to summon up courage for the first time,

i'd face the whole world and shout "i love you" in a big voice,

even if you treat the whole world as an enemy.

 

丢了全世界我还抱ç€ä½ 

第一个是你让我拥抱爱情

他们眼里   一样的我和你

爱的故事结局更加ç€è¿· 

 

put the whole world aside, i'm still embracing you,

you're the first one who allowed me to embrace love,

in their eyes, the same me and you (?) (maybe, "we're the same"?)

the ending of this love story adds fascination (?) 

 

爱的国度    总有个角轠

我们的爱就让我们ç¥ç¦

 

there's always space in the country of love,
our love certainly will allow us to be blessed.

 

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maybe you'll get married by next rice night

 

 

 

also, here's a subbed lesbian short film from taiwan:

 

 

the girls are so cute ^^

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I regret my entire life.

 

After we finished closing today at work, my EXTREMELY handsome Japanese manager said to us (me and two other coworkers) that we should go out to drink. The other two aren't over 21, but I am. I didn't really answer because I don't drink and he knows that. And nothing ended up happening.

 

I was driving home when I realized... that, if I had gone, I could spend alone time with him. AND I MISSED THAT OPPORTUNITY, FUCK MY LIFE. Did I mention he's in his early 30s and has no kids and is probably single and I question his sexual orientation. And did I mention he's handsome. I cursed at myself the entire way home LOL FUCK I'M SUCH AN IDIOT. And he was being handsy with me tonight, too. Goddddddd, I feel banging my head against a wall.

solution:

 

next time, tell him you wish you guys had gone "even if it would have been just us two." :v

that'll make it acceptable for you two to hang out together alone~~ 

 

if you're more courageous, drop the "even if" and say "it would've been fun to hang out and drink, just us two" 

 

either way, you should let him know in some way that you would have liked to have gone, that way you are inviting him to invite you by showing that you appreciate him as a person and not just a manager :v

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@tee & she is wow:

the last episode was actually really exciting. the really annoying parts of the affair story are pretty much over, so a lot of dead time is gone.

 

 

speaking of dead, nanhee has kicked the bucket (she died). i liked her before, but this episode really drove her character into the ground and destroyed all of her positive and unique character traits. got so annoyed by her aegyo and I WUV U MINGYU ALL I NEED IS YU LUB <3~~ FORGET ME MINGYU~~. and the writing of her death scene was especially cheesy... it made me remember the drama the hospital patients in Reply 1997 were watching that was incredibly cheesy (and in 1997, making this scene in she is wow feel especially dated).

 

glad spy maid is doing shit and showing her colors, because i really like her.

 

IS GONG JUNG HAN ANNOUNSEO GAY OR NOT? IT'S LIKE THEY ARE SKIRTING OVER IT BECAUSE THE WRITERS DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO!

 

also, is it just me or is sungki getting a bit of scandal for himself? "you want me to go to america... as mingyu's... brother? */might as well have batted his eyelashes*"

 

 

 

That's really forward, IMHO. You're basically asking him for a date.

;;

 

it depends on the relationship, k~

and how drunk you already are

 

 

I am sorry to 25% Cotton for both forgetting your name and calling you female. 

OTL Oops.. I'm used to the Exo and 98'er thread where 99.9% of the people are female.

i laughed~~

 

and then cried really hard for a while. :/

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this article on LGBT in South Korea actually brings some new information to the table. most articles on LGBT issues in korea say the same things over and over again:

http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/culture/2013/06/203_137828.html
 

Yoo Han-seon, a 29-year-old office worker, came out to his closest friends but not at work. “When we’re out drinking, coworkers often talk about how much they hate homosexuals, saying they are not men but animals,†he said.

One situation, included in a 2005 survey by the Human Rights Commission, involved a father who walled up his daughter into a room to prevent her from meeting other lesbians, forcing her mother to feed her through a small hole.

In a case documented by the Korean Sexual-Minority Culture and Rights Center, a college student let a male student rape her for a year after he threatened to out her as a lesbian.

chilling^^^^

there is a lot more to this article than just these accounts, though. it offers a pretty broad yet detailed description of the history and fight for LGBT rights in the country

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This is just unethical. To have your daughter walled up in a room, that is child endangerment. That girl is going to be screwed up forever. That guy should go to jail for rape. with stuff like this, I see why this girl that i am dating hasn't come out to her family yet. I wouldn't want her to have to go through this.

 

I'm sure we still have that somewhere in this country.

They treated us far worse.

http://www.out.com/entertainment/popnography/2013/06/24/when-gay-holy-place-burned-new-orleans

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Ok hardcore change of subject. Does anyone know who Chan Than San is? If not he's a Vietnamese (I'm pretty sure.) model? Idk but he's excessively attractive and he likes to take pictures in his underwear a lot. He has an Instagram under his name (just type chanthansan in the search) but I can't post pictures :(

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yeah i know of him. i think i posted him here once.

 

i didn't know he had an instagram, though ._.

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Oh god, how would that even work. "It would have been nice to go drinking with you even though I don't drink and I would have sat there and watch you drink". Before leaving work yesterday, you know what I should have said? "If you don't want to go to the bar by yourself, do you want me to go with you?" Would that have been a good idea?

omg you wouldn't even have ONE drink for the sake of spending time with your potential rice king?

 

I was not expecting the first image in Google search to be that of him completely naked.

oh that's totally shopped. look at any of his underwear pics and you can see that he's not that size when he's soft.

 

 

hot AF

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I have zero interest in alcohol, so no.

omg. 

 

myth, stop being such an excuse-maker-hat. you don't have to drink. that's fine. fine. but you should still let him know in whatever way possible without being "too obvious" that you would have liked to hang out with him. if you don't, he may think this to himself next time:

 

"i wanna go out to dinrar with ma kawaii cowerks, but lobster declined me last time so maeby he dont like hangin wit me, so imma just go hit dem gay nite clubs allon"

 

(also, refer to the previous page for a pic of chan than san i edited into my previous post to show his real bulge size)

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So has anybody experienced these types of flirting???

 

i definitely gotten the staring from past stories and recently too when i was getting my new phone...a guy at a phone stand was staring me down, i wouldve talked to him, but i had to leave for a dentist appt. 

 

actually, i'm normally pretty w/e about davey usually but i really didn't like him in that video. the girls were way more interesting and funny while being realistic whereas davey was like "let me try to be scandalous and tryhard" the whole time. that kind of flirting might be a thing in the clubbing scene or something, but it's not a thing with any of the gay guys i've ever met irl.

 

staring is a thing, but i don't know that intense death stare thing that he's going on about. there is this weird connecty stare, though. i definitely stare at guys i think i might be interested in to see if they'll catch it and keep looking in my direction or whether they'll just brush it off as nothing.

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yea he is a tryhard but some of the stuff he says ive experienced, but the the mos basic form of flirting he mentioned was the staring....

sharing dick pics is a thing... on grindr/jack'd... and is less 'flirting' than an explicit statement of 'this is what you'll get if we have sex.' i don't know of people doing that to meet people they want to date seriously. 

 

the crotch thing... i think that's less of a thought-out 'heh, imma send a message that we should move it to the next level" and more of a 'i am hard so my pants are awkward.' tbh, i'd think that physical interaction is more of a subtle measure that signifies intent. like touching, any sort of gentle/constant caress, or contact with the hem of a shirt or the waistline of pants.

 

the other point's he brought up seemed like jokes (put your dick in his ass... ok).

 

in general they either didn't really feel like special gay-specific flirting methods or they were probably specific to a certain type of crowd to me (like clubbers maybe, idk).... idk, it just didn't feel helpful or insightful.

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yea the dick sharing pics, i tried talking to ppl thru kik, and im not cut out for it, ppl be sending dick pics and ask for ass in return, i didnt go thru with it, and some got angry at me lol 

 

i never tried out grindr tho....

me neither. i just have heard things about it~~

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Sam.

Sam.

Sammmmmmm.

 

Remember that war I told you about on Skype. I officially started it today.

omg, <3

 

and is your opponent shocked that you are their adversary, or are you going to become mutual rivals?

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honestly surprised it's gay moms, seeing how moms are disney's favorite characters to kill off in all of their movies.