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[Jarad]

 

 

Beyoncé Appreciation Post

 

Omfg. I laughed obnoxiously loud at this.

[Jarad]

Question! Scenario: You are in a relationship with the same sex and things are going very well between you and your partner. There is just one problem, your partner isn't openly gay, bi, lesbian etc. When you come around their family and friends things are completely different and even at times walking while holding hands becomes an issue. They say they will come out soon but it feels as if they will not. How long would you wait for that person to come out?

I'm actually really curious what people's answer will be. I'm not open to anyone except friends who aren't friends anymore.

[Tee]

I'd be that person.

Except for the "around friends" thing.

I go to an lgbt-friendly college so I wouldn't imagine it being that awkward.

[Jung�Ha�Sang]

I'm actually really curious what people's answer will be. I'm not open to anyone except friends who aren't friends anymore.

I know coming out isn't easy and people just dont go out screaming it to the mountain tops......what happened with your friends who knew?

 

I'd be that person.

Except for the "around friends" thing.

I go to an lgbt-friendly college so I wouldn't imagine it being that awkward.

 Can you explain more about the "I'd be that person" please?

 

The school that I attended was open about it too but you always have those ppl that blow things out of proportion though.

[25%Cotton]

Question! Scenario: You are in a relationship with the same sex and things are going very well between you and your partner. There is just one problem, your partner isn't openly gay, bi, lesbian etc. When you come around their family and friends things are completely different and even at times walking while holding hands becomes an issue. They say they will come out soon but it feels as if they will not. How long would you wait for that person to come out?

well, it would be reasonable that they wouldn't want to come out until they knew we were in a stable relationship... so i would give them a few months. but it would still be edgy.

 

though it also depends on where i am and family and the amount of prying they do into their son's life. if i'm in japan (where i'll be for a year or so) and dating a japanese man, i may be even more lenient because coming out is less of a thing and more difficult in that cultural context... though if it's an american guy i would be more strict.

 

and anyway, i don't really like to do a lot of skinship in public, either, so...

[Tee]

If I was in a relationship, my family would be the last to know.

+ I'm not out.

[h0neanias]

You weaklings wish you had Beyoncé's guns. -_-

[Tee]

[Joji.]

Question! Scenario: You are in a relationship with the same sex and things are going very well between you and your partner. There is just one problem, your partner isn't openly gay, bi, lesbian etc. When you come around their family and friends things are completely different and even at times walking while holding hands becomes an issue. They say they will come out soon but it feels as if they will not. How long would you wait for that person to come out? How would you go about approaching your partner about it also expressing your feelings towards it?

 

I'd be the person that isn't out yet. -_-

 

If I was in a relationship, my family would be the last to know.

+ I'm not out.

 

This. I'm fairly sure my parents would disown me if they found out.

[Jung�Ha�Sang]

well, it would be reasonable that they wouldn't want to come out until they knew we were in a stable relationship... so i would give them a few months. but it would still be edgy.

 

though it also depends on where i am and family and the amount of prying they do into their son's life. if i'm in japan (where i'll be for a year or so) and dating a japanese man, i may be even more lenient because coming out is less of a thing and more difficult in that cultural context... though if it's an american guy i would be more strict.

 

and anyway, i don't really like to do a lot of skinship in public, either, so...

 

Oh yes, it does make a huge difference depending on the stability of the relationship and the persons cultural background. I've had one girl ask me before if I was going to always like girls and if I would marry a girl and later she told me she would never come out because her family disapproves of it. I thought it was an odd question of if I was going to like girls forever, like wth this is not some experimental thing or phase. I get the whole tradition and cultural thing but if it gets to the point of the person never coming out, to me its like what is the sense of being in a relationship with that person then.

 

If I was in a relationship, my family would be the last to know.

+ I'm not out.

 

Same, my family is usual the last to know as well. Just because I like to make sure the relationship is serious enough for me to introduce anyway.

You weaklings wish you had Beyoncé's guns. -_-

[Jung�Ha�Sang]

 

 

I'd be the person that isn't out yet. -_-

 

 

This. I'm fairly sure my parents would disown me if they found out.

 

That just sucks. I wish people were more accepting of it. People focus on the fact that its same sex and often look at the sexual part that comes with it as a negative but fail to realize its about the connection that you have with that person.

[Mr. Squirrel Princess]

Question! Scenario: You are in a relationship with the same sex and things are going very well between you and your partner. There is just one problem, your partner isn't openly gay, bi, lesbian etc. When you come around their family and friends things are completely different and even at times walking while holding hands becomes an issue. They say they will come out soon but it feels as if they will not. How long would you wait for that person to come out? How would you go about approaching your partner about it also expressing your feelings towards it?

I don't know tbh. It depends on the situation. I am willing to date someone who is in the closet. Although from experience it can get annoying. I wouldn't deal with it forever but would put up with it for awhile.

 

Not being out to family I would understand and be more easy going with. Not being out to friends is harder for me to swallow and I would have less patience with.

[Tee]

I ain't a hater.

I just find the meme hilarious. XD

 

Episode 6 of Nail Shop Paris!!

 

A girl has a crush on her female roommate.

We got a lesbian in a Kdrama yall!

Well it's only this episode, but yeah.

 

[Jung�Ha�Sang]

I don't know tbh. It depends on the situation. I am willing to date someone who is in the closet. Although from experience it can get annoying. I wouldn't deal with it forever but would put up with it for awhile.

 

Not being out to family I would understand and be more easy going with. Not being out to friends is harder for me to swallow and I would have less patience with.

Yeah, when I dealt with this situation it was annoying and a bit hurtle at times. I felt like I was in a  hidden relationship.

 

I ain't a hater.

I just find the meme hilarious. XD

 

Episode 6 of Nail Shop Paris!!

 

A girl has a crush on her female roommate.

We got a lesbian in a Kdrama yall!

Well it's only this episode, but yeah.

 

It was funny but but but LEAVE BEE ALONE!

 

Can you link me to the Lesbian k drama :D

[Mr. Squirrel Princess]

Yeah, when I dealt with this situation it was annoying and a bit hurtle at times. I felt like I was in a  hidden relationship.

 

It was funny but but but LEAVE BEE ALONE!

Same here. That is what bugged me about it. Especially the fact he hid it from friends.

[Jung�Ha�Sang]

Same here. That is what bugged me about it. Especially the fact he hid it from friends.

 

Tell me about it, the worse part was when one of her male friends kept hitting on her. Like  I so wanted to take his head off. He kept coming around when it was just me and her lord. I don't know if I can go through that again.

[Destined2bebossy]

Question! Scenario: You are in a relationship with the same sex and things are going very well between you and your partner. There is just one problem, your partner isn't openly gay, bi, lesbian etc. When you come around their family and friends things are completely different and even at times walking while holding hands becomes an issue. They say they will come out soon but it feels as if they will not. How long would you wait for that person to come out? How would you go about approaching your partner about it also expressing your feelings towards it?

 

wow me and someone ;) were just talking about this.

I've been in this situation. I really hated it cause when someone is in the closet every little thing they maximize to not try to show to their family. I would be with her and just try to fix her clothing or take something out her hair and she'd get all upset about it worrying if people saw and if they knew. It puts a strain on a relationship. I wouldn't put any pressure on someone cause coming out is something they have to be prepared for but I couldn't last long in the relationship with the awkwardness of not being able to be affectionate towards them because they are hiding this side of them. 

[Jarad]

I know coming out isn't easy and people just dont go out screaming it to the mountain tops......what happened with your friends who knew?

Oh there is no coming out for me. My family wouldn't accept me at all. I had a cousin that was outed and now everyone treats him differently. I wouldn't be able to deal with that. Yes me and someone ;) were just talking about this. But for me, my mom is the most relaxed mom ever, so it wouldn't be weird for her if we were affectionate. Just not like, him hugging me or something. And I have a whole floor of my house to myself, (I call it my loft lol) and my mom never EVER comes in my room. So I don't think it'd be that bad for the other guy. But idk.

 

We just graduated and drifted apart. No one bothered to keep in touch after graduation.

[exoticinspirit]

^ Everyone knows Destiny's word is law lol.

 

Hi I'm Jarad, I'm 20 and I have a cat. Wait, I mean I'm gay. Like freshly discovered I am. I've been saying I'm bi but pretty sure it's just gay.

Hello, I'm Anny ^^

I hope you like it here!~

 

Me too,we are not alone ^_^

Hi~

Oh hell yeah, girl power!~

[gno]

Question! Scenario: You are in a relationship with the same sex and things are going very well between you and your partner. There is just one problem, your partner isn't openly gay, bi, lesbian etc. When you come around their family and friends things are completely different and even at times walking while holding hands becomes an issue. They say they will come out soon but it feels as if they will not. How long would you wait for that person to come out? How would you go about approaching your partner about it also expressing your feelings towards it?

 

i'd be the understanding kind of person, since im not out to my full family yet, i wouldnt push you to meet the family at all really, unless you wanted to.

i am often the one to not engage in public skinship, he'd have to make the first move,if so then i usually go along with it. im not the pushy kind of person to, although i'd make them do all the work lol

 

but if we couldnt be ourselves around our own friends then i wouldn't stick around long.

[Jarad]

Hello, I'm Anny ^^

I hope you like it here!~

Hi Anny! I do like it here!

[gno]

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[exoticinspirit]

Hi Anny! I do like it here!

Hello~

That's good to hear

So how are you?

[Jarad]

Hello~

That's good to hear

So how are you?

I'm doing well how are you?

[exoticinspirit]

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THEY  BURRRRNNN!