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What do you guys think of gays who call straight guys gay because they like certain things like pop music?

 

stupid. calling someone gay when you're gay yourself is retarded....

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Sometimes I really hate that I like masculine guys :/

All of my crushes are either straight, closted, or just plain a mystery and it sucks 

 

my and my friend were just talking about our preferences when to attraction to other guys, so its sorta similar to this

 

i dont know maybe it because i'm around the uptown in my city alot more during the day, and i've been feeling an attraction to alot more white guys in general...like is this wrong??? i personally dont feel it's wrong but i feel its weird...

 

but also i do feel like shit because im attracted to straight guys, which are the worst!

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Gay guys are cunts. Why can'two get along.

 

 

unless you're trying to hookup with them its very hard to be just friends with other gay guys....

 

either you date, or have some sexually related relationship with them, or you dont talk to them at all, ofc its not all like that, but its how it feels with me mostly

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I really like your sig

 

omg same same

I've been liking more white guys as well... Idk what it is. Especially when they have super pretty eyes~

And yeah, super cute straight guys are the worst

 

one of my best friends was a cute straight guy, i will never be close to another straight guy again...lol

 

I just don't get it because personally I never felt like this. My hag is a hag to another fag and this other guy hates me so much even though we have never said more than like 2 sentences to each other. This isn't the first time I've met another gay guy who has hated me for no reason at all. Most of them are femish which is like me.

 

we're like freaking cats, we initially dont like new cats coming into our home, so we hiss at them even tho they don't pay attention to us (watching too many bfvsgf vlogs) 

 

some pages back i talked about this other gay guy who i dont even know at my school but he sorta hung my area of friends, he probably even knew them before i even got there, but he always gave me this stank look....it just stupid sometimes but i try to as nice as possible to fellow gay guys,

 

 

 

HE IS SO FUCKING HOT

 

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Can gay guys really not get along? ._.

I'm friends with the other somewhat open gay guy at my school~ We talk about kpop and boys all the time lol. I guess it helps that we're both bottoms... I mean I had some sort of crush for him once when I was an emotional wreck but now its just ewwe. 

 

It's nice to have a friend with the same taste in guys and who's going through the same shiet tbh

 

if only i knew ppl like that, im mostly friends with alot of straight guys, but its awkward to even talk to them about stuff im going thru...so i just dont

 

but at the same i have gay guy friends here, maybe because we share them interest in kpop, and its the internet....

 

no you're all friends with idiots

why cant two gay guys get along and just be friends? whatever

catty gay guys are never appreciated

 

i wish i had gay guy friends irl tbh, its quite lonely....

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if anyone is interested, here are my experiences using jack'd in japan as a foreigner:

 

at first, i used grindr and my photo was of an electric fan. i was nervous because i am... one of very few foreigners in my area. basically if they see me they'll know who i am. i was getting very few responses (the only two were some latino guy who tried to speak to me in romanized japanese and this white guy who said something in nonsensical japanese that i think was an attempt at "come to my place tonight." so eventually i added a photo. i immediately started getting "hey"s, though maybe not as many as you'd expect (and only one guy sending me a dick pic). however, i realized grindr as an app sucks, so i switched to jack'd.

 

i chat with a few guys: one japanese guy with fluent english and one who i chat with in japanese. i may meet with the second guy next weekend for dinner or something in a nearby city. there was another guy, too, but here's where it gets weird.

 

 

so... we chatted for a bit (always in japanese), and he was very nice and understanding. he asked to see more pics (specifically if i had any "unlockable pics"), and so i was like "uh... i don't have anything sexual, sorry." and he was all "nono, that's not what i meant. just regular stuff." i uploaded another pic. "oh wow, you're so tall! i think i saw you near the ___ station once" "! wow, you probably did" anyway, we kept chatting. eventually, he asked if i wanted to hang out sometime. i said sure and told him i was free sunday (today) and monday (which is a holiday) if he wanted to hang out soon. "it's so soon, so it's hard to think of what to do," he said, then after a few minutes, "can we hang out at your place?"

 

...

"what? what do you mean...?"

"yes."

"'yes'? i don't want to do anything sexual..."

"that's not what i mean. just talking."

"why does it have to be my place?"

"i want to compare heights." (what?)

"... why can't we do that somewhere outside of my apartment?"

"have you ever seen two guys compare heights in public?"

"... but still. for the first place you meet somebody to be your apartment... isn't that weird?"

"i think it's ok."

"but, i just don't think that's a good idea. you understand what i'm worried about, right?"

"yes."

 

there was a period of silence in the conversation. i hadn't gotten the impression he was after my D from our conversation, but it just seemed weird to be so insistent on it being my apartment and not dinner or karaoke or something. so i thought i'd ask him something to see how open he was: "do you have any unlockable pics?" (assuming he was not just into hookups, he should either say 'no' or easily show them, especially since i showed him extra pics). it's been almost a day and he has not said anything since then XD. lol

i feel a little rude, but i was not going to have some guy from a gay app i don't know very well coming into my apartment, even though he was fairly attractive.

 

 

other than that i don't really get many messages even though my profile is fairly detailed and in pretty technical, grammatically correct *as far as i can tell* japanese. i tried out the matching option to find other people interested in chatting/making friends/practicing languages, and so far i have found only ONE match (and i realized after i said i was "interested" that his profile says he is ONLY INTERESTED IN WHITE GUYS... so he's probably just after sex?). which is kind of depressing giving i will select "interested in" for basically any slightly attractive guy below 40 who says they like games, karaoke, kpop, playing musical instruments, or english.

 

it's mildly frustrating because i just want to chat and maybe hang out with gay people. if i didn't have a real-world crush i'm focusing on, i might be feeling really lonely about now.

 

what's weird about comparing heights in public??? O.O i srsly think he was just tryna go to your apartment....points for you for stopping him )

 

I came bearing gifts

https://www.google.ca/search?q=Colton+Haynes+-+XY+Photoshoot&safe=images&client=tablet-android-asus-nexus&hl=en-US&source=android-unknown&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=PMQ1UtCgOYay2gWF1oCgAQ&ved=0CAkQ_AUoAA&biw=962&bih=553&dpr=1.33

 

Never knew but apparently he is very Suspicious.

 

 

wow i bet he secretly loved Tyler Posey kissing him on an certain interview for Teen Wolf 

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I'm jelly and happy for you!!

 

Even impressed at how you handled yourself, does your crush even know that you like him???

 

I honestly would've taken the dude right in front of me atm, then stick with the situation where they're probably not even interested in me.

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i have a history of dating guys i'm not sure if i actually want to be dating,

 

so i'm pretty determined not to make the same mistake again. my goal is to get to know my crush, hopefully become ok friends, then start dating after that. by "goal" ... it's not really something you can "work towards" exactly but something that happens naturally, so rather than "goal" i guess it's my wish. :P

 

tbh, though, my crush hardly even knows i exist. i mean, i assume he does because he's helped me with my purchases before and there are only two white guys in the surrounding neighborhood.

 

ahh well, atleast you had dates with multiple guys so you know how to deal with stuff like this, even tho im certain i like guys, im still fairly a novice in dating....and i feel like if get the slightest chance with someone, i'd probably stick with them then seeing my options...

 

good luck on hooking your crush!

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K so 2 things

 

i just asked a cute guy does he want to be buddies cuz we go to the same school (he's gay ofc)

 

 

and another wants me to meet him and i've only talked to him for a day, he's 32 tho...

 

what should i do???

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...............?

 

fixed

 

i emphasized buddies so ppl wouldnt get the wrong idea...that backfired i see XDDD

 

So I discovered earlier this week that I am a "rice queen."

 

???

 

I'm a burger king, Aha. 

 

?????

 

WAT.

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I'm into white bread buns. 

 

 

 

 

IfyouknowwhatImean.

 

I think I'm into pale skin and a relatively skinny figure though, because people with (fake) tans.... ugh. There's so many and it makes me want to hurl. Even ones with natural tans don't elicit a reaction from me or anything..

 

So I guess a Vampire queen is a more appropriate term for me. 

 

There are a shit tonne of Japanese people at my Uni omg. Some of them look fine too, but eh. 

 

ohhh.....

 

there are a ton of asian at my school too! like majority are asians! never thought i see that...

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I am really attracted to asian guys, that makes me a rice queen. And asian guys who are attracted to white guys are called "potato queens." Why potato I have to clue. And I think that they were making a joke lol.

 

OHH i've been attracted to alot of white guys lately....guess im a potato queen???

 

 

idk i want to try and date outside of my race, though i have no problem dating black guys, i to try something different now

 

i just don't know how to properly go about it....

 

BERETA SPAM!!!

 

 

 

 

 

     

 

 

 

 

look at lee newton and how she's positioned. just lmao

 

 

 

WHAT A MAN.

 

  

 

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I knew what rice queen is.

 

but potato queen omg lmao.

 

Ugh im honestly both atm idk what it is about white guys lately 

 

 

 

but ugh wheres the love for brown boys why doesn't anyone love me 

 

 

brown???

 

whats your ethnicity??? middle eastern??? i mostly hear ppl address them as brown ppl...

 

they're sexy too!! 

 

 

 

Yes you are bb!!

 

 

 

 

So did no one know these "titles" existed? I just stumbled across it like a week ago lol.

 

 

i had no idea about these till you mentioned them xD

Edited September 18, 2013 by Gno

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About the guy who's 32, I take it? Wellllllll... It depends on what you and he want. Be wary about getting pushed into something you don't want and don't be afraid to explain the line not to be crossed -- politely, but clearly. It's the same as with a man of your age, apart from this one being more experienced. It can be good if you want the same thing, but he'd be more skilled at pressuring you if he wanted to.

Yea I realized that he's way more experienced then me..so he probably know how to get through the obstacles I might put up, so Imma see if I can bring a friend along to ease the pressure. But he said to let him know whenever I'm free..I want to chicken out but I can't back out now when I've already said yes.

His said wants friendship, but we all know you're not looking for friendship in a guy who's wayy younger...oh well we'll see wht happens....

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ok, i have to complain about this guy at you guys really quick.

 

so we met like a week ago, right? we had made plans RATHER SUDDENLY which i ended up canceling because i wasn't comfortable spending a $20 on train fare to go hang out at the apartment of some guy i don't know. He said it was a little rude to make plans and then cancel them, which i agreed with. but we still ended up meeting that night anywhere (albeit a place closer to my living situation as he was on the way back from a nearby area, so less train fare and a public setting). it went well and i apologized and everything. anyway, we added each other on Line and have been chatting.

 

he really wanted to meet again soon. i told him i was busy this coming weekend, but that i might POSSIBLY be able to meet sometime if things go well. this morning i ended up letting him know that monday was looking like i'd be free, but then as the day went on i realized that something i thought would be done by sunday was going to happen monday instead and that i wouldn't be able to meet in the end (both of my messages occurring over the course of today which is saturday).

 

so, he told me that it was rude of me again because i made plans then canceled them just before they happened. and that he would stop talking to me because even though he wanted to know me better he had a difficult time handling people with bad manners.

 

so... what? 

we didn't even make plans for monday. i said i MIGHT be able to meet on that day. we hadn't made any sort of plans, and i had told him a WEEK ago that this weekend was really busy for me. 

 

but apparently i'm being very rude. 

i'm going to guess he really just wanted to sleep with me or something and is annoyed that it's too difficult.

 

 

Tell him to go fuck himself. That's what I'd do.

 

yep this is wht i was gonna say lol

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ok so this guy on grindr....1st doesn't have a face pic but ask me do i like anime (cuz i have a anime pic on my dp)

 

so i told him yea, then he proceeded to ask me whts my name, i detoured and ask him "what does your face look like?"

 

he showed me...

 

guys, he's fucking hot, ripped and shirtless, and has tattoos all down his arms and on his chest. i told him he was hot but i was curious as to why this isnt his dp, so i ask him

 

he replies "im shy".... ???

maybe its just me, but i never seen a guy like that be shy before...think he's trying to catfish??? 

Edited September 22, 2013 by Gno

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maybe he's a murder using pictures as bait

 

why dont u try facetiming/skyping with him on video

##pray for gynocologist######

 

   

 

waiting for his response...

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I smell big time catfish

 

well im not buying into it...matter of fact i just asked him is he really trying to catfish ppl...

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Alot has been on my mind lately, as i realized i am becoming more active in my social life, i feel like i am in a good place, and i want to sit down with my mom and have actually have a conversation with her about my sexuality.

 

she has known that i've had relationships with males, but at the same i felt she was opposed to it probably because i was younger and she didnt want me to make that decision so early on....she has had issues with me and orientation before, but as time went on, felt like she was becoming more understanding of it i guess...never really understood her stance on it because she sorta flipped flopped on it.

 

i really want her to understand that i don't have an attraction to females, and i never did. and not only do i want to have a talk with her, but with everyone in my family, they probably already know i am gay, but never asked me about it...

 

only person who really knows i am gay and is comfortable with it in my family is my sister.

i ask myself everyday lately why do i need to hide it if it really seems so obvious.

 

so i want to talk to my mom soon.

Edited September 27, 2013 by Gno

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I hope the talk goes over smoothly and you can get a clearer (hopefully positive) view on how your mother feels/thinks and she can better/fully understand you.

 

 

thank you thank you :33

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this isn't LGBTQIA related but i really dont have a place to vent....

 

ill spoiler if you really want to read it^^

 

 

 

i recently got into a fight with my best friend, and i admit it was over some really simple shit but it happened..

 

so i was happy, but i wasn't happy funny as i usually was, i was studying for 3 hours without eating anything beforehand...

 

so we were txting each other witty cmnts, then i said i was "food deprived" and how language was a more important class then pottery(this didnt really matter).

 

she tried to tell me i was basically using the the phrase "food deprived" wrong and i was tryna sound all smart and shit, and that made feel like she saying i was reaching and saying im too dumb to be using words like deprived in a sentence.

 

and she said i should use the word in a more appropriate matter.

she does this all the time to make me feel like im saying shit wrong or not understanding something the right way and i got sick of it

 

so i told her to shut up while sending a pic of the definition of deprived. it may have been an exaggeration, but the fact that she called me stupid for not using the word ON POINT CORRECTLY pissed me off...and she told me i was taking it to personal yet she is the one typing paragraphs being sent in 3-5 msgs versus my 1. 

 

then it trickled down into some other stuff that's really irrelevant....

 

point it she tried to call me stupid, whether i was being serious about it or not. 

 

 

Edited September 28, 2013 by Gno

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What's wrong with "food-deprived"? Is it too insensitive to those poor children in Africa which she most likely does absolutely nothing to help?

 

i dont know what her deal was with me using the word, whether i said i was hungry or food-deprived, no matter how it was phrased it still meant that i didn't have food to eat.

 

and she said that i was refusing to listen to her, if it still meant the same shit why should i listen and have her call me stupid at the same time???

 

she was mad at me 1st and took shit way out of line when it wasn't even that serious at first...

Edited September 29, 2013 by Gno

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my grammar is horrible, dammit xD

 

she prob just wanted to be a little bitch to someone and wasn't expecting you to call her out on it.

 

yea she was really tryna to make me feel stupid but i had enough of her....

 

 

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OMG GUYS. ok so my friends birthday was today. we went out to eat and then went to a house party. everyone got DRUNK, except for me but they made me take like 2 shots....my throat was burning and i never want to have that feeling again.

 

and one of my friends ~ friends said that when he 1st saw me, he thought i was a LESBIAN     

OTL

 

i know i get called a female most of the time, but never thought i'd be called a lesbian         

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there are lots of unkawaii things, though.

 

like the phonecalls i keep getting that i think are from the old guy with the mumbled speech i met on the train that i didn't realize was probably trying to hit on me but i couldn't catch on because i couldn't understand what he was saying with that horrible mumbling.

 

or the messages i keep receiving from that guy who was too dramatic at me (and tbh a little rude) who is still asking me to meet when i already said we should look elsewhere because we don't match well.

 

x_x

 

gonna block the phone number

and that guy from my Line.

if i get one more call/message from either one of them.

 

block and report.

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its terrible....