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[gno]

This song is awful, they're gay as fuck, and part of me still wants to stan them. Help?!

 

 

 

They really remind me of that other really gay K-pop group—no, not U-KISS or AA—but I forgot the name. Pretty sure they had two transvestites, though.

 

They do look like Ukiss somewhat xD and I see a member that looks like a VIXX member lol

Edited August 14, 2013 by Gno

[gno]

hes one of them dudes where no matter where you pause the video, he's still fucking beautiful

 

and he's a supporter too, but he's one of those evil straight guys!!! TEASE!

 

 

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How do guys do it? Doing the club thing I mean. Does everybody get lucky when they go out? Or am I the only one who always gets dirty looks and stares? I always come home feeling completely mentally destroyed.

 

well there's dancing, if you're a dancer ofc

 

I'm never going (straight) clubbing again. My alcohol tolerance is next to zilch lmao. 

 

I had like 5 or 6 pre drinks at my friend's house before going to the clubs, and subsequently had 2 more vodka shots. 

 

Never again. 

 

The smell of vodka now makes me nauseated as fuck. 

 

yikes....i was going to do with one of my friends but we were going to an actual gay club, i also wanted to see what its like to get drunk atleast once....i probably wouldnt like it, but want to experience it... 

 

Ditto :D

 

Asian tolerance Q_Q.

 

My friend wanted me to go clubbing with her (to an Asian club). But then we went to a friend's 18th and she got drunk and now she doesn't want to go outside/socialise. Phew. I hate people. What do people even do at clubs, let alone gay clubs? Doesn't seem my thing, but I do want to try it once.

 

i want to try a gay club so badly, but i only know one person who would probably go with me, she has tones of gay friends also....

[gno]

 

• Real Life: Assume straight until proven gay.
• Tumblr: Assume gay until proven straight.
• K-Pop: Assume Gay even if proven straight

 

 

 

HAHA....

[gno]

^_^

 

 

Just stumbled upon this

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THIS IS KILLING ME, IM TELLING YOU GUYS, STRAIGHT GAY-FRIENDLY MEN CAN BE THE WORST TEASE EVER!

 

Okay I don't post much in this thread but I just wanna say wentworth miller came out , I knew it I knew it I knew it !!!!! My gaydar is perfection

 

Wow well he hot^^

 

I'm going to post his letter, because it was such an epic way he came out too:

 

 

BAMF 

[gno]

I have a question. How do you guys feel when the word 'gay' is being thrown away so easily? 'One Direction is gay!' Justin Bieber is gay! 'Cristiano Ronaldo is gay!' I don't really seem to get it, they could be gay, and? Do you feel offended by it?

 

if my friends say something like that when im around i pretend like im getting offended, and start to tear up, but its all in an joking manner ofc

 

but really cmnts like that bashing male artist is so played out...i cant imagine anyone really being offended by cmnts like those...

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omg how could I forget to tell you guys what happened to me yesterday!

Anyone ever been asked out by someone of the opposite sex who you were 1000% sure were gay? That happened to me yesterday. I still think he is gay, I was like what, seriously?! It was so weird.

 

 

UJI. UJI. UJI.

 

   

[gno]

^

 

i agree, while the amount of effort they put into their look show dedication and passion for it, i do think sometimes a lot of it is unneeded, like they still do drag, but tone it down just a bit.

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I get the feeling that toning it down goes against the whole idea. The point is to be excessively... excessive.

 

true tho....

[gno]

 

I need more awkward in my life.

 

OMG I DONT REMEMBER THE LAST TIME I KISSED SOMEONE....

 

BUT YAY I HAVE NEW HOTTIE TO DROOL OVER THANKS YOUS!!!

 

Woot. Finally done coming out to the people I wanted to come out to~ lol. 

Feels so good 

 

WOOOTTT! still in the process of doing that actually.

[gno]

what going on with everyone now that school has started??? i feel like my life is still stagnant despite recent events....

[gno]

with me there hasn't been much. School is school, work is work lol.

The only "exciting" thing with me is my declining health (knee getting worse, continuous throwing up)

 

what recent events??

 

omg why is your health declining! are working out and eating right??? 

 

recent events like school and otakon....and at otakon i got a guys number without asking for it, havent txted him, i added him on fb but he hasnt added me yet...

[gno]

I only barely made it to next year, so I'm feeling pretty good that I got my grade up from 5/10 to 8/10

 

GOOD! but was it at the last minute you pulled it up??? 

 

 

well my knee is from dance, so there is like little to nothing I can do about that. But I think the throwing up is from bad habits (like I was telling Siknow) and bad diet (I've been on a diet) and starting back exercising and dancing after not doing it for a while.

 

had to google otakon lol. Well that's good! Why haven't you texted him?

 

 

ok im relieved somewhat, what kind of diet are you on???

 

i haven't txted him cuz he's straight (i think), and i usually dont txt ppl first unless its dire, and thats my downfall...

 

omg this grindr is supper thirsty, msged me saying "yo, lemme ride dat dick" 

 

i immediately said "bye"

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I'm all about the last minute pulling, darling 

 

Oh my 

 

lol that never works.

 

 

its not one of those extreme diets, I just stop eating some things (noodles, some meat, sweets -the only thing I can't quit is soda- ) and regulate when I eat. I try not to eat more then 4 times a day and to stop eating after 6pm (which is sometimes pushed to 7 cause I can't cook and my mom makes dinner late). I exercise in the morning and then later at night (unless I had dance then I don't cause dance is enough lol).

 

you think? you won't know if you don't text..

why don't you? just do it!

 

 

omg LMAO. I seriously want to make an account on there just to see the weirdos.

 

ahh yea if yur just starting yea your body will reject the changes, i want to change my eating habits badly im sick of eating junk food...i try to cut soda as much as possible...but my grandfather recently made it a NIGHTMARE, he bought about 20+ packs of soda boxes....

resistance is hard....

 

and i want to seriously workout, but recent cut back at work has me short on funds for a gym i would actually go to, and im free on fridays to 

 

idk is was sometime ago, and he was drunk(or high idk) when he got my number...

 

 

you should some will have you have you laughing 

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Hey everybody! omg i had came back from ocean city i had a blast!

 

didnt meet no guys, but still had fun^^ 

 

but other then that on the convo above about healthy lifestyles, i have really been wanting to lose weight, because i feel like i am getting fatter and i dont want to be, the problem is i can't cook (sadly) and like i have alot of free time and want to try a gym but dont have the funds for it....

 

i want to move to cutting out sodas, which sometimes i go days without, but then just get sucked back in lol

 

i just started taking a health behaviors class and my teacher one of the best weight loss programs out there to do is Weight Watchers, should i giv that a try???

[gno]

^

 

imma need HIM to just release the dick pics already, he already look like he's packing.

Edited September 6, 2013 by Gno

[gno]

     

 

 

IDK what you're laughing at but i feel like you were laughing at my grammar mistakes....lord i need help i didnt realize i forgot the word "him" which was very crucial to that statement.

 

You're back!

 

 

 

 

 

jelly he gets welcome back sex. 

Edited September 6, 2013 by Gno

[gno]

No. 

I didn't notice.

 

ok good no one noticed then hehe^^

[gno]

IT FINALLY HAPPENED. I WENT TO A GAY CLUB!

 

 

OMG I ENJOYED IT SO MUCH!! 

 

the drags, the guys, the dancing everything was perfect! my friends fell in love with the male dancers, i loved it all!

 

i ws a litte gay shy, but as soon as o started dancing, i felt so good! danced on a couple of guys...omg i mad it ended too early tho! i only stayed for 4 hours....

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I wanna have so much fun again when I go out! Can I join you some time, maybe some of it will rub off.

 

if you live in dc ofc! xD

 

 

That's awesome!!!

Its nice that you enjoyed yourself

 

im so happy i finally went, next time im gonna have must up the courage to dance with more guys tho, and tip the male dancers i was too scared to go near them lol

[gno]

yesterday i was hanging with two of the other foreigners in my area and three japanese guys (i met two of them two weeks ago and one of them last night).

 

(summarized things a bit so it isn't so long:)

 

 

after we're all relatively drunk and have talked for a while, the topic of okama/gay comes up in conversation. after all that rum, i don't really hold back and say "don't most japanese people not understand the difference between okama and gay?" and so one of the japanese guys starts talking to me in detail. can't really remember what he says, but he asks "are you straight?" and so i paused for a moment and shook my head. "huh? you're not straight..?" i nod. "you're gay?" i say yes. "oh." he was kinda surprised. i was only talking to the one guy, but it was a small room and everybody heard.

 

anyway, they were totally friendly about it and all, which i was expecting (since japanese people generally try not to be confrontational even when they strongly disagree with something). what i was not expecting was that the atmosphere didn't change at all. the japanese guys (and of course my foreigner friends) kept actively talking with me just the same. i even got hugs later, and tons of high fives and handhold-swaying etc at karaoke afterwards.

 

._.

like i said, i don't expect people to react poorly or to completely stop talking to me, but i did expect them to be slightly colder.

 

that being said, i never intend to tell my coworkers just because that's an unescapable situation if things go south.

 

is this leaving you weary? like they might act cool infront of you but behind closed doors they secretly resent you??? 

 

How did you guys dance?

 

 

i was grinding on the boys mostly i enjoyed twerking my ass.

 

 

grind on some girls too  

 

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I would pay to see you twerk lol

 

 

I had a bad dream  

---nvmd

 

oh lord speaking of paying someone, my friend fell IN LOVE with two male dancers, they were working their asses on the walls, i couldnt look at them! i was to scared, meanwhile my friend was blowing her money on them dancers and touching them all over!!!

 

 

 

 

Added, welcome~

 

Should have known. Personally, I prefer the opposite. Having a guy's ass in your crotch is heaven.

 

one guy kept trying to pull down my pants, i was like "NO" to my friend dancing infront of us XDDD

 

I'm having a real moment of self doubt. My friends are all angry at me, they snap at me or don't want to talk to me and people I don't really know keep getting angry at me and I don't know what I did wrong.

 

i dont mean to be sound rude or mean, but your probably becoming one of those everyone's getting tired of, i used to feel like this sometimes, felt i was becoming too clingy and eventually more ppl got mad at me for simply saying hi to them....

 

best thing to do is leave these ppl alone and do your own until they come running back to you, or simply ask them "did i do something wrong?"

 

i had this ordeal with one of my best male friends, we were around each other too much, and ppl started calling him gay, but he took it out on me and me feel like shit, so i just left him alone...

 

 

You live in D.C.? Did you go to town?

 

Yes i did you were there on friday???

 

 

I wanna go to a gay club. But my main bitch totally is MIA at the moment. I'm not going to no gay club alone lol

 

no side friends you have who love to party???

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Not this weekend, but I do go there every once in a while. Every time I go there though I get hit on more by men than I do by women! (I'm female by the way) It's so annoying. If you meet someone named Claire who looks vaguely like Selena Gomez, hit me up! 

 

i dont know when imma go back tho, i want to go back soon tho! i had so much it has be a regular thing for me :33

 

My other friends are timid the only one I can think of might be too busy.

 

ahh i see i have friends who are like that too, dont want to go nowhere or when they do they dont tell me, well actually theyre night walkers, and im totally the opposite...

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Yeah, it's really fun. The nicest gay club in D.C. imo. Also they played 2ne1 once so I love them forever lol. 

 

omg we should go together sometime then! 

[gno]

Sure! PM me next time you go, I'll bring one of my friends and we can have a gay kpop party. 

 

yay!!!!