LGBTQIA Community Thread! If you're queer come here~

[sapphicsunmi]

ugh I really want a boyfriend but at the same time I'm super conflicted

 

I've never been in an actual relationship before so I'm a complete virgin to anything so while I want a boyfriend for the experience and to "have someone," I really don't know what to expect from it and im just uugehwbrebshsh

 

that and my astronomically high standards don't particularly match well with the fact that I can't get people to like me (aside from like two occasions, but in the most recent one, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship so I was like well that's such a waste)

 

im just a confused and lonely gay child like fuck

 

i need to find somebody worth being with and somehow charm them pls help me

 

 

I`m going trough something like that

 

I really want myself to fall in love but i can`t, i hate being that near with people and i hate the thought of relationships and all the stress but still i don`t want to be alone and i would love to have someone

I feel so alone and it would be nice if someone made me happy

I have one crush on this girl but she is really shy and i still don`t know about my feelings

And i have no idea if she likes me so it will probably never happend

 

And my friends are`nt so suportive about being gay, or its more like they joke about it, like one of my best friend (we are like six, 2 guys and the rest girls) seems really gay sometimes and my friens allways joke about it like today they told him that he should stop writing some things because people would think he is gay...

[sapphicsunmi]

Could i be added to that list ^.-

[sapphicsunmi]

 

how did i not know this thread existed

 

let me lurk a bit

 

 

 

Hii^^

 

[sapphicsunmi]

Ok so I wanna cry but I can;t because I  knew it would never work, but let me explain why I'm sad.

 

Okay so I had to do my Murder Mystery a couple hours ago which I totally nailed btw, but that's not the point. Anyway so you know that guy that I've mentioned I have feelings for who I think may be pan/bi/bicurious yeah well he was there and watched it and after the play ended I hung around him and my friends and tried to talk to him and he told everyone in the group who was in the play they did well EXCEPT me and during intermission earlier I asked him what he was eating and he responded all snarky and assholish to me so there went my hopes of dating him...............  Also I'm going through a really hard time and I'm just feel so alone. There are no gay guys at my school or near my school. Plenty of lesbians but ABSOLUTELY no gay guys  So I'm going to be alone til college woot woot. Well then again my best friend is moving closer to a much larger school and a larger city so there will have to be gay guy there hopefully.

 

So yeah I'm extremely sad................. 

 

Yeah well, now you know you should`nt date him   and i`m sure there are other gay guys in ur college

 

But i guess i should`nt be saying anything since i have never liked someone or felt something >< and i don`t really like people being close to me, but idk

[sapphicsunmi]

I'm in high school.

 

Oh i`m sorry its just that in ur post u wrote college..

[sapphicsunmi]

 

 

 

 

 

Not quite sure on how to feel right now. I've hated on exo since the heavens were made, but he's attractive. I'm angry but I see the truth. Physically he's blossomed and probably the best body in exo. I won't even take height into consideration. 10/10 would peg.

 

"I'm a lesbian cyborg but..." - user Krystalsdick

 

Ohh, thank god i`m not alone about feeling like that 

[sapphicsunmi]

Which kpop or korean singers have acknowledged lgbt fans? 

 

I wish I could find the picture, but Taecyeon and another member of 2PM wore pro-gay marriage shirts a while back at an event. Hoya from Infinite acknowledged that Reply 1997 gained him a lot of male fans. Woohyun and Sungyeol have also been known to do fanservice for their male fans at concerts and whatnot. 

 

When BoA debuted in the US she performed at a Gay Pride festival in CA and shouted "Gay pride rocks!"

 

Can anyone think of any more? 

 

Jonghyun had that thing on twitter where he supported gay rights i think..

[sapphicsunmi]

I did since whenever I could remember, I was a wild child though I got kicked out of two daycares for kissing two dudes on the cheek and sucked another guys dick at 8. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh my childhood was fucked up 

 

Wow...

Edited May 2, 2015 by Gain'sGF

[sapphicsunmi]

why do I find guys doing girl group dances so hot

 

Because they are hot ~

 

Sungjong is soo hot while dancing to adult ceremony

[sapphicsunmi]

So i was talking to a girl on my camp one night and we started talking about homosexualiy etc, and we started talking about feeling gay and we just started talking about not caring about our

 

And i realised that i don't care what my sexuality is and when i fall in love then i'll just fall in love, i don't want to put a label on myself, i've never been in love with a girl or a boy so...,

[sapphicsunmi]

 

 

YOOOOOOOOO!!!!! I can't stop crying

 

 

 

Supreme Court affirms right to gay marriage

 

I'm so happy for y'all in the US, i Can imagine how happy you are ^3^

[sapphicsunmi]

I wasn't close to them anyways, so it was easy. *rolls eyes* kbai

omg my brother shared a post from Hillary Clinton and a post of the Rainbow House

...and that pastor that promised to set himself on fire.

Hillary Clinton 4life

[sapphicsunmi]

I second this tbh. I like her semi decently. I hate politics as a whole and like neither party really (prefer democratic however), but I like her so far.

 

I really like her, but i'm really into politics and i love her and obama

[sapphicsunmi]

Do you ever find it weird stanning kpop groups/idols knowing that they might be homophobic? I mean coming from a homophobic society and all. 

 

As long as i dont find any evidence of them being homophobic then its ok

 

+ Most of my male biases are questionable /jonghyun, Key, Sungjong, Lee Joon, myungsoo etc/ and BAP is one of the most family like groups in kpop, especially Yongguk, he seems reallyaccepting and stuff

Edited July 25, 2015 by Jaehoe

[sapphicsunmi]

I need this >-<

 

[sapphicsunmi]

So i think im having my first crush on a girl now, its so wierd

[sapphicsunmi]

how so? im curious  :ninja:

 

 

I like everything about her i dont know, and i hate it because im always such an open person and i always speak like all the time but with her around me i just cant talk

 

We go play the violin together ones a week, but since ive been feeling worse i havent been able to go there many times which makes me really sad

 

I`ve never liked someone so this is kind of new to me...

[sapphicsunmi]

No, she stopped talking to me for a few days and then contacted me again saying she changed her mind and wanted to "try it out" but honestly I am so tired of people like that. I ended up getting annoyed and blocking her.

 

What the fuck, that`s like using someone just because u want to "try it" but dont care about the other persons feelings..

[sapphicsunmi]

hi  :derp:

hope you stick around here because this thread is dead af idk why   :cry:

i feel you 

like you just can't talk

for me i cant talk because i'm scared i would say shit that will make her hate me lmao

and if you have never liked someone, this must be new af to you

i would say don't rush to label yourself yet, bc i realized that im 99% gay for the past three years but SUDDENLY im thirsty af for certain guys as well  :rlytearpls:  :rlytearpls:

remember that you're paying for your violin lessons as well, so go there and say hi to her  :ahmagah: i know it's easier said than done, but...

 

 

haha yeah ive stopped labeling myself a long time ago, i just dont really care

 

Yeah, its kinda wierd how i feel hahah, its so new

 

 

that sounds so cute tho :meow: is she into you

 

 

 

Probably not but idk, but she seems to like me so thats good at least

[sapphicsunmi]

i'm just like ??? when people call themselves "Pansexual, Demisexual, X-sexual, Y-sexual" cause it's ok u don't have to label urself THAT much but if thats ur thing then sure

dw man you'll get used to it  :rlytearpls: likin a grill feels good to me tbh

 

 

for real i think that you can identyfie as whatever you want as long as it makes you happy and confrontable with ur self

[sapphicsunmi]

Hi everyone. 

 

I'm straight but I find the LGBTQIA community to be very interesting. How is everyone? 

 

Well im feeling like shit 

 

And u?

[sapphicsunmi]

i feel like i dont even kow who i m anymre, like i dont feel like anything >.<

 

i usually just say i identify myself as a potaoe to make people think its a joke

Edited November 20, 2015 by Jaehoe

[sapphicsunmi]

well it's ok to feel that way especially if you're a teen (assuming that you are rn)

i joined an LGBT club in my school and people say some of the people identified as queer if they're confused (like they just know that they aren't straight) or they're not really into labels but i'm not fond of that word, gay sounds better to me lol altho im not entirely gay

 

the club was so beautiful

this girl asked us "would you wanna be hetero if you had the choice to"

lmao we just said no

this other kid said "well i wouldn't wanna live boring lives" LMAOO

 

 

yeah rn im really confused so i alos jst see myself as queer

[sapphicsunmi]

So could anyone recommend some good gay mobila or series

I've watched alot of them so dont take the obvious ones Hahah, i've probs allready seen them

And fyi right now i just see myself as queer and demiromantic - ish

[sapphicsunmi]

 

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I guess I am the same with you but ofc there are exceptions

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thread is ded btw :^(

 

 

 

I knooow why is it

 

and im asking again

 

could someone recomend good queer movies, dont have to be english...^^