Have you ever felt so lonely

[Insane]

that any person that gives you some attention or is nice/polite ends up being your crush?

Even if you were never the type of person to feel the need of being in a relashionship, you know and enjoy to be alone.

Is it because it feels good to have some attention and you like to receive it but is nothing more than that or you really end up dreaming about being in a relationship with that person?

I'd like to understand that, I've been seing myself in that position and I don't like it.

[ninedaysqueen]

That's me to a T. It's probably one of the main reasons I've never had a boyfriend until now. 

[Deea]

Yeah i always feel lonely

[succhun]

Honestly, I like the attention (seldomly), but it doesn't go to extent of having a crush. 

[JaceyPanduh20]

Sometimes yeah, depends on the person though.  I kind of feel that way now, but I know nothing's going to happen with that person, so I ignore it as much as possible.  Plus that, even if something did happen, I wouldn't be able to really handle it since it'd be long distance.  I can't do long distance anymore because I need someone physically here with me.   Honestly, I don't like it either, because so many emotions are involved and you don't want the friendship to end because you get caught up in your own feelings.  Not to mention, it makes you feel entirely desperate.  I hate feeling that way.

[LeeTaeyongsWife]

I find myself liking anybody who reciprocates any kinds of positive feelings towards me, which they could do through providing me attention. However, I don't really 'crush' on people. I always chastise myself when I start feeling emotions like that, since I prefer being alone. I mean, crushing on people is inevitable if you spend long periods of time with them and are attracted to attributes they have, and I guess it's whether you pursue them or let the feelings come and go that really matters. If you don't like the way you're feeling, just try to ignore it. To be honest, I've done this before, and subconsciously I'll start moving on and not get too caught up in whatever feelings I'd previously been experiencing. Then, after a while of this, you won't particularly want the attention, or have a crush on the person any more. 

[Habitual Irony]

I feel like I'm on both sides, kinda.

 

Like I talk to and be nice to those that are lonely and they crush on me (most of the time) because they are receiving something they never had.

 

but it's tiring and myself love to be alone and I feel lonely sometimes since I don't feel anyone is giving me the same effort I give to others.

 

but when someone (IN REAL LIFE) saves my sorry soul (the way I want it), I really appreciate it but I don't think I will crush on them because I have very specific requirements.

 

so I'll end up depending on other things to heal myself...

[Insane]

I only get crushes on idols and anime girls.

 

 

I want experiences about real people.

 

Sometimes yeah, depends on the person though.  I kind of feel that way now, but I know nothing's going to happen with that person, so I ignore it as much as possible.  Plus that, even if something did happen, I wouldn't be able to really handle it since it'd be long distance.  I can't do long distance anymore because I need someone physically here with me.   Honestly, I don't like it either, because so many emotions are involved and you don't want the friendship to end because you get caught up in your own feelings.  Not to mention, it makes you feel entirely desperate.  I hate feeling that way.

  

But don't you think that if you persued it it might actually happens and work? The other person might also like you and something can happen? Not long distance tho, I get that, I wouldn't do anything either and just move on.

 

I find myself liking anybody who reciprocates any kinds of positive feelings towards me, which they could do through providing me attention. However, I don't really 'crush' on people. I always chastise myself when I start feeling emotions like that, since I prefer being alone. I mean, crushing on people is inevitable if you spend long periods of time with them and are attracted to attributes they have, and I guess it's whether you pursue them or let the feelings come and go that really matters. If you don't like the way you're feeling, just try to ignore it. To be honest, I've done this before, and subconsciously I'll start moving on and not get too caught up in whatever feelings I'd previously been experiencing. Then, after a while of this, you won't particularly want the attention, or have a crush on the person any more.

 

Yeah if you don't want anythig to happen I don't find it hard to just move on since I'm not yet that atached to that person. But other times the other person keeps looking at you, smiles and is nice... I'm just terrible and this type of things

[JaceyPanduh20]

 

I want experiences about real people.

 

  

But don't you think that if you persued it it might actually happens and work? The other person might also like you and something can happen? Not long distance tho, I get that, I wouldn't do anything either and just move on.

 

Yeah if you don't want anythig to happen I don't find it hard to just move on since I'm not yet that atached to that person. But other times the other person keeps looking at you, smiles and is nice... I'm just terrible and this type of things

 

I'd love it if it would, but I highly doubt they like me back.  We've only been talking for a few months, and they're someone who I've been opening up to a lot recently.. I guess it's my fault though, I tend to open up easily to people who make me feel comfortable enough around them and this is one of those types of people.  Maybe once we talk more I'll tell them, but at the same time since it's going to be long distance, I don't want to.  :/

[Black Alien Oppa]

That's me to a T. It's probably one of the main reasons I've never had a boyfriend until now.

you can have me.