Coordi_Oppa 458 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 is that possible? I been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years (I am male). I met a new female friend 1 month ago through other friends. Started hanging out with her I liked her, my bf liked her, she liked me, she liked my bf. There was flirting - I am a flirty person, he's a flirty person, she's a flirty person - I like flirting and didn't intend it to go any further than the harmless flirting between me and my bf and gf. This was not a lust thing or a hookup thing, there is affection and compatibility. So now...... what? the three of us are dating? Seems like it. Anyone have any advice Plz? i am afraid at the end i will lose both of them.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 um wtf. also no it wont work unless its like fuck buddies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dullldell 73 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 if polygamy can exist since long time ago, so 2 or 4 or 5 or 6 people relationship work out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Phoenix 105 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Three never works. You need four, to balance it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy mcflurry 2,385 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 It would never work with me. It's either me or the other ho. Can't have both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cat of The Canals 8,842 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Hmm are you a jealous person? and you don't know this person very well. What if she decides she only wants your boo? then y'all are gonna have to fight to the death and ain't nobody got time for that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
╯SHIwol╰ 2,348 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Wow... I remember the fanfics I wrote with this kind of story. As long as you're fine with sharing, I think it will work out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sublime 2,137 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 A completely smooth relationship with one is already hard enough to do though, so I doubt three ways would work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellectrified 3,571 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 It's risky and prone to becoming a huge mess, but it's possible only if you guys all work it out together. I'm worried about the jealousy though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exseultation 593 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 It depends on all your personalities honestly. It's risky because most people tend to become possessive in relationships, but if that's not how you guys are, then I don't see the harm. But make sure all three of you know what you're getting into. Conversation is key when it comes to a polyamorous relationship like that. You each need to know your lines and boundaries. Be very honest and very clear, otherwise it won't work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CreepyUnicornz 58 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 If only you can fight all the jealous in yourself later when you see them kissing and flirting with each other Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____shawnee 4,118 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 A completely smooth relationship with one is already hard enough to do though, so I doubt three ways would work out. what is icon battle!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeongBAEHyun 1,841 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 well, that's new... i guess if u really love both of them, and they love you just as much. i guess it would work... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piccolo's girlfriend 7,439 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 it's hard but communication is key. my roommates are a large group of gay men and 4 of them are polyamorous, one just joined the relationship but the other 3 have been together for 3+ years and it works just fine for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sublime 2,137 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 what is icon battle!!!!!! Patience Not a game though... kind of Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pr0chicken007 2,091 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Reminds me of a WenSeulRene fanfic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninedaysqueen 3,134 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 It can work but only if all 3 are 100% into it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messica 5,468 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 It wont. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyes 2,129 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 If you three are all polyamorous and like each other, then yes, it could work. If even just one of you isn't, then no, it is not going to work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 This sort of relation wouldn't work for me; I think having a relationship with just one person is enough for me and I wouldn't be able to handle more people involved. So that would be me just me, maybe it can work for you but I think you must be super sure and confident about what you're doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Bae 3,001 Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 So polygamy? Well if y'all are attracted to each other, then it could. But a lot of the time it doesn't work out too well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pseudo 1,135 Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 Polyamory is a thing, though not sure how long things will last. I think eventually one person will feel like they're not getting as much attention and jealousy happens haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 Lmao you remind me of my friend and his ideal "trouple" Nopeee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loveuseutory 36 Posted March 12, 2016 Share Posted March 12, 2016 I had read fanfic with the same situation orz I don't think it's going to work because 3 person relationship usually trigger jealousy that will eventually lead to a fight... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roshg 2,721 Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 lol, for me, it's a fuck no. I would NEVER share my significant other with someone else. I can't, I never will. But, if it's something that works for you and feel comfortable with, I see no problem as its your life and your decisions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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