I'm worried I'm dealing with an actually crazy dude. Please help it's urgent

[KinkySanta]

Okay, so this story started about a month ago when I broke up with my boyfriend. About a week after I decided to jump back into online dating to try to get over my ex. I found this one guy who I was not too crazy about, but he had a nice body, so I clicked like on him. He starts messaging me right away. I have a good conversation with him, so I gave him my number. I started to get into a conversation with him, but I decided to go hang out with my mom downstairs away from my phone and came back to him triple texting me. I didn't think much of this I just thought he was maybe someone who gets insecure when people go a long time without replying. He was normal and cool for the next few days, so we set up a coffee date for the next week.

Then we were texting one night around midnight and in the middle of the conversation I let him know I was going to bed for the night and he replies right away asking if I'm mad at him. I tell him I'm not mad and that it's just that it's midnight and I open in the morning. Then the next day he made a joke that I should delete my okcupid profile BEFORE WE EVEN HAD OUR FIRST DATE!!!!!!!!! Then he started asking about my schedule trying to see what days I'm usually off, so he can know when we can hang out again (before our first date even happened). At this point I decided to cancel our first date saying that, "It was too soon for me to start dating again and that I'm still not over my ex". I didn't want to be mean and figured he'd probably get the hint I didn't want to tell him that he was coming on too strong and scared me away.

 

Fast forward to two days ago. I get a message from him on Okcupid that says, "Ouch, guess it's not too soon since you're still on here." I ignore it because I figured that was the final straw and that he has given up hope....... NOPE. Fast forward to tonight I get a text from him that says, "hey" I ignore it because I initially got some weird vibes from him, so I didn't want to open up this door again.

thirty minutes pass.. I get a message on Okcupid from him that says, "Hey." I ignore it again because I was out having a good time with some friends and didn't have time for him.

I get home and what does he do? HE FUCKING CALLS ME! I  ignore him because I have never talked to this fool on the phone and wasn't going to start today. He then sends me a text that says, "I'd still be down to have coffee."

Then that's when I went on here to talk to you guys. I'm not sure what to do. Do I keep ignoring him? Do I block him? Do I give the explanation that he's coming on to strong for me? I'm not sure what to do because I was stupid and told him which mall I work at, so it wouldn't be too hard for him to find me if he's THAT crazy. what do I dooooooooo?

[noon]

holy sh*t

 

djasjnfnd stay safe. tell him how you feel. dont go to the mall. call your mom.

[ethereal]

just block him?

[denizen mars]

block this guy stat

[Astoral]

block him

[Pineapple]

I would just block him. Don't reply to his incessant cry for attention when you already made it clear where you stood with him. 

[JUSTFEL]

Block him.

 

 

 

 

NEVER give personal information to anyone you have not met in person

[Goten21]

but he had a nice body

Moterboat his abs before you break it off for good

[kixixxi]

WOW.. umn.. 

 

I kinda feel like you should actually tell him how you really feel since he seems not get get the hint from you ignoring him.. what a slow dude. wow.

[Bluegalaxy]

Block him asap

[Seulo]

Let him know he's coming on too strong and if he still doesn't get it, block him. 

 
If he shows up at your job, call security. 

[rayellaz]

block him. if not, change your number. i hope he doesn't live near you omg

[Coordi_Oppa]

tell him that what you really feel if he didn't understand then block him.

[KinkySanta]

update: he just texted me "guess that's a no" (in regards to going on a coffee date with him and me not replying)

[Inetrica]

just be like

[mochi-pyon]

Block him. And get a google voice number. It's free and you can give that number to people instead of your real one. Less messy

[Sailor Mars]

block his phone number and okcupid account. 

[terrifiedwolves]

Oh, man... this guy's going on creepy. I'd block him.

Hope you didn't give him any other type of information tbh, maybe change your phone number for good measure and don't give it out too soon! 

[KaniPi]

OP, something similar to your situation has happened to me in the past. However, this was with an past classmate of mine. There was no intention from my side to be flirty or start anything, I just chatted to him normally, but then he started getting really weird with his texts, and said things like you better call me or else, so I ignored him and blocked his number. He used to have me on Facebook, but I don't know about the settings and such, because I stopped using it for a couple of months, when I got back into it, there were countless one sided messages from the guy. So I know exactly how you feel.

 

My advice is, block him completely. 

 

If they still continue though, you could either tell him to leave you alone as you're not interested, and see what happens. If things get messy, report him to the police.

 

Also, delete your profile, or somehow make it private.

[FloralPastel]

Basically everything you listed minus you giving him a reason. He should understand by now.

[yourbias92]

He is not weird, he is just an amateur in qonline world and kinda have a crush on you

Since he is a stranger, on top of that in online world, you take him as a creep

Which is so humane. There is a chance that he is a good guy in real life.

But humane is like that, if he wont back off with your so called subtle sign, then you just have to tell him directly. Dont do something like ignoring him and expecting him to understand fully

[fvs]

just block him

[Suzy Quatro]

He doesn't deserve any kind of explanation, just ignore and block him.

[sonal♥]

two words : TELL HIM !

 

he looks like he is a very slow guy and doesn't understand why you're doing this. So just tell him that you don't like him or anything that will keep him off. Block him as well.