abra 40,910 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 So recently a rumour spread about Kris having had sex/been in a relationship with Chinese actress Im Shi Ya. http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/29457-nb-exo-kris-and-jang-geun-suk-mentioned-in-a-sex-scandal-rumor-with-chinese-actress-im-shi-ya/ The girl and another guy above. There doesn't seem to be any truth behind it at all, but it raises some questions: why are fans often so against idols having (sexual) relations with others? Is it because they believe they deserve better? Or do they want the idol for themselves? She's obviously very pretty and this was 2 years ago, so even if it was true it shouldn't be news worthy at all. When L was rumored to have a girlfriend it also became a huge issue, with many fans angered (not only because of her but also his tweet). My question is: Who would you be fine with dating your favourite idols? And under what circumstances? Would you only accept long and "innocent" relationships? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
المروة 745 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 None of us are in a position to be saying who oppar/unnir should date and who they shouldn't. Oppa can date a pornstar, idgaf, his life not mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinolover 3,610 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 uh Hyomin has good taste so if she fucks shindong it means he's actually a saint who has been painted as a fat shaming hypocritical demon who need some tender love. so Im not sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krystal Meth 11,336 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Jealousy, delusional and stupid belief that their bias is pure and innocent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Red 1,514 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My bias can date whoever they want..I'd only want for them to be happy in their relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teru 22,363 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I know a lot of fans do, but I don't really consider it my business. whoever he chooses, his decision is good enough for me and I would support them both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fake 13 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Because idols are "offered" and marketed in a way that fans think of them as their "property", that's why when a third party gets involved, some fans go crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovely_me 3,237 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I am ok with everyone who makes him happy. And its not our buisness whom he date and I dont "own" him, so i cant and dont want to deside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creampuff 5,745 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 As long as oppa is happy, creampuff is happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holke 2,349 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I don't mind who Kyung dates, as long as he is happy. However, I would be extra happy if it was Lizzy. They're friends, he thinks she's sexy, and he seems flustered when he talks about her. I would totally cheer them on together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whiteasian 732 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 i think their marketing lends them to being possessed by their fans tbh :/ but honestly i'd be happier if they were dating etc than not, it seems kinda lonely is they just worked all the time and didnt have a girl/boyfriend :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ PD Hercule Poirot ~ 1,868 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 They can be in a relationship w/ anyone they want I might not be happy about it but for them, I'll hold my tears in Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heethighs 807 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Heechul already has his oppaaaaa I iz a happy gurrllll ಥ‿ಥ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sofi 17,143 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 Jonghyun's "biggest" fan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jebin 3,682 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 That bullshit scandal about Kris is too much for my heart today I'm ok if that girl/boy is good-natured and love my bias with all their heart and soul. Appearance and social status are not as important. As long as my bias is happy, I can tolerate that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zakuro 2,788 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 They can be in a relationship w/ anyone they want I might not be happy about it but for them, I'll hold my tears in This. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cowgirlbebop 3,908 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I dont care. He is a grown ass man (older than me even, and Im a grown ass woman) and he can make his own choices. It's not up to me to be the gatekeeper of his life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asami Ryuichi 536 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Who would you let near your Oppa/fave? Me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 Me? Is that a question or an answer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asami Ryuichi 536 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Is that a question or an answer? a question mixed with an answer. LoL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyes 2,129 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My bias can date or sleep with anyone they want. They are not my property so I have no right to tell them what to do. These delusional fangirls who think they own their oppas need to grow the fuck up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loup 1,751 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Can you add unnie also in your question... Because in the craziness of believing our idol are our properties fangirls and fanboys are on same level... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 Can you add unnie also in your question... Because in the craziness of believing our idol are our properties fangirls and fanboys are on same level... I meant those too, but didn't want to write Oppa/Unnie/Noona/Hyung so just wrote Oppa/fave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PALEMOCHI 3,696 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 oppa and date who oppa wants in fact (taeyang)oppa needs to get out there and date i wanna hear that oppa has someone who making him happy beside i live to far away from oppa to give him any dating advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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