bella 7,052 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 I feel sad reading about everyone celebrating Eid with family and friends... my mom isn't close with people at the mosque & we dont go anymore and our extended family don't live here. I didn't even get Eid money or go out anywhere, just greeted a couple of Muslim friends I have (not a lot of Muslims here, most of my friends are Christian or otherwise) My parents just had a bad fight like always (thank god it didnt turn violent) and I just feel bad. I know this isn't really what Eid is about, but I can't help but wonder why my family doesn't celebrate it like everyone else & instead are always fighting. I guess I just want to have a real Eid celebration once in a while lol :/ I'm gonna make it better when I'm older and have my own family inshallah... Anyways, Eid Mubarak everyone!! awww don't worry inshallah everything will be fine with your family, an trust me i know how family fights can be ugly sometimes ,mine were fighting during ramadan :/ but now after long talk i had with them the stopped, so don't lose hope and try to talk to them about how you feel and enjoy eid without worries <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bella 7,052 Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 (edited) Thank you so much. But they've been like that ever since I can remember. I've gotten sort of used to it (u cant really ever get used to violence tho.) I've talked, I've yelled, I've even had a couple panic attacks when it got bad, they just don't stop. I know it's a horrible thing to wish on your parents, but I wish they would divorce. Sorry for dumping my problems on u lol. But yeah thanks <3 Don't apologize it's ok, i was used to it too like every one or two years the usually fight they had,even if they don't listen don't give up tell them how you feel divorce is a better option than watching them fighting i think the best thing to do is if some one relative to step in and talk to them i wish all the best with your family inshallah everything will turn to the good side and maybe it's a some test from allah to test your patient after all <3 Edited July 31, 2014 by bella Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bella 7,052 Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 They fight like once a week. The thing is, all of our extended family don't live here & they don't listen to anyone anyways (people have talked to them before). I'll be patient though and try to have relatives talk to them, like you said. You're right, maybe it is a test. Also, thank you so much, you made me feel better about all this. You're so sweet. <3 I hope you don't mind me asking but where do you live? Whatever happens inshallah ot will be the best for you Lol thank you <3, well I'm glad I could at least made you feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bella 7,052 Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 i can't describe how much i love his voice it's just soo relaxing in so many and i always get teared up listening to his voice http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JkvZKbmxDaU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vg4rnIO5FoE i might be late but eid mubarak <3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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