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Do support and respect trans people?


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  1. 1. Do you support Trans people

    • ofc i respect them
      41
    • No, im transphobic
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    • dont really know
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I mean in the way that you`d use their pronouns that they want u to use and if they change their name would u use that name


 


im genderfluid, and trans is like a umbrella term for people that dont identify with the gender that was given to them at their birth


 


Ofc im totally supportive


 


But do you support that im genderfluid or do you think its made up eh


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Yes. But I don't like it when they get angry if people misgender them. I know it hurts but people will call you by the gender that you look like. If they correct me and tell me what pronuns they want me to use, of course I'll listen to them and use those pronouns.

 

Your clothes have nothing to do with ur gender and it hurts alot so you should understan why trans ppl get sad and angry

 

but except that i think ur totally tight about the fact u should use theright pronouns the person wants

 

 

Edit: WOW did i just get neg because im stating a fact, im standing up for trans people

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respect goes both ways

 

and that means...

Yes, unless you want special pronouns and get angry at people when they "misgender" you by not calling you by your attack helicopter kin pronouns.

 

Its not a special pronoun its the pronoun teh person feel right with, and u dont know how hard it is for trans ppl so at least try to remember the pronouns

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and that means...

 

 

Its not a special pronoun its the pronoun teh person feel right with, and u dont know how hard it is for trans ppl so at least try to remember the pronouns

 

 

it IS a special pronoun. The only pronouns I use are he/him, she/her or they/them. No exceptions. I don't see how making a pronoun up makes you feel like the "gender" you are. Although I fully respect transgenders and all of that, I refrain from using pronouns that don't exist.

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it IS a special pronoun. The only pronouns I use are he/him, she/her or they/them. No exceptions. I don't see how making a pronoun up makes you feel like the "gender" you are. Although I fully respect transgenders and all of that, I refrain from using pronouns that don't exist.

 

it makes u feel valid, and i dont think a cis person has the right to say what feels best for a transperson so really you should just listen to them because there are non binary ppl yknow that arent a girl nor a boy and you should respect that

 

and those pronouns exist

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respect goes both ways

^ This

 

I am all for trans people (except otherkin). The one thing I don't like is when some trans people, especially those with no physical way to differentiate what gender they are, go bat shit on you for mis-gendering them. Tell me your gender, don't expect me to know it.

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^ This

 

I am all for trans people (except otherkin). The one thing I don't like is when some trans people, especially those with no physical way to differentiate what gender they are, go bat shit on you for mis-gendering them. Tell me your gender, don't expect me to know it.

 

 

(waht do u mean by otherkin)

 

excuse me so we are supposed to go to every person and do that

 

I think its the cisnormative society`s fault

 

You should not assume everyoe is cis

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Of course! It would be rude to just call someone "him" if they wish to be called "her". I will admit though that it takes me some getting used to, especially if I've known them one way for many years - but I will try my hardest to get used to it. But... I don't know about made-up pronouns that don't really exist  :unsure: I think it's called otherkin?

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it makes u feel valid, and i dont think a cis person has the right to say what feels best for a transperson so really you should just listen to them because there are non binary ppl yknow that arent a girl nor a boy and you should respect that

 

and those pronouns exist

 

 

 

okay, from now on my pronouns are frappeself/frappim/frapper

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yes and yes!

 

(To the points you listed, it seems what most people are talking about -treat you the same way you treat me- is a given in the general sense of a human relationship, but I think OP might be talking specially about how people interact within the umbrella of gender)

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(waht do u mean by otherkin)

 

excuse me so we are supposed to go to every person and do that

 

I think its the cisnormative society`s fault

 

You should not assume everyoe is cis

 

 

Then tell me, how am I supposed to tell what the person's pronoun or gender is if they do not look the part or tell me what their pronoun/gender is? Am I supposed to go through the list of pronouns till I reach the correct one? Why should I go up to every person I meet and say "What gender are you" or "what is your pronoun?" That's just stupid. If you want to be gendered properly then it is your responsibility to TELL people what you want to be referred to.

 

EDIT: Otherkin believe they come under the transgender cloud ~ Otherkin are a community of people who see themselves as partially or entirely non-human. They contend that they are, in spirit if not in body, not human. This is explained by members of the otherkin community as possible through reincarnation, having a nonhuman soul, ancestry, or symbolic metaphor.

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Then tell me, how am I supposed to tell what the person's pronoun or gender is if they do not look the part or tell me what their pronoun/gender is? Am I supposed to go through the list of pronouns till I reach the correct one? Why should I go up to every person I meet and say "What gender are you" or "what is your pronoun?" That's just stupid. If you want to be gendered properly then it is your responsibility to TELL people what you want to be referred to.

 

no but dont assume people`s genders, but i get it and i shouldnt be angry at you, 

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omg stop with ur anti-straight bullshit. Go to Tumblr and rage about how u hate the "Cisnormative society" cuz this isn't the place to do it u whiny tumblr sjw

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Yes. But I don't like it when they get angry if people misgender them. I know it hurts but people will call you by the gender that you look like. If they correct me and tell me what pronouns they want me to use, of course I'll listen to them and use those pronouns.

I agree. Most of the time I know what pronouns to use, like when a trans person goes from male to female they look like a girl so I call them 'she' or 'her'. But then you have those genderfluid or agender people and they really confuse me. In my language we don't have neutral prounouns like 'they' or 'them' so I never know what to call them...

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