Insane 728 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 So a few years ago my mother started getting along with this neighbor of ours. And this neighbor A got along with this other older neighbor B. The older neighbor B would tell my mom to be careful about the neighbor A because she would talk to B only when A needed B, like taking care of A's child. My mom didn't pay much attention as it didn't happen to her, never saw and people talk a lot. Well, B was telling the truth. B later moved, stoped talking to both A and my mom, that cleaned a painted B's new house but B never spoke to them again. So my mom and A became friends and also friends of A's partner and child. We saw that child grow up so it's like family. As friends they were they would go, and me most of the times too, go for walks, go to the beach, have lunch and dinners together, be at each other homes. We would eat a few times at A's house as my house is smaller. My mother would stay with the kid at night, the kid would sleep at my home because the parents would sometimes work at night. My mom would left her and pick her at school. My mother never asked for any money. My mom helped A paint her house. A gave my mother a oven and also A's sofa and TV. Not A things but A's mother things... My mother gave A's mother a closet and more furniture. A cleaned the building stairways. Once A went visit the family and my mother cleaned for that period. When A cameback my mother told A to keep the money and when she needed A would help her. Years after, My mother fell and broke a bone. At that time my mom cleaned the stairways. For a month A cleaned the stairways, keep the money for that month and wanted more. Never asked my mother if she needed help when she broke the bone, even while my mother would do a lot for A. My mother didn't like this but still considered her a friend. My mother didn't want to be with me on my birthday that same year when she broke her bone because she was going to paint A's bedroom. And everytime A's family where here on vacation A would barely speak with my mother, A would act differently than the rest of the year. Last year A started to only call my mother for walks on the days A needed my mom to stay with A kid. And when A family was here on vacation A would forget my mother completly. Execpt this one day A went to my mother criyng and was upset with A's mother. My mother offered A lunch. After the luch A left, said was going to meet the sister and didn't talk to my mother for a few more days. My mother got sick and started to stay away. My mother would iron A's clothes, and after A accused my mother of burning a shirt, and other teasing, my mom said she didn't want to do that anymore. A ignores my mom, not ever a good morning neither A's partner, my mom recently got surgery for her broken bone never even asked if she was okay. The kid says hi to us but I feel like the kid is being reprimanded by them. In a reunion with the people that live in the building, I felt that their intention is to not let my mother clean the stairways anymore (wich she doesn't do now, it's me). Another A's friend, C, told my mom that now A's kid stays at night at B house, after 5 years of not talking to each other and both said bad things about each other to my mom. Also A wrote on facebook that all the meat my mother ate at A house was a waist and that when she would watch tv, sit in the sofa and eat the food from the oven my mom would think of her (my mom doesn't gave the oven anymore, the tv is in my room, she only uses the sofa but not for long because the sofa is broken, and it was already like that when it was given to us). A also said that people reveal themselfs with time and that you learn how fake they can be (I think A doesn't realize how this is refering to A). I always thought my mother didn't do anything wrong and that A is a bad person, fake, not worth of being part of our lifes. But A makes it feel like it's right, that didn't do anything wrong and that my mother shouldn't be mad because she's not right... Sometimes I think "Did my mother do anything wrong?". Sometimes I doubt if my mother didn't had reasons to stay away... So if you have the patience to read this, what do you think? Was my mother right to stay away from A? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silicon soul 19,457 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
一日�秋 19 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 I feel like I'm reading one of those weird Korean celebrity rumors with these people being referred to as "neighbor A" and "neighbor B" hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaity 5,777 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 all i see is A and B Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ogre Shrek 8,980 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 Sorry...but all I can see are A.....A........A......A...A...A...B....A....A...A.......A...B...B...A.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leo's Candy Jelly Ho 3,458 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 I'm so confused... So B still takes care of A's kid even after B moved away or is there another B? And if B is then why did she say stay away from A yet she's still doing her favors? Well anyhow I think your mom should stay away from A. A sounds like a bitch lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 I'm so confused... So B still takes care of A's kid even after B moved away or is there another B? And if B is then why did she say stay away from A yet she's still doing her favors? Well anyhow I think your mom should stay away from A. A sounds like a bitch lol B stoped taking care of the kid when moved away. So my mom started taking care of the kid. Now, 5 years after B moved away and stoped talking to A, is taking care of the kid again because A asked B. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 I feel like I'm reading one of those weird Korean celebrity rumors with these people being referred to as "neighbor A" and "neighbor B" hahaha ahah I thought of that but then I didn't know how to write this... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunface 3,496 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 your mom didnt do anything wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 Sorry...but all I can see are A.....A........A......A...A...A...B....A....A...A.......A...B...B...A.. ahahahahah I laughed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Red 1,514 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 From what I can gather A does not sound like a nice person and was using your mother for her own personal gain. I don't think your mother did anything wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 your mom didnt do anything wrong great thanks I just feel like punching and beat that bitch up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Number Eight 514 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 i cant believe i read all of it when reading i imagined your neighbourhood being 1930s italy for some reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Temptastic VII 6,473 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 A sounds very manipulative - whether she realises it or not. You should never think something is your fault because someone else makes you feel like it is. That's bullshit. My mother has the same same situation with one of her friends, though not as bad by the sounds of it. She looks after her "friend's" child even though they don't really hang out and she cleans her friend's house and stays the night and travels to the city to look after her friends child... It feels unfair a lot. Especially when she doesn't use the time to spend time with her own children and would rather spend time with her friend's son. It's okay I guess though, because my family are all teenagers and he's about 4 - plus my Mum loves him a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunface 3,496 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 great thanks I just feel like punching and beat that bitch up lol dont do it she's not worth it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mnt21 702 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 A doesn't sound nice, she seems like she uses people to get what A wants Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ PD Hercule Poirot ~ 1,868 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 Neighbor A sounds like a user They act all nice and friendly when they want something but totally ignores you in front of their friends etc I had a friend like that once....I dump her in the end coz it makes me feel used and I don't like it at all Your mom definitely is in the rights of things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gayness 2,400 Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 what a user. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 lol dont do it she's not worth it ahah i'm obviously not gonna do it... Thanks everyone! I had already got over it but yesterday they really pissed me off... My mother stil talked to them and I ddin't give a shit about them anymore. I had move on but she would always tell me things our neighbors would have done and people on the streets talk... I always asked which neighbor my mother would be talking about because I had forgot about them but she would keep reminding me about these monsters who unfortunately live in the same building as mine... I was just so angry yesterday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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