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Who has a cuter nose, Taeyeon or Bom?


Dr. Kim (PhD)

  

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  1. 1. Who has a cuter nose?

    • Taeyeon
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    • Bom
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Before the freaking dragging comes in

Bom shows sypmtoms of Body Dysmorphia something that should not be made fun of. Bom's self image is broken, she sees herself as ugly. No matter how many times she tries to fix something she still sees herself as ugly. BDD has treatment but the person with the illness has to seek it, and clearly Bom has never sought it. People with BDD obsess over a certain body part as well, like hands, feet, face or nose, Bom did her whole face but seems like her biggest issue is her nose; as she's gotten it done various times.

Another big cases of BDD is Michael Jackson, The Bride of Wilderstein, Hiedi Montag.

DO NOT JUDGE. Rather think the reasoning behind the behaviour.

And to answer the question: I think the nose that suits Bom the best is the round, flat one which is what her original nose was. But like i said, she's got self acceptance problems.

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Before the freaking dragging comes in

Bom shows sypmtoms of Body Dysmorphia something that should not be made fun of. Bom's self image is broken, she sees herself as ugly. No matter how many times she tries to fix something she still sees herself as ugly. BDD has treatment but the person with the illness has to seek it, and clearly Bom has never sought it. People with BDD obsess over a certain body part as well, like hands, feet, face or nose, Bom did her whole face but seems like her biggest issue is her nose; as she's gotten it done various times.

Another big cases of BDD is Michael Jackson, The Bride of Wilderstein, Hiedi Montag.

DO NOT JUDGE. Rather think the reasoning behind the behaviour.

And to answer the question: I think the nose that suits Bom the best is the round, flat one which is what her original nose was. But like i said, she's got self acceptance problems.

BLESS YOU THIS ^^^

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BLESS YOU THIS ^^^

your welcome, i seriously don't understand why people don't realize BY THIS POINT that she's not showing normal behavior and is not okay and is something that is NOT ABOUT VANITY. I worried SO MUCH about MJ (i'm a HUGE fan of his) until he passed, now i carry the SAME worry about Bom. But all people is either be cruel and drag her and make fun of her (just like MJ haters did) OR think "oh its her body she can do whatever she wants, idols get ps anyways" WITHOUT thinking that a MENTALLY HEALTHY person DOES NOT CONSTANTLY GET PS, a person who is content with her/himself DOES NOT constantly get PS! 

#StayWoke

Neither are real but at least Taeyeon knew when to stop, Bom on the other hand....  :soul:

read my posts and stop be ignorant :smile:

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Before the freaking dragging comes in

Bom shows sypmtoms of Body Dysmorphia something that should not be made fun of. Bom's self image is broken, she sees herself as ugly. No matter how many times she tries to fix something she still sees herself as ugly. BDD has treatment but the person with the illness has to seek it, and clearly Bom has never sought it. People with BDD obsess over a certain body part as well, like hands, feet, face or nose, Bom did her whole face but seems like her biggest issue is her nose; as she's gotten it done various times.

Another big cases of BDD is Michael Jackson, The Bride of Wilderstein, Hiedi Montag.

DO NOT JUDGE. Rather think the reasoning behind the behaviour.

And to answer the question: I think the nose that suits Bom the best is the round, flat one which is what her original nose was. But like i said, she's got self acceptance problems.

I think you should be careful to 'diagnose' a person for any illness. You don't know anything about what Bom goes through and it's also none of your business. And since you don't know anything about her then how do you know if she's sought help or not??

We do know that she is/was depressed and so is probably many other idols and celebrities... Bom catches a lot of shit for it because people link her plastic surgeries with her depression and because of her scandal. I think it is condescending of you to think you can diagnose another person for an illness when you really don't know anything about her situation other than the little we get through media. Though it's good that you think no one should judge and I wish more people thought this instead of being immature trolls.

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Before the freaking dragging comes in

Bom shows sypmtoms of Body Dysmorphia something that should not be made fun of. Bom's self image is broken, she sees herself as ugly. No matter how many times she tries to fix something she still sees herself as ugly. BDD has treatment but the person with the illness has to seek it, and clearly Bom has never sought it. People with BDD obsess over a certain body part as well, like hands, feet, face or nose, Bom did her whole face but seems like her biggest issue is her nose; as she's gotten it done various times.

Another big cases of BDD is Michael Jackson, The Bride of Wilderstein, Hiedi Montag.

DO NOT JUDGE. Rather think the reasoning behind the behaviour.

And to answer the question: I think the nose that suits Bom the best is the round, flat one which is what her original nose was. But like i said, she's got self acceptance problems.

They know and don't care.

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I think you should be careful to 'diagnose' a person for any illness. You don't know anything about what Bom goes through and it's also none of your business. And since you don't know anything about her then how do you know if she's sought help or not??

We do know that she is/was depressed and so is probably many other idols and celebrities... Bom catches a lot of shit for it because people link her plastic surgeries with her depression and because of her scandal. I think it is condescending of you to think you can diagnose another person for an illness when you really don't know anything about her situation other than the little we get through media. Though it's good that you think no one should judge and I wish more people thought this instead of being immature trolls.

i am basing on my observations and i read the DSM5 (the psychology bible )Diagnosis of BDD and according to the DSM5 in order to be diagnosed with an illness you gotta have atleast 4 symptoms. and she FITS THE SYMPTOMS, all of them actually. Also, for my psychology class i did a research on BDD. BDD is the only reason or link to her constant plastic surgery that i can think of and It all makes sense and correlate but people often think i'm reaching when the ones who are reaching are them for saying she's just addicted to ps (with no cause or reason). When people who are "addicted" to ps ALWAYS HAVE A REASON behind it, THEY SIMPLY ARE NEVER CONTENT WITH THEMSELVES EVER. Like i said before, someone who has a stable and healthy mental self image DOES NOT go out and CONSTANTLY GET PS.

and why do people gott always say "it's none of your business" like it's a horrible thing to worry about someone?

i appriciate that last part.

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i am basing on my observations and i read the DSM5 (the psychology bible )Diagnosis of BDD and according to the DSM5 in order to be diagnosed with an illness you gotta have atleast 4 symptoms. and she FITS THE SYMPTOMS, all of them actually. Also, for my psychology class i did a research on BDD. BDD is the only reason or link to her constant plastic surgery that i can think of and It all makes sense and correlate but people often think i'm reaching when the ones who are reaching are them for saying she's just addicted to ps (with no cause or reason). When people who are "addicted" to ps ALWAYS HAVE A REASON behind it, THEY SIMPLY ARE NEVER CONTENT WITH THEMSELVES EVER. Like i said before, someone who has a stable and healthy mental self image DOES NOT go out and CONSTANTLY GET PS.

and why do people gott always say "it's none of your business" like it's a horrible thing to worry about someone?

i appriciate that last part.

I'm not saying we can never talk about this stuff and I think it's super important to discuss mental health because it is in many a places a taboo and a stigma for the people suffering from it. And I don't mean to say that we should just shut up completely about Bom, I don't know much about BDD and she may very well be suffering from it. However the reason why I think it's none of our business is because we don't know her. The way I see it, trying to diagnose a stranger is not doing them any favors and I don't think there's much we can do for her anyway that way. The best we can do for Bom is to support her and let her know we're there. I can only imagine how it is to experience having everyone knowing you're struggling with depression and I doubt she actually wanted to let anyone know in the first place. Having an illness is often very personal and well, how does she feel about speculating about her having A, B C and so on - she probably knows already. 

Bottom line is I didn't mean to imply we can never talk about mental illness and often times it can help other people understand and be more accepting, but at the same time diagnosing someone we don't know is, well wrong I think. Because it is a personal thing I kinda feel that we're doing more wrong than right saying she definitely has this or that.

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I'm not saying we can never talk about this stuff and I think it's super important to discuss mental health because it is in many a places a taboo and a stigma for the people suffering from it. And I don't mean to say that we should just shut up completely about Bom, I don't know much about BDD and she may very well be suffering from it. However the reason why I think it's none of our business is because we don't know her. The way I see it, trying to diagnose a stranger is not doing them any favors and I don't think there's much we can do for her anyway that way. The best we can do for Bom is to support her and let her know we're there. I can only imagine how it is to experience having everyone knowing you're struggling with depression and I doubt she actually wanted to let anyone know in the first place. Having an illness is often very personal and well, how does she feel about speculating about her having A, B C and so on - she probably knows already. 

Bottom line is I didn't mean to imply we can never talk about mental illness and often times it can help other people understand and be more accepting, but at the same time diagnosing someone we don't know is, well wrong I think. Because it is a personal thing I kinda feel that we're doing more wrong than right saying she definitely has this or that.

okay that is true, but i am SICK AND TIRED of PEOPLE DRAGGING HER AND CALLING HER NAMES so I take my time and explain WHAT MAY BE A REASON for her PS ,i am trying to spill some knowledge and awareness into the heads of THOSE TROLLS or people who are not troll but are iffy about her PS behaviour. I've gotten people tell me that because of my posts they stopped judging her and started to feel for her because she may have BDD and issues. I rather sit and preach and spread this around and make people aware that not everything is how they think they are and there are reasons and triggers for behaviour. People rather call her a plastic monster than sitting down and reflecting "but what is going on really with her? or what may be the reason why she gets ps?"

I myself never called her any names or anything because like i said i am a huge MJ fan and i started observing her behaviour and hearing things she says and IMMEDIATLY felt for her and i hoped and wish others did but NOPE . "PLASTIC MONSTER" "SHE'S CRAZY" "SHE'S DESTROYING HER FACE"

do you feel me now?

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okay that is true, but i am SICK AND TIRED of PEOPLE DRAGGING HER AND CALLING HER NAMES so I take my time and explain WHAT MAY BE A REASON for her PS ,i am trying to spill some knowledge and awareness into the heads of THOSE TROLLS or people who are not troll but are iffy about her PS behaviour. I've gotten people tell me that because of my posts they stopped judging her and started to feel for her because she may have BDD and issues. I rather sit and preach and spread this around and make people aware that not everything is how they think they are and there are reasons and triggers for behaviour. People rather call her a plastic monster than sitting down and reflecting "but what is going on really with her? or what may be the reason why she gets ps?"

I myself never called her any names or anything because like i said i am a huge MJ fan and i started observing her behaviour and hearing things she says and IMMEDIATLY felt for her and i hoped and wish others did but NOPE . "PLASTIC MONSTER" "SHE'S CRAZY" "SHE'S DESTROYING HER FACE"

do you feel me now?

Sure, I understand why you're saying it and it's def good that people start to understand. But again I think diagnosing someone is not the way to go... If I try to set myself in her place and hear that people are speculating about BDD or other stuff I wouldn't feel good. And as I said in the last post, we shouldn't stop talking about this, though what I took issue with is that we're so sure Bom is suffering from BDD. Yeah from the symptoms you described it seems likely she has it but at the same time we don't know anything about her. 

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Sure, I understand why you're saying it and it's def good that people start to understand. But again I think diagnosing someone is not the way to go... If I try to set myself in her place and hear that people are speculating about BDD or other stuff I wouldn't feel good. And as I said in the last post, we shouldn't stop talking about this, though what I took issue with is that we're so sure Bom is suffering from BDD. Yeah from the symptoms you described it seems likely she has it but at the same time we don't know anything about her. 

well is that you know, i just can't think of any other explination or reason behind all her ps. BDD is the ONLY thing i think it could be or at least makes sense that it could be that's all :unsure:

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well is that you know, i just can't think of any other explination or reason behind all her ps. BDD is the ONLY thing i think it could be or at least makes sense that it could be that's all :unsure:

Yeah maybe she has it. I'm also so sick of hearing people tearing her down and calling her names. I hope she's getting better with what she's struggling with. 

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Yeah maybe she has it. I'm also so sick of hearing people tearing her down and calling her names. I hope she's getting better with what she's struggling with. 

same here. My heart broke in two when i saw her in Roommate crying and explaining just how lonely she actuall is and when Sora called her an angel she broke down and so did i. Because Bom said she's been waiting from someone to say something like that to her for so long. Like how could aanyone ever not notice how gentle and sweet and nice she is? much less not tell. She's so fragile and that's what scares me the most because i don't think she handles harshness against her so well . She doesn't deserver the crap she gets :._.:  :._.:

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