GodYezi 102 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 I've had this crush on a girl from my high school for more than 1 year. At first we were friends and a few months ago I decided to ask her out and she didn't reply anything. I took that as a decline. Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my head. Even now, I still have some feelings for her. How can I forget her and move on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ピンク�クマ 4,739 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Watch anime! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelanatedBeauty 13,655 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 If she didn't reply she let you down easy sis...she's just not that into you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyLyte 177 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Get another girl? I dunno, you'll forget about the feelings eventually. Maybe try and focus on other things rather than her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
night vale. 8,071 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Understand that the people you like now won't matter once you graduate. As cliché as that sounds, it's honestly true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sillysone 6,340 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 You're gonna have to try and move on. By not replying she most likely rejected you sadly.. It sucks not getting a reply tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astoral 1,427 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Try to move on. hopefully your feelings will eventually fade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delphine 20,871 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 I'm very much afraid there's no definite answer to that question. I had a crush on a guy once, we had nice interactions online, and decided to meet IRL, as friends. We met, twice but he became super distant afterwards. I couldn't stop thinking about him, but clearly felt that he was distancing himself, so I was not pushing it. I went out with another guy for a few months, and even during that relationship, I sometimes would think about him, I eventually broke up with that guy, and that's when he came back to me, and we began talking again. I started to be very obvious about me being interested, again, and he distanced himself and vanished, again. It was super hard to live for a few months, until he sent me a very long mail to apologize about his behavior, saying he knew I had feelings for him, but that he couldn't reciprocate them and was totally lost at how breaking that news to me. Instantly after reading that email, I felt a huge sense of relief, and moved on quite easily. So, yeah, tl;dr, it can take time, but every situation is different anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Well just be upset at her for not replying. I usually cope with my feelings by getting angry at the person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Hyoshin's vocal coach 4,019 Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Oh I was going through this a few months ago lol. I just went on the look out to look for cute girls LOL. I eventually got over it Ok wait nvm I didn't read the part about being rejected. Idk what to do in that situation since I've never had that happen to me before. What I cam recommend is to eat some banh mi sandwhiches and listen to lovelyz's for you. It's a pretty healing song Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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