Dolv 2,015 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 damn i should never introduce her to exo~ nah jk put jokes aside.. ive been with my gf for bout 4 months now..yep 4 months. and ofcourse i love her. the past few weeks shes acting a bit weird, and i know something is wrong, but when i ask her, she said nothing!~ bout 5 days ago finally i know the truth..she had a bf and that really pisses me off.. i wanted to break, but she cried and said she still love me and doesnt want to break up i ignored all her call & text since~ but ealier today she came to me. she said she already ended the relationship with the other person and she said that she only want to be with me, but i told her that i need some time~ i still love her, but i couldn't accept the fact that she had a bf & lied to me.. so idk what to do now, should i just forgive her!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 A poor soul actually dated you.......hahah jk But yea dump her ass. If you forgive her she will just do it again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 forgive once, and you'll have to forgive twice~ my two cents though choose what you'll regret least (i'd dump her) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SATANIC SLUT 2,971 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 people who cheat on their spouses/partners are trash, imo i think cheating is an inexcusable offense. if she loved u like she says she does then she wouldn't have been cheating in the first place. just dump her, seeing as how she already has a guy that she is very willing to be with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sjofn 457 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Fuck the other guy. That will show her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Eight 6,542 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 If she loved you that much she wouldn't have cheated/be cheating on you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deaneira 581 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Forgive her. Its not wrong to give people second chances . Maybe she won't do it again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alisonn 5,454 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Was she cheating on her boyfriend with you, or was she cheating on you with someone else? But either way, if she can do it once, are you sure she won't do it again? Are you sure it's 'love' anyway? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolv 2,015 Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 A poor soul actually dated you.......hahah jk But yea dump her ass. If you forgive her she will just do it again can't blame her for that p.s maybe i should introduce her to btob next time~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolv 2,015 Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 Fuck the other guy. That will show her! but im not gay~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 can't blame her for that p.s maybe i should introduce her to btob next time~ Well they can actually please her so she doesn't cheat........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akisame 3,880 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Dump her, she's not worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Only you can know if she's being sincere. And by sincere I mean she truly saw what she was doing wrong and wants to do otherwise, not her taking action because she got caught and now she has no choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rio224 300 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 do you have other girls or prospects your interested in? if not give her a second chance. worst case scenario your dating her until something better comes along. best case scenario she ends up being a keeper.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chungie 1,215 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 people who cheat on their spouses/partners are trash, imo i think cheating is an inexcusable offense. if she loved u like she says she does then she wouldn't have been cheating in the first place. just dump her, seeing as how she already has a guy that she is very willing to be with. Basically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envied 5,831 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 do you have other girls or prospects your interested in? if not give her a second chance. worst case scenario your dating her until something better comes along. best case scenario she ends up being a keeper.. It shouldn't matter if he has someone lined up to date next because you don't have to jump into another relationship right out of the gate. OP, break up with the girl, it isn't worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rio224 300 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 It shouldn't matter if he has someone lined up to date next because you don't have to jump into another relationship right out of the gate. OP, break up with the girl, it isn't worth it. i think it's a mistake to cut her off if he doesn't have any other girls to talk too,he doesn't have to marry her geez.But she said she cut it off with the other guy and that shows she cares about you. Enjoy each others company but keep your guard up is all. if you cut her off do you wanna be that guy alone for halloween,christmas,and new years? christmas and new years are the best sex holidays besides february.ok she cheated on you just scratch her off as wifey material,and use her for fun and sex until something better comes along. it's up to you though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envied 5,831 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 i think it's a mistake to cut her off if he doesn't have any other girls to talk too,he doesn't have to marry her geez.But she said she cut it off with the other guy and that shows she cares about you. Enjoy each others company but keep your guard up is all. if you cut her off do you wanna be that guy alone for halloween,christmas,and new years? christmas and new years are the best sex holidays besides february.ok she cheated on you just scratch her off as wifey material,and use her for fun and sex until something better comes along. it's up to you though I would have to again disagree. It isn't about marriage material, it's about trust. Why would you want to be with a person you can't trust. She lied about being in another relationship in the first place, so who says she isn't lying again. You can enjoy the holidays with friends an family, you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rio224 300 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 I would have to again disagree. It isn't about marriage material, it's about trust. Why would you want to be with a person you can't trust. She lied about being in another relationship in the first place, so who says she isn't lying again. You can enjoy the holidays with friends an family, you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. lol yea were not gonna see eye to eye on this xD.it's up to you op,just giving you my 2 cents..i would just downgrade her in my head to "bootycall' or "friends with benefits" if you got nothing else going for you edit* btw she should get bonus points for even telling you about the other guy,she could of just kept you in the dark and not said anything and avoided drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envied 5,831 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 lol yea were not gonna see eye to eye on this xD.it's up to you op,just giving you my 2 cents..i would just downgrade her in my head to "bootycall' or "friends with benefits" if you got nothing else going for you Lol, no it seems not OP, at the end of it all it is ultimately up to you, but I think if you stay with this girl, there's a chance she could cheat on you again. If I were you, I would move on to something better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Forgive her, but don't date her again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awulos 633 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 She's not worth it, she's broken that trust and she'll probably break it again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taemin 220 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 I wouldn't give her a second chance. I could understand wanting to give someone a second chance if they cheated on you by making out with someone else, because that could've been a 'caught up in the moment' kind of thing, where lust and seduction and whatnot could've taken over for a bit. A moment of weakness. (It's still wrong, though. But I'd have more understanding for it) But if she cheated on you by actually dating someone else.. That's clearly not a 'caught up in the moment' thing. That's just a perfectly willing choice she made. A stupid choice, yes. But one where she probably was perfectly aware of what she was doing. And considering that it went on until you found out, and she didn't tell you and lied to you, it doesn't really seem like she felt guilty doing it. Just my opinion, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YIXINGISM 947 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Fuck the other guy. That will show her! Follow this one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winxred12 244 Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Real up with her, if someone really loves you they wouldn't cheat on you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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