Jean Grey 2,400 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Okay so I am close with one guy. He asked if I want to go on date to him. I just said 'I don't think we are meant to be together'. In other words, I rejected him. But I didn't tell him a reason. I am actually worried he would quickly break up with me or just get bored of me. And I would be stuck with these feelings. I ignored him for a while. He was sending me many texts and I just didn't know how to reply. After that he posted on snapchat some vidoes from party (he said he dosen't drink alcohol) and one video. He was making out with random girl in the club. It actually made me furious. I should have said a reason why I rejected him. I know it's totally my fault but now I can't undone this. After a week he messaged me and asked if we could be friends. Like what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Eight 6,542 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 You're both not being honest with each other. Have it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sillysone 6,340 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Well, you did reject him, didn't you? You can't blame the dude for moving on. But if you still have some feelings for him just let him know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bulldog 956 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 The two of you need to talk it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich witch 20,592 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 You're both not being honest with each other. Have it out. ^^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeusExMachina 332 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 You should've said that you liked him. But I'm guessing what you thought is right. He seems not sincere with his feelings for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Well, you did reject him, didn't you? You can't blame the dude for moving on. But if you still have some feelings for him just let him know. Tbh You two really need to sit down and just talk about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theoneandonly 529 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 im guessing your friend move on, and just wants to remain as friends? after all you did regret him. but if you guys still have feelings for eachother its better to be honest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 So you rejected him and now you're mad that he's flirting/seeing another girl but he still wants to be your friend? That's not weird/wrong of him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crescent 8,578 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 You rejected him and yet you're thinking like he knows you like him, the best thing would be to tell him tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean Grey 2,400 Posted January 13, 2016 Author Share Posted January 13, 2016 Ok I will try to talk with him. I just didn't expect him to move on (if he did) so quickly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Well keep in mind he might of moved on or he got desperate and upset so now is doing stupid things he doesn't actually want to do in reality, like everyone is saying talk to him and tell him everything and see how it goes good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHulk 479 Posted January 14, 2016 Share Posted January 14, 2016 He didn't move on. He's trying to distract himself from you. I've been there before and it's hard to just move on so quickly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Lurking Pervert 23 Posted January 15, 2016 Share Posted January 15, 2016 He asked you out and you flat out refused. Being furious at him even after refusing him is plain stupid. It is clearly your loss for having rejected him. Not only that, you rejected him without telling him why or even giving him a chance to explain himself if he did have intentions of leaving you later on. So why do you think you have any right to be furious? Now he texts you to be friends. He's being pretty nice about the whole situation. You're the one that messed it up for yourself. If you want to fix it then you're going to have to ask him out and probably explain why you rejected him in the first place. As far as your insecurity that he "would quickly break up with me or just get bored of me", all I can say is that relationships come and go, there is a very low possibility that he is going to be your first and last. Or probably just leave him be, work on your self first. Seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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