Should i stay with someone that i love but he thinks of me just as a friend?

[Coordi_Oppa]

:(

 

I am planning of saying goodbye to him and never talk delete his number too :(((

 

Or can i stay with him just as friend, i don't have any friends :(((

 

I am so sad and depressed :(

[Mr. Phoenix]

If he thinks of you as a friend, then you aren't "with" him now...right?  

 

Keep him as a friend.  Who knows who he might introduce you to, one day?

[Tiramisu.]

i was genuinely worried and about to answer when i looked at your rep, i'm not so sure 

[Coordi_Oppa]

If he thinks of you as a friend, then you aren't "with" him now...right?  

 

Keep him as a friend.  Who knows who he might introduce you to, one day?

 

I think of staying with him i will love him more and end up hurting myself more

[k8oboi]

you just need to learn to live without that "someone"

[Coordi_Oppa]

i was genuinely worried and about to answer when i looked at your rep, i'm not so sure 

But i am not a troll

[DeusExMachina]

If it hurts, stop seeing him as someone you like or love but rather as a friend. I've been to same situations. You need to stop talking to him for a while or maybe look for someone else to put your attention to and you'll get over him. You can still stay friends with him after.

[RealityCheck]

Love always involves two people, this is a big crush, but definitely not love, you could get over it one day so if it makes you feel better keep him as a friend for now, if it doesn't move on

[Tiramisu.]

But i am not a troll

Oh well, is he a good friend? do you share any secrets or memories? just be true to yourself and you will know what to do, don't delete the phone number and say goodbye since it seems really irrelevant to the situation you are in. Bing friends is better than being strangers to each other afterall

[Coordi_Oppa]

you just need to learn to live without that "someone"

We almost used to live with each other eat play video games watch movies go out together

 

I feel like i can't live without him :(((

[Aitso]

It's not like you have to never speak to him again. lol

 

Give yourself some time and rekindle the friendship. If y'all are as close as you say then you should be able to start right where you left off as friends.

 

I mean unrequited love is shit I guess but it's honestly a hell of a lot easier to get over than a loving relationship that crumbled. Just give it some time without speaking to him. He's obviously a valuable person in your life, sans romantic feelings.

[k8oboi]

We almost used to live with each other eat play video games watch movies go out together

 

I feel like i can't live without him :(((

hurts now, but you'll feel better in the long run

[Property of Goddess Irene]

He doesn't want to bang you?

[TheStrange1357]

Lol I'm in a similar situation. Friends are good tho. It's always good to have friends.

[deobizone]

hmm...it depends i guess. my former best friend, i liked him a lot. like relationship level, but he didn't like me back, but it was fine being just friends until he started talking to me less after a while, like barely talking in comparison. we used to talk everyday, but then he started talking to me only every 3-5 days, but when he did talk to me, acted like we were still best friends, i had to cut ties because i was more invested even in the friendship. but it only had to go down this way because we grew apart and seemed to get uninterested with eachother even on a friend basis. but, if you guys are good friends, there's really no reason to throw that out the window, you'll get used to the feelings and be over to overcome them with time

[Coordi_Oppa]

hmm...it depends i guess. my former best friend, i liked him a lot. like relationship level, but he didn't like me back, but it was fine being just friends until he started talking to me less after a while, like barely talking in comparison. we used to talk everyday, but then he started talking to me only every 3-5 days, but when he did talk to me, acted like we were still best friends, i had to cut ties because i was more invested even in the friendship. but it only had to go down this way because we grew apart and seemed to get uninterested with eachother even on a friend basis. but, if you guys are good friends, there's really no reason to throw that out the window, you'll get used to the feelings and be over to overcome them with time

 

Thank you i will put that in consideration.

[AuroraLove]

If he consider you as a good close friend and you think you can consider him as good friend then stay as his friend throw away any other feeling you have for him. But if you can't throw away your feeling for him then confess to him, get rejected & move on, don't wasting away your time for something that will never happen.